These are the things I (ADHD Mom of 3) use to keep things from boarding the hot mess express.
My current favorite. Just look into it. It’s pricey but worth it. Everyone in your family except your husband will love it.
Smart Family Calendar
Listen. My kids like to help pick their outfits out so now we do it all on Sunday. It’s easier to switch something out last minute than to dig in the clean laundry baskets every single morning and get mad when you can’t find anything to match.
ANZORG Weekly Kids Clothes Organizer Day of Week
It’s not the exact one but you get the idea. It’s visual for the kiddos AND colorful. It helps curb SOME of the meltdowns and avoids running late sometimes.
Rainbow Visual Timer
We don’t use this for my husband and I now that we have the skylight but I still use it for work! My bosses upload my calendar and it sinks immediately and stays updated if they make any changes
Google Calendar - Easier Time Management, Appointments & Scheduling
We keep all our recipes in here. It’ll create grocery lists for you and whatnot too. I need this as the shopper of our house