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The Intimacy Archive: Sacha’s Edit for Aligned Partnership
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items Most couples do not suffer from a lack of love. They suffer from a lack of intentionality. We get caught in the logistics of life and forget to actually look at each other. I curated this collection to help you move past the "how was your day" small ...
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The Conversation Starters (The Soul Work)
The Sensory Atmosphere (The "Big Light" Fix)
The Shared Ritual (The Experience)
The Conversation Starters (The Soul Work)
I paired mine with a strict no phones in the room rule to make sure we were truly present.
BestSelf Intimacy Deck - 170 Cards for Couples
Perfect for sitting on the floor with a glass of wine, and hearing a story about your partner you have never heard before
WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS Couples Card Game
This is less of a game and more of a storytelling experience. This is a staple for me and my husband.
Where Should We Begin? Interactive Couples Game
Our rule is to not look ahead. It's best to scratch off a mystery date and commit to doing it, no matter how silly it feels.
Couples Edition Scratch-Off Date Night Ideas
The Sensory Atmosphere (The "Big Light" Fix)
I use lavender and cedarwood oils in this during our Conflict Resolution talks to keep everyone’s nervous system calm.
Vitruvi Stone Diffuser, Ceramic
I love that this is an investment piece that lasts years. It is large enough for two, so keep it draped over your connection chair.
Barefoot Dreams® CozyChic® Throw, Stone, 54"x72"
I set the built-in timer to go off at the same time every evening as a silent invitation for us to put our phones away. I paired mine with a plush throw and a set of intimacy cards to make our evening ritual feel like a curated experience rather than...
Flameless LED Candles with Timer
I use this for our Bathside Chats where one person soaks and the other sits nearby to talk through the day. I paired mine with a high-end eucalyptus candle and a deck of intimacy cards to turn a simple Tuesday night into a restorative connection hour...
Salt & Stone Scented Candle for Women & Men
The Shared Ritual (The Experience)
This takes almost no time but keeps your eyes on what is working in the relationship.
The Five Minute Journal
We use this to craft a Signature Couple's Cocktail that we only make on our anniversary or special nights.
Belmont Measured Cocktail Shaker - Viski
There's nothing that says connection like a good massage.
Massage Game for Couples with Fun Surprise Cards
Ok so these may seem a little cheesy, but I promise my husband secretly loves them. There's something about a carefree and fun item that takes the weight off the day and helps you to enjoy your partner.
Magnetic Couple Socks
This is perfect for those evenings after a hard day at work. They help you destress so you can focus on your connection hour.
Aromatherapy Balm Sticks for Stress-Relief