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Survival Must-Haves for Moms with 2 Under 2

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If you’ve got two little ones under two, then you know — it’s beautiful and bananas all at once. This list is packed with things that have actually helped me stay sane (or at least semi-functional) through the chaos. From gear that multitasks to todd...
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Gear That Works for Both Kids!

You don’t need two of everything — you need smart gear that works for both your tiny tornado and your squishy newborn. These are my go-tos that helped me avoid buying double and made daily life way more manageable. Think: one stroller, one high chair...

 
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The PERFECT low-lighting for middle-of-the-night feeds & has a brown noise option (my fave)
Hatch Rest+ 2nd gen - Portable backup-battery powered, Night Light, Sound ...
 
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Used for both baby and toddler!! The weight limit is 40lbs, so you can use this for a good while! More bang for your buck!
Ingenuity: Bouncers
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Has a decent selection of sounds to choose from, and the battery lasts up to 15 hours!
Hatch Rest Go - Nap trapped no more
 
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BEST large display/split screen option! The night vision is just as clear as daytime! I can even soom in enough to see them breathe!
1080P High - Performance Video Baby Monitor BM01
 
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This absolutely AWESOME double stroller is honestly a treasure. It fits through most doorways, can be used from birth (w/ a car seat attachment), and folds up so easily. Not to mention it’s only 23lbs, which is much lighter than most I’ve seen!
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Daily Life Sanity Savers

This is the stuff that made me feel like I could actually get through the day. Whether it’s wearing the baby while chasing the toddler, having snacks ready on-the-go, or sneaking in a moment of peace, these items just made life smoother. Nothing fanc...

 
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This is the BEST structured carrier if you want great lumbar support for your back! I never really had an aching back even after a few hours of wear!
Lillebaby | Award-Winning 6-in-1 All Seasons – LÍLLÉbaby
 
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I know, a little intimidating at first, but TRUST ME. It's truly a life saver when the babies get stuffed up noses. Super efficient and WORKS WONDERS.
NoseFrida the SnotSucker – Frida | The fuss stops here.

Sleep Must-Haves

Sleep with two under two? LOL. But seriously — these are the things that helped me protect whatever scraps of sleep I could get. Think white noise, blackout curtains, backup sheets (because someone’s always leaking), and little tricks that made bedti...

 
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Has a brown noise option (among MANY others) and a WONDERFUL dim/soothing light for middle of the night feedings!
Hatch Rest+ 2nd gen - Portable backup-battery powered, Night Light, Sound ...
 
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When I tell you we are still using the same two Woolino Ultimate Sleepsacks years later, I'm not joking. It's because the quality is AMAZING - the fabric is so nice; we haven't had probelms with overheating; and they can use them till they outgrow th...
4 Season® Ultimate Baby & Toddler Sleep Sacks
 
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The LAST thing you want to do when you wake up is deal with wet clothes and sheets because your baby's diaper couldn't handle the load throughout the night. Get some diaper that can actually handle the task! We haven't had any issues with irritation ...
Huggies® Overnites Diapers

Activities for Toddlers While You're Busy With Baby

You sit down to feed the baby and suddenly your toddler needs all the attention. Been there. These quiet toys and activities kept my toddler busy long enough for me to nurse, bottle-feed, or just breathe for a minute. Low mess, low effort — just litt...

 
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Honestly, I think these are so cool and satisfying, and it seems my toddler agrees! And it seems they can withstand some chewing as well, which is a relief!
Pushpeel Silicone Sensory Fidget Board
 
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These are all the rage with toddlers these days. They can keep your toddler busy for a little bit AND helps them to use their imaginations!
Felt Story Boards
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ULTIMATE Scree-Free hack for toddlers! I have many good things to say about my daughter's Toniebox. Everything from the customizable tonies to the audiobook tonies are absolutely AWESOME. 10/10 toy
Toniebox

For YOU, Mama

Okay, real talk — you’re doing a lot. And you deserve a few things just for you. This section is full of little comforts and helpful products that made me feel more like a human and less like a 24/7 milk machine. Coffee that stays hot, water I’ll act...

 
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This was one of the things I bought when I was pregnant that I couldn't STOP buying when I had my second baby. Drinking a lot of water doesn't help much if you aren't getting enough electrolytes - especially postpartum!
Liquid I.V.
 
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Everyone deserves hot coffee, even you!
Mug Warmer
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A big ole' (adorable) coffe/tea mug that's microwave AND dishwasher safe?? A mommy necessity!!
Large 21 Oz Ceramic Coffee Mug, Dishwasher & Microwave Safe