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Essentials You Need In Your 90s Butter Mom Era
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items Products to up your inner-vintage-retro and achieve the trendy slow-paced 90's butter mom aesthetic. Even if you don't have children yet, but you have a heart for your home and family this is the place to start. Shop the items in the clothing, access...<3
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Clothing
Key pieces to spice up your wardrobe – with or without a baby on your hip <3
The cutest pearl snap denim shirt. Pair it with the matching jeans or whatever your heart desires.
Iconic Western Denim Shirt - Medium Wash | Levi's® US
The perfect striped tee to pair with high waisted shorts or vintage Levi's <3 This is an essential staple piece to go with the high waisted shorts and collared shirt look we love!
ASOS DESIGN oversized shirt with linen in blue stripe
Something a little warmer <3 You can also pair this with a colared shirt. Preppy either way!
Women's The Original Double L® Sweater, Cable V-Neck
Can we say obsessed? <3 Stripes are in. I love this look. It would make a great 4th of July dress!
Maeve Square-Neck Shift Dress
The perfect high-rise jean – comes in different colors <3 Personally I think this is the best wash.
Straight High-Rise Jean | Banana Republic Factory
The cutest swimmie <3. I also admire the modest coverage.
Sanctuary Piped Boyshorts
The cutest denim shirt <3. Or leave it unbottoned with a white tank?
Logan Short-sleeve Denim Shirt - Dark Wash | Levi's® US
The cutest (and modest) baggy jean shorts. Pair them with a big belt and a linen button-up <3
High Rise Baggy Women's Shorts - Medium Wash | Levi's® US
Gingham for the win! <3 Another cute collared button-down.
Women's Wrinkle-Free Pinpoint Oxford Shirt, Long-Sleeve Relaxed Fit Plaid
Butter yellow for the Butter moms <3 For the evening after your magical boat tour.
Gina Tricot batwing sleeve plunge neck satin maxi dress in butter yellow | ASOS
Signature jacket moment <3 Corduroy is a moment hands-down.
Women's Signature Corduroy Shirt Jac
Natural fiber for the perfect stroll. Light enough for a warm spring day <3
Women's Premium Washable Linen Pull-On Pants
The perfect linen top <3. I'm obsessed with this vintage look. It screams “woman”.
Farm Rio Scalloped Short-Sleeve Linen Rosette Top
Can't get enough <3. And Levi's are such a classic choice.
Women's 207 Vintage Lightweight Jeans, Mid-Rise Wide-Leg
100% cotton, 100% cute <3
Mare Mare Gingham Square-Neck Mini Dress
THE butter mom shorts <3. Don't even worry about the top but how cute with a button down shirt? Some stripes or gingham?
ASTR The Label Joellyn Shorts
Comes in white and many other colors <3. This has a similar vibe to the button down long sleeves, but better for warmer weather
Women's Bean's Seacoast Seersucker Scoopneck Shirt
It's giving Overboard <3. Like, yes, I do own that yacht.
Maeve Strapless Cotton Romper
Can't get enough gingham <3 And these pieces are much more affordable. Comes with matching shorts.
Women's Button-Front Tank Top - A New Day™ Brown Gingham
The matching shorts of course <3.
Women's Shorts - A New Day™ Brown Gingham
Comes in multiple different prints <3. Definitely could, can, will make a cake in this dress and then frolic with my ducks afterwards.
Women's Western Puff Short Sleeve Smocked Midi A-Line Dress - Universal Thread™ Green Gingham M
Cowboy take her away <3. Just as cute as the high waisted shorts, but a tad bit of extra femininity.
Levi's® Women's Iconic Mini Skirt - Woven Minutes 32
Dainty floral skirts ALL the way. pair with a cute white tank <3
Women's Pull-On Midi Full Skirt - Universal Thread™ Green Floral M
These are SO buttermom. I love. They're giving honeymoon in Italy.
Women's Pull-On Scallop Trim Shorts - A New Day™ Cream/Navy 14
A little something blue (or white, it comes in that color too) :)
Women's Mini Eyelet Halter A-Line Dress - Wild Fable™ Light Blue M
I love the scarf accessory on this dress. How iconic? And it comes in black as well! <3
Women's Halter Scarf Maxi Dress - Wild Fable™ Red Polka Dots S
Accessories
Key accessories to amplify the butter mom lifestyle
Retro RayBans for the moments you feel like you're in a higher tax bracket (or just want some cute sunnies).
Check out the Khal Bio-based at ray-ban.com
Wide Belts > for the butter mom look. I personally like a gold buckle, but that's me.
Oversized Wide Buckle Belt - Universal Thread™ Brown M
Nothing beats a tortoise sunnie <3 and these are much cheaper than the raybans.
WMP Eyewear Classic Round Acetate Polarized Sunglasses - Brown Tortoise/Dark Brown Lens
Basic sandals > because they go with everything!
CUSHIONAIRE Luxor Sandals for Women 2025, Strappy Flat Thong Womens Sandals with Adjustable Ankle Strap and Memory Foam, COGNAC 10W
Cutesy belt for all your high-waisted dreams, made by the people who make the jeans themselves.
Frankie Belt - Brown | Levi's® US
A white sneaker is an absolute must with the butter mom vibe!
Women's Mercedes Sneakers with Memory Foam Insole - Universal Thread™ White 7: Faux Leather, Lace Up
Stay Snatched <3. Another belt option for the girls. This is a bit more intricate and feminine compared to a minimalist design.
Women's Ornate Leather Belt - LASCANA - Brown Solid SMALL
For the minimalist who wants a metal frame for their sunnies.
Womens Satin Plastic/Metal Oval Sunglasses - A New Day™ Brown
Have a square pair <3. This time more affordable but you still look like you're from a higher tax bracket.
Women's Shiny Plastic Square Shaped Sunglasses - Wild Fable™ Tortoise
A bit more boho vibe, still classy <3.
Women’s Carla Sandals with Memory Foam Insole - Universal Thread™ Tan 8
Anotha sneaker :) diferent style/design.
Women’s Cadence Sneakers – All In Motion™ Off-White 8.5
The cutest satin scarf to add a pop of color to your outfits <3. Put it on your neck, in your hair, or over your head.
Anna-Kaci Square Satin Scarf Floral Lemon Print Lightweight Hair Neck Accessory 27.5×27.5Inches, Navy Blue
You can never go wrong with hoops <3.
Ear Cuff and Hoop Earring Set 3pc - A New Day™ Gold: Nickel-Free Metal, Post Closure
The perfect statement piece <3 Minimalist but high value.
Abstract Collar Necklace - A New Day™ Gold
The perfect dainty cross necklace <3.
Turandoss 14k Gold Cross Necklace for Women Girls - Gold Jewelry for Women Trendy, Back School Stuff for Teen Girls, Adjustable, 18+2.5in, Gold
Needless to say I'm obsessed with the little twist <3.
Silver Plated Braided and Polished Hoop Earring Set 2pc - A New Day™ Silver: Nickel-Free, Snap Closure
Dainty chain necklace anyone? A classic piece that isn't in your face.
Plated Herringbone and Box Chain Necklace Set 2pc - A New Day™ Silver: Polished Brass, Nickel-Free, Spring Ring Clasp
A pearl moment <3. I love me a good dainty pearl piece of jewelry. If it's not butter-mom, oh well!
Guili Sterling Silver Gold Plated Pendant Necklace with White Round Shell Pearl and Clear Cubic Zirconia, Elegant for Any Occasion
To match your floral prints or to use as a statement piece <3
Flower Charm Layered Necklace - Wild Fable™ Gold
A good old french twist hair clip or even hair style is the perfect addition to any butter mom outfit!
The Hair Edit French Twist Claw Clip: Fashion, All Hair Types, Metal
Turkish towels are great for travel. They're super lightweight and easy to pack. Additionally, they make a great swimsuit cover / wrap in a pinch! These come in pink, blue and green.
40"x72" Peshtemal Turkish Premium Lightweight Striped Oversized Beach Towel with Knotted Fringe Green - Threshold™
Home Good items
Somewhere between better homes and gardens, better crocker, and the modern pioneer woman <3
Natural fibers meet vintage elegance with a bright white clean aesthetic that shows you know what true craftsmenship looks like
Brandream White Quilts Set Queen 3-Piece
Ornate mirrors are staples in any vintage styled home <3. I personally like a gold or brass finish.
24"x36" Gold Vintage Wall Mirror with Ornate Baroque Frame - Arched Antique Design for Elegant Decoration
FRAME THOSE FLORAL / LANDSCAPE PAINTINGS!!
Petal Lane 8"x10" Long Stem Roses Wall Art: Vintage Style, Gold Frame, Botanical Canvas, Made in USA
How cute to keep your garden-picked produce! Or wash produce from the store and keep it in these bowls (I won't judge)
Set of 3 Stoneware Wavy Edge Mini Berry Serving Bowls Tan/Green/Cream - Hearth & Hand™ with Magnolia
For all your baking needs because you can never come to a cookout or 4th of July empty-handed. They come in multiple colors!!
Best Choice Products 3-Piece Ceramic Bakeware Set, Stoneware Baking Dishes, Casserole Serving Set - Pink Champagne
Perfect for blankets or other trinkets. I like the feminine scallop design
Scallop Natural Woven Gifting Basket - Threshold™
Comes in ivory and blue floral print <3. I guess I like scallops…
Stoneware Legacy Heirloom Appetizer Plate - Threshold™
For your beach / river / lake days <3. These come in multiple colors. Get one for yourself or the whole family can be color-coded.
40"x72" Vertical Wide Cabana Striped Oversized Beach Towel Yellow - Threshold™
Another shape to try – comes in ivory as well <3.
Stoneware Legacy Heirloom Dinner Plate - Threshold™
The cutest picnic blanket for picnic or beach days <3. I love that this is fold-up-able!
SCUDDLES Picnic Blanket Extra Large, 3-Layer Waterproof, Carry Strap - SCPRBL75
Perfect tea kettle for your morning or evening cup of cozy goodness <3
2qt Coated Tea Kettle Sour Cream - Hearth & Hand™ with Magnolia
A hosting necessity for a crisp glass of lemonade or iced tea <3. Pair it with a serving tray or even use it as a cute vase for fresh flowers from your garden.
90 fl oz Glass Tall- Pitcher with Handle - Threshold™: Traditional Clear Drink Server, Lead-Free
The perfect lemon print for spring and summer days <3. Spring tea party anyone?
Saro Lifestyle Casual Tablecloth With Printed Lemon Design, Multi, 65" x 120"
For your hoooops <3 (and all the other little trinkets of course).
Fluted Ceramic Trinket Dish Vintage Cream - Hearth & Hand™ with Magnolia