Mid-size, queer style essentials for every vibe. From cozy loungewear and WFH fits to lesbian date night looks and cool-girl shoes that pull it all together. Tomboy femme energy, always comfy, always a little hot.
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The Only Basics You'll Ever Need (Tops)
ACTUALLY Cute Lounge Wear
Going Out Outfits (Femme Lesbian)
Cool Girl Shoes
Intimates
Wedding Guest Attire
The Only Basics You'll Ever Need (Tops)
Elevated essentials I actually wear on repeat—some investment pieces, some spot-on dupes. Think quality tees, perfect tanks, everyday layers, and staples that feel good and look good. Mid-size friendly, tomboy femme approved.
I wear a size XL, they are so comfy and soooo flattering
COTTON JERSEY T-SHIRT | SOOT
I wear this ALL the time, I've gotten it in multiple colors but black and ivory are my go-tos. I wear a size XL!
Out From Under Je T'aime Mesh Cropped Cami
The whole Jersey Cotton line from Skims is my favorite. I wear this alllll the time, size XL!
COTTON JERSEY MOCK NECK TANK | SOOT
ACTUALLY Cute Lounge Wear
The pieces I live in—soft, oversized, mid-size friendly, and perfect for working from home or doing absolutely nothing. Comfy basics that still feel put-together, with a little tomboy femme energy baked in.
Actually the softest sweats ever, I got a size L and they're perfect!
Out From Under Essential Barrel Leg Sweatpant
Someone take this tank away from me, I have it in every color possible - i'm addicted lol
SOFT LOUNGE TANK | ONYX
These are a staple for me, I have so many colors! I wear them to hang out in, and sometimes under baggy shorts or pants just for a pop of color!
COTTON RIB BOXER | CHERRY BLOSSOM
Just another color I have, I wear these 24/7 all year round
COTTON RIB BOXER | MINERAL
The cutest puff print hoodies ever, make a statement with your lounge wear!
With Love In The Moment Oversized Hoodie Grey Marle
Heather grey & green puff print hoodie, a night time summer outfit classic
Offstage Hoodie Glacier Grey
Going Out Outfits (Femme Lesbian)
Lesbian date nights, rooftop drinks, bar hangs, and everything in between. Mid-size friendly, tomboy femme style with a mix of elevated basics and statement pieces. Cool, effortless, and just the right amount of hot.
Love these shorts, you can dress them up or down. Either way they're comfy and cute. I wear a size XL!
BDG West Village Wide Leg Trouser Jort
My go-to shorts right now, they're distressed so they look super cool. I wear a size 34 cause I wanted them extra baggy!
BDG Mega Mid-Rise Baggy Jort
These men's shorts are a staple for me, I wear a size 36. They are so comfy!
Men's Washed Black Baggy Denim Shorts
These shorts are soooo good, they're extra baggy! I didn't love the embroidery on the back, but then I got a bunch of patches from Amazon and DIY'd full patch work shorts, now i'm obsessed!
Men's Washed Black Cat Graphic Super Baggy Denim Shorts
I wear this skirt toooo much, it's so comfy. You can style it so many ways too. I wear a size L
SANTINY 16" High Waisted Women's Skort
These are so fun and comfy, you can dress them up or down and that's my favorite!
BDG Fast Track Low-Rise Cropped Nylon Pant
Same pants, another color! These are so fun you can wear them with a little tank or with a big baggy shirt depending on your vibe!
My most-worn pairs—chunky sneakers, sleek boots, and effortless styles that make every outfit feel cooler. Mid-size friendly picks for city walking, casual hangs, and lesbian date nights. Always comfy, always a vibe.
Aren't these CUTE?! I got them in red, they do run a little small, i'm usually an 8.5 but I got them in a 9 and they fit perfectly!
Puma Men's Speedcat OG Sneaker
Intimates
No underwire, no problem. These are my go-to comfy, cute, and actually wearable bras, bralettes, and undies. Mid-size friendly, soft support, and pieces you’ll actually want to live in.
This bralette is so comfy, it does run a little small so size up!
FITS EVERYBODY LACE SCOOP BRALETTE | ONYX
THESE are the shorts Iris is wearing to bed every night on Love Island!
COTTON JERSEY BOY SHORT | SOOT
Wedding Guest Attire
I wore this set to a big Toronto lesbian wedding and it was PERFECT. I didn't want to wear a dress, but a suit wasn't really my vibe either.
