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Books for Reclaiming Sexuality & Intimacy in Midlife

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Rediscover your body, desires, and confidence with this empowering collection of books for midlife women. Designed for women in midlife ready to embrace pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection, these reads help you unlearn outdated beliefs, heal...
 
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The Ethical Slut is the definitive guide to polyamory, open relationships, and sexual freedom. Updated with new interviews, conflict resolution tools, and inclusive language, it offers practical advice on communication, jealousy, and creating loving,...
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Better Sex Through Mindfulness offers a science-backed approach to help women boost desire, enhance arousal, and deepen intimacy. Written by psychologist and sex researcher Dr. Lori Brotto, this guide blends real-life stories with practical mindfulne...
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Sex for One is the groundbreaking classic that celebrates the joy, freedom, and empowerment of self-pleasure. Renowned sex educator Betty Dodson, Ph.D., dismantles the shame around masturbation and reveals it as a vital, fulfilling form of sexual exp...
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Tongue Tied is a bold, sex-positive guide to unlocking better intimacy through open, fearless communication. Sex educator Stella Harris shows how to ask for what you want—whether exploring new fantasies, deepening connection, or navigating kink—with ...
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Becoming Cliterate by Dr. Laurie Mintz is an award-winning, research-backed guide to closing the "pleasure gap" and empowering women to experience more fulfilling sex. Combining science, cultural insight, and practical techniques, Mintz debunks myths...
Becoming Cliterate
 
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Come As You Are (Revised and Updated) by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., is the #1 bestselling guide that blends cutting-edge science and compassionate insight to transform women’s sexual wellbeing. This updated edition includes new research on mindfulness, de...
Come As You Are: Revised & Updated Science
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Shameless: A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex) by Nadia Bolz-Weber is a bold New York Times bestseller that dismantles shame-based ideas about sex, gender, and desire. With raw honesty, humor, and a fresh take on Scripture, Bolz...
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The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra by Lance Dane is a richly detailed edition of the timeless Hindu love classic, featuring the first fully illustrated translation of all 64 sexual postures. Accompanied by 269 rare images from art, sculpture, manusc...
The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
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Sex Matters by Mona Charen is a sharp, research-backed critique of modern feminism, examining how its promises of “having it all” have failed to deliver true happiness for women and men. Drawing on social science, personal experience, and cultural an...
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