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The Cozy Routine Kit
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items This is the non-negotiable collection for creating a pocket of peace. As a Grief Mentor, I know that restorative rest is productive. Every item here is curated to help your nervous system calm down, anchor into the present, and feel safe. From the pe...
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Morning Vibes
Rest & Recharge: Bedding
Clean Space, Clear Mind
Comforting Wearables
Cozy Scents
Morning Vibes
This is my honest toolkit for starting the day with a small slice of peace. I need the right cup, the perfect coffee, and zero fuss. These are the items that help me slow down and find my center before the world starts asking me for things.
My absolute favorite holiday coffee! It has the best flavor, perfect roast - great just black but with sugar cookie creamer it's perfection!
Black Rifle Coffee Company Holiday Sugar Cookie Roast Ground Coffee
Flavored Coffee is honestly my fave. This cinnamania flavor is rich with cinnamon flavor without being overpowering.
Dunkin' Cinnamania Flavored Ground Coffee
Who doesn't like some caramel flavoring to go with coffee? The Dunkin brand ground coffee is some of my favorites. It's affordable, smells good brewing and tastes so good black or with creamer.
Dunkin' Caramel Me Crazy Flavored Ground Coffee
I cannot say enough about this brand - huge variety of flavors, cute apparel and gifts AND a portion of each purchase goes to help rescue pups!
Grounds & Hounds Coffee Co. | Craft Coffee that Gives Back to Pups
Literally love the Ninja Coffee Maker. Easy to use, easy to clean, brews pots of coffee and has capability of brewing individual cups as well. Frother on the side to make the perfect cup!
Ninja Drip Coffee Maker
These mugs are PERFECT for the holiday season - I love everything about them… the size is just right for my cup of coffee in the morning and I always love a cute design!
Winter White Coffee Mug
There's nothing worse than pouring a cup of coffee and having to rewarm it in the microwave so it stays hot. And if you're like me - you NEED that cup of coffee to stay hot! This plate has been amazing at keeping that cup staying warmed up so you can stay cozy and not have to worry about getting up to zap it in the microwave.
Coffee Mug Warmer
Your Non-Negotiable Nervous System Reset. This sampler is the cornerstone of my 5-minute mental reset ritual. When the anxiety or the client work feels heavy, the act of pausing to brew a cup of this calming, organic tea is an intentional system for ...
Yogi Tea Stress Relief & Relaxation
Rest & Recharge: Bedding
My bedroom is my safe space, and honestly, the sheets and pillows matter. These are my absolute favorites for creating a true retreat within my own home.
Best sheets ever!! Super soft, cooling. Wash well and stay soft after multiple washes! Extra deep pockets are perfect for thick mattresses!
Grey Queen Sheets - Bamboo Rayon
This Orthopedic Pillow for Neck Pain Relief is THE BEST PILLOW I'VE EVER USED IN MY LIFE! I've struggled with neck and back pain and this pillow saved me! It is so supportive and stays in place for the perfect nights sleep!
Mediflow Water Pillow
I hate a huge thick comforter on my bed. I started using these quilts and it was a game changer. Cool enough for the summer but warm enough for colder weather. The best part - washes well without bunching!
Quilts for Queen Bed
Working from home I need a supportive lumbar pillow to help with lower back pain. This pillow is the perfect size and fit for low back support.
Lumbar Support Pillow
Nothing beats a cozy fleece blanket. I honestly can't have enough - this one is super soft and perfect for a colder night on the couch!
Ultra Soft Fleece Blanket
Clean Space, Clear Mind
The chaos in my head is enough; I can’t handle a messy home, too. These are the cleaning essentials and organization items that make maintenance simple and effective. They create a system that lets me focus on what truly matters, not on cleaning supp...
As a former house cleaner, I can attest to the versatility and strength of this mop. It is easy to use, easy to keep clean. Mop head is perfect for use on wood, tile, laminate flooring. Also use this dry to wipe down walls and cellings.
O-Cedar EasyWring Microfiber Spin Mop
These wipes are perfect for small spaces that need disinfecting - hospital grade style!
Hospital Grade Disinfecting Wipes
Nothing better than furniture polish that doubles as a disinfectant. I love good ol' pledge but this multi-surface spray ability makes it even better.
Pledge Dust & Allergen Multisurface Cleaner
Dawn Powerwash isn't just for dishes - I use this to keep my shower and tub cleaned on a weekly basis. I've also used it on laundry stains and carpet stains as well.
Dawn Platinum Powerwash Dish Spray, Dish Soap
Scratch free sponges… say less! These sponges are absolutely perfect for all dishes BUT I like them best for cleaning the house. Stove tops, sinks, shower and tubs, sinks… etc etc etc. They soften with warm water but still have amazing scrubbing capabilities.
Scrub Daddy Sponges
Who doesn't love “clean” cleaning products. Literally all that is needed is water and then use the thinner cloth to create a streak free finish. I swear by these for windows, mirrors, and stove tops!
Norwex Window & Enviro Cloth
Comforting Wearables
These slippers are more than just house shoes; they are a crucial piece of my intentional system for separating work from rest. Slipping into them is a physical anchor that tells my brain: "The work is done; we are now prioritizing ease." The memory ...
Fuzzy Open-toe Slippers
These wide-leg sweatpants are a non-negotiable part of my system for maintaining softness and grace throughout the day. They eliminate the physical friction and restriction caused by uncomfortable clothes, allowing my mind to focus on high-value work...
Wide Leg Sweat Pants
This oversized tee is a non-negotiable anchor in my wardrobe system because it prioritizes comfort and simplicity. When mental energy is low, choosing clothes that feel good should be effortless. This basic piece eliminates decision fatigue and physi...
Oversized Long Sleeve T Shirts
When anxiety or stress is high, the body seeks warmth and protection. This fleece-lined, oversized pullover is a non-negotiable system for immediate physical comfort. It acts like a wearable hug, reducing physical tension and allowing your nervous sy...
Oversized Fleece Lined Crewneck Sweatshirt
This chunky knit cardigan is a non-negotiable part of my daily routine because it provides instant physical comfort without sacrificing polish. It functions as an intentional system to keep you warm and grounded during moments of stress or transition...
Open Front Cardigan
This pajama set is a fundamental part of my nightly system because it creates a clear, physical boundary between the workday and deep rest. The ritual of putting on dedicated sleepwear is an intentional anchor that tells my nervous system it's time t...
The Perfect Pajama Sets
These cloud socks are a simple, non-negotiable anchor in my routine because comfort should be accessible and immediate. Slipping into soft, warm socks is a quick, physical cue that signals safety and ease to the body, helping to reduce physical tensi...
Cozy Ultra-Luxe Cloud Socks
These spa socks are a non-negotiable step in my nightly ritual because true self-care requires multi-sensory input. The combined warmth, softness, and the calming scent of lavender act as a simple, intentional system to ground the body and soothe the...
Low Cut Spa Socks - Lavender & Vitamin E
Cozy Scents
This is the first thing I do to start my day. I fill up my diffuser and pick the oil of the day. Essential oils (especially the lavender) are scientifically shown to calm the nervous system. I use the timer function on the days I can't stay home but ...
Essential Oil Diffuser
Pair this with your diffuser! I love this sampler set because it covers all the bases for my self-care system: Peppermint for Focus, Eucalyptus for Breathe, and calming blends for Rest. It’s proactive wellness.
Plant Therapy Organic Essential Oil Set
This heat-resistant borosilicate glass pot is the definition of functional grace. It's a foundational tool for your kitchen and your emotional well-being. Use it for low-friction cooking (pasta, soup, milk), then easily pivot it to your "Cozy Scents"...
Glass Simmer Pot for Home Fragrance