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Books That Built Me
19
items A bookshelf for becoming. Mindset, mastery, emotional intelligence, soft power, and divine perspective all in one transformative stack.
Sections
5
🧠 Inner Empire
🌿 Rooted & Rising
🔥 Uncensored Truth
🕊️ Emotional Alchemy
🌸 Divine Femininity
🧠 Inner Empire
Mindset-shifting reads that rewire how you think, move, and lead. This section includes top self-development books on power, habits, influence, and strategy for all identities and ambitions.
A data-backed blueprint for rewiring behavior and building unshakable discipline.
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Timeless and controversial. This is power literacy, whether you wield it or guard against it. The next level is the 50 Laws of Power (50 Cent).
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
The foundational guide to relational intelligence and persuasive communication.
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Boundaries are a form of self-respect. This book offers practical scripts and mindset shifts to help you stop people-pleasing and start protecting your peace.
The Art Of Saying NO: Stand Your Ground
An OG in mindset and manifestation. This classic blends faith, persistence, and psychology to show how your thoughts shape your success. Whether you’re building wealth or personal discipline, this is the blueprint that started it all.
Think and Grow Rich: The Complete Classic Text
A masterclass in behavioral economics. Nudge explains how tiny design changes can shift behavior for yourself and others. Smart, strategic, and essential reading for anyone guiding choices in business or life.
Nudge
🌿 Rooted & Rising
Books that ground and elevate. Spiritual teachings, nature-based wisdom, and ancestral insight come together here to help you connect to something deeper than the algorithm.
Indigenous wisdom, science, and reciprocity braided together in stunning lyrical language.
Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom & Science
A clear guide to inner freedom and separating self from story.
The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
Toltec teachings that simplify spiritual growth and reclaim personal sovereignty.
The Four Agreements: Practical Guide to Freedom
🔥 Uncensored Truth
Raw, real, and radically honest. This section features disruptive reads that challenge the rules — from anti-perfectionism and identity reclamation to memoirs that burn it all down.
A no BS guide to prioritizing what really matters and letting go of societal noise.
The Subtle Art & Everything Is F*cked Box Set
This is pure no-nonsense, mindset-reset, take-your-life-back energy.
Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head
A raw and rousing memoir of breaking out of conditioning and coming home to self.
Untamed by Glennon Doyle
This one’s controversial, and that’s the point. A seductive read on charisma, manipulation, and desire as power. Use it with ethics, or use it as a mirror.
The Art of Seduction
🕊️ Emotional Alchemy
Self-work for the soul. These books focus on emotional intelligence, trauma recovery, inner child healing, and the psychology of transformation — no fluff, just deep shifts.
For self-sabotage, inner healing, and learning how to stand on your own emotional foundation.
The Mountain Is You
Foundational in trauma healing and emotional intelligence. It bridges psychology and somatic awareness.
The Body Keeps the Score: Healing Trauma
If you’ve ever questioned your path, your worth, or the meaning of it all, this is the soft nudge back to your soul’s alignment. A gentle but powerful read on intuition, fear, and destiny.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
🌸 Divine Femininity
Feminine energy, embodiment, sensuality, and sacred softness. This section honors intuitive power, creativity, womanhood, and the divine feminine in all its archetypes.
A sacred initiation into womb wellness, ancestral healing, and divine feminine leadership.
Sacred Woman: Guide to Healing Feminine
Myth, psychology, and soul-deep storytelling for wild, intuitive womanhood.
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths & Stories
Science meets self-love in this liberating take on sexuality, pleasure, and body trust.
Come As You Are: Revised & Updated Science