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My low-budget healing for mom rage - 5 books as a burned out mom who yells

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I'm a mom with mom rage who burns out easily. For 2 years I yelled then felt guilty. These 5 books didn't fix me, but this one line from each book stopped me from yelling at 5am.
 
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I'm a mom who gets mom rage at 5AM. For 2 years I yelled then felt guilty all day. This book made me realize I'm not a bad mom, I was self-sabotaging because I was burned out. I read it at 2AM while nursing. Not preachy, it just hit me. This is the f...
The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into
 
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This one is different from my other 4 self-help books. It's a novel about feeling alone in the dark - which is exactly how I felt as a burned out mom at 3AM. No one talks about how lonely mom rage is. You yell, then sit in the dark feeling like the w...
The Apple in the Dark
 
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This is the book I open at 2AM when I can't sleep from mom guilt. Each essay is 2 pages, perfect for exhausted moms. It made me stop overthinking "am I a good mom?". I keep it on my nightstand, read one essay when I want to yell.
101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
 
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My toddler throws food and I used to scream. This phrase "let them" saves my mornings. I whisper it at 5AM instead of yelling. From all 5 books, this one I use every single day. Not theory, it's my survival mantra as a burned out mom.
The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions
 
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This book stopped me from labeling myself as a "bad mom with mom rage". Dr. Becky says I'm a good mom having a hard time, not a bad mom. I used to yell at 5AM then cry in the bathroom. Now when my toddler hits, I say "you're having a hard time, I'm h...
Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be