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Baby essentials I actually use as a FTM 💯
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items A real-life list of baby items I actually use daily as a first-time mom. No hype — just the things that genuinely worked for us and made newborn life a little easier 🤍
Love this sound machine mainly for the different light options, super helpful during the night time— the red light is my fav!
Brown Noise Sound Machine with 30 Sounds & Night Light
We love this bc it can also transition with your baby as they go from swaddle to sleep sack
Transition Baby Swaddle 3-6 Months 12-18 lb
My daughter loved this one bc she was one of those that loved having her arms out instead of tight by her sides when being swaddled
Newborn Sleep Sack Swaddle 0-3M, 3-Way Adjustable
Another great option if your baby hates having arms swaddled by their sides!
GLLQUEN 3-Pack Organic Baby Swaddle Sacks
One of my daughter’s faves when she was a newborn! She was able to be snug while also having her arms by her face
Swaddle for Newborns 0-3M 5-13lb, 1Pack
A great bottle to start with when first bringing baby home! Also keep in mind the nipple sizes!
Dr. Brown's Natural Flow Anti-Colic 4oz 4pk
My daughter had trouble with even the size 1 nipple so the preemie flow was a lot better for her, helped with alleviating a lot of spit up and reflux episodes
Dr. Brown’s Preemie Flow Narrow Baby Bottle Nipple, Slowest Flow, 0m+, 6 Count
A MUST for those diaper bumpies! Also this lasts for a long time bc you just need a tiny bit, it’s nice and thick and works really well. We use it for rashes on our baby’s body not just diaper rashes and it works just as well
Boudreaux's Butt Paste Max Strength Diaper Cream 4oz
We put some Vaseline on the new diaper prior to putting it in baby, and it’s helped prevent a lot of rashes or bumpies!
Vaseline Petroleum Jelly Original 3 Count 13oz
A great affordable monitor that works well! We haven’t had any issues with it, and no WiFi!
iFamily Baby Monitor 5" Screen, 30Hrs Battery, PTZ, No WiFi, Two-Way Audio, Night Vision, Temp, Lullabies, 960ft Range
hands down the best burp cloths to use, nice and soft and super absorbable!
Muslin 100% Cotton Baby Burp Cloths 10x20
the one and only caddy we have and love it! You can also change the size of the compartments with the built in velcro so you can customize the size of pocket for all the essentials.
Baby Diaper Caddy Organizer with Changing Mat
by far my favorite carrier that my baby can actaully sit in and be comfortable! Takes such a weight off my back and arms
MOMTORY 6-in-1 Baby Carrier Plus Size Friendly
This was my favorite carrier when my daughter was a newborn to about 3 months, it was easy to tuck her in and get things done while she slept and got that skin to skin at the same time!
Baby Wrap Carrier Sling for Newborns up to 35 lbs
my go-to wrap/carrier when we go out-- super lightweight and fits in the diaper bag with ease. Great for when I need to get things done around the house and want to have baby on me too
KeaBabies Baby Wrap Carrier Ring Sling - Black
This came in handy to help babies hair grow evenly when that bald spot in the back of the head starts peeking out. Helped my babies fuzzies get more even with the rest of her hair
Pro Goleem Satin Bassinet Sheet Lavender
Great for helping baby nurse comfortably and also great for when they're older and start practicing tummy time or sitting up – plus my daughter loves the bears on them!
Nursing Pillow Breastfeeding Pink Bears
This is the car seat we have installed in my car, as a first time mom I had anxiety about taking my baby in and out the car seat/stroller. This car seat/stroller is so easy and light weight! Plus comfy for baby too
Chicco Mini Bravo Sport Travel System - Grey
This came in handy for those days baby wanted to be snug while napping – helps mimic being held while sleeping.
Aila + Aiden Organic Cotton Baby Lounger - Pink
soooo useful for traveling with baby! Also, great to have around the house bc it has wheels, you can roll baby along with you throughout the house!
Pamo Babe Portable Foldable Playpen Crib
By far our FAVORITE brand of diapers, light weight while also preventing leaks and we haven't had any major diaper rash or anything. Works well overnight as well, I suggest sizing up for overnight to avoid changing multiple diapers unnecessarily.
Bambo Nature Hypoallergenic Baby Diapers Size 3
You would think others would not ring the doorbell or knock when you have a new baby but you got to let them know! Protect your baby's sleep!
Shhh Baby Sleeping Front Door Sign - No Knock
Perfect for tummy time or mirror play!
ALASOU 3PCS Pop Suction Cup Spinner Toys
Our favorite onesies that are lightweight, warm and soft! BONUS: They're bamboo material!
Jimonda Baby Romper Bamboo Pajamas 0-24M
an absolute need when taking baby places, super compact and takes minimal room in diaper bag or purse
7in1 Baby Travel Bottle Cleaner Kit White
Great accessory for car seats or strollers for pacifiers and/or teethers
5pcs Adjustable Silicone Toy Straps for Baby
Such a fun way to make bath time fun while traveling or if you lack a bath tub and have a stand up shower!
Mommy's Helper Inflatable Under Sea Baby Tub
the light feature on this comes in handy especially at night, helps baby not freak out bc it can get pretty dark back there!
Baby Car Mirror with Light, 7 RGB, Remote
I've used momCozy and Lansinoh breast milk baggies but these Willow ones are IT. They also are able to stand on their own making it easy to pour in or out.
Willow 8oz Breast Milk Storage Bags 100ct
I love this for when baby starts teething and eating puree's! It steams, blends and puree all in one! Super easy to use and doesn't take a lot of space.
Grownsy Baby Food Maker with Steam Basket
My baby LOVES this teething oil and I can use it as needed throughout the day, especially before naps! Great for putting on teething toys as well.
Punkin Butt Natural Herbal Teething Oil 1oz
Love using this to help baby sit up and mine loves hitting and playing with the middle blow up part!
Baby Inflatable Seat w/ Guardrails & Pump
a teething mitten is a MUST when baby starts teething. My daughter loves this little dino!
Itzy Ritzy Silicone Teething Mitt - Green Dino
Great for breastmilk popsicles or frozen fruits to chew on!
Silicone Baby Food Feeder & Freezer Tray
A fun teether to chew and nibble on but also helps with baby's grip and motor skills!
3 Pack Silicone Baby Teething Rings 0-24M
a STAPLE in baby's bedtime routine for when we massage her feet!
Vicks BabyRub Chest Rub with Aloe & Lavender, 1.76 oz
This oil is used on the outside of the cheeks and its a nice little top off relief for baby during those extra hard days/nights
Teething Roller Baby Oil Massage 2PCS
great for getting rid of that bald spot and protect your baby's beautiful hair
SiinvdaBZX 2 Pcs Satin Crib Sheets Beige & Sage
A must for that floor play and tummy time practice! Easy to vacuum and wash in the washer
Baby Play Mat 71x59, Thick Soft Foldable
the night vision works really well with this camera-- I've tried other ones and the night vision is usually what makes me return them. This one is a keeper!
Shybaby 1080P Baby Car Mirror w/ 4.3" Monitor
Great for the summer time and those hot car/stroller rides! Charge stays for a good while too.
Car Fan for Backseat Kids Adjustable Rechargeable
This was a game changer for being on the go when our baby was a newborn and we still liked to warm the milk up for her!
Portable Battery-Powered Bottle Warmer for Travel
A drying rack that helps keep everything organized and clean on the counter top.
Dr. Brown's Stand-Up Baby Bottle Drying Rack
Out of all the plug in pumps I've tried, this one is my FAV. Super easy to assemble and clean. The extra bag, little cooler and extra parts were a huge help!
Evenflo Select Advanced Double Electric Pump
Our baby got a pacifier from the hospital and she got used to those ones which mimic these ones! She doesn’t like nah other paci
Philips Avent Soothie Orthodontic Pacifiers 4-Pack