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Wedding Things I'm Obsessed With 💍

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Everything I’ve loved (or wish I’d had) for wedding season — whether you're planning your own, helping a friend, or just looking for inspo. From bachelorette party ideas and outfit finds to makeup, wedding day must-haves, and vendor recs, this list c...
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Bridal Outfits for any occassion!

From dress shopping, to bridal shower, to the bachelorette and rehearsal dinner, you have so many bridal events to attend. This means so many outfits are needed! Check out my inspiration for all of those big events.

 
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Darling white dress for a night out with the girls, getting wine, dressed up for dinner. And easy to wear after!
Anne Tiered Eyelet Mini Dress
 
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Can be strapless or spaghetti straps, perfect for a going out on your bachelorette!
Erica Ruched Satin Mini Dress
 
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Oh my gosh - the most stunning hat you'll ever see! Perfect for the bachelorette party.
Denise Pearl Embellished Cowboy Hat
 
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Picture this: bachelorette trip to Florida, you have all your girls there. You spend a day cruising around on a boat, in an adorable white swimsuit. You need a hat to keep the sun off your face, and you pull out this adorable Bride hat. Suddenly ever...
Bride Tonal Trucker Baseball Cap
 
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The most stunning dress for a rehearsal dinner, welcome dinner, bridal shower, really any bridal event!
Julie Embroidered Tulle Midi Dress
 
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Stunning beaded bag perfect for any bridal event - bachelorette, rehearsal dinner, wedding day, honeymoon. Has a strap, or can carry as a clutch!
Caitlin Pearl Embellished Scallop Clutch Bag
 
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Looking for comfort all day on your wedding? Ditch the heels, and grab some pearl sneakers instead!! Bonus points - these are super cute to wear after your wedding too!!
SB-SIDNY IVORY Pearl Sneaker | Women’s Pearl Sneakers
 
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The cutest bride-to-be veil for your bachelorette!
TWPER Bride to Be Sash Veil Bachelorette Party

Wedding Day Must Haves

Everything you might need (or didn’t know you needed) for the big day — all in one place. This list covers it all: getting ready outfits, signage, ceremony details, table numbers, decor accents, emergency kit items, comfort hacks, reception extras, a...

 
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This is a cross you build together during your ceremony. It comes with a script for your officiant, each piece symbolizes something about your and your spouse and relationship to God. It's a beautiful way to add some religion to your ceremony, and it...
Hand-Finished Black Walnut & Solid Steel Cross
 
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We did a t-shirt toss at our wedding and it was the highlight of the night! I designed a concert style shirt, we threw 8 into the crowd and people loved it. Such a fun and unique thing to add!
Wedding T-Shirt Toss: Reception Trend Everyone's Talking About
 
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I found it so important to have comfy shoes leading up to the ceremony, something to easily slip on! These are PEFRECT and make for such cute photos!
Bride Pearl Embellished Fuzzy Slip Ons
 
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This gold arched mirror made for a stunning welcoming to our wedding sign, and bonus points, its a beautiful piece to put in our home afterwards!
20" x 30" Filigree Arch Metal Wall Mirror Decor in Gold - Walmart.com
 
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This neon sign made for such an adorable photo op at our wedding!
You + Me LED Neon Sign
 
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Summer wedding and worried about the heat? These fans are perfect! My friend purchased these for her bridal party, they even held them with their bouquets during the ceremony. Useful, and also so thoughtful!
JISULIFE 3IN1 USB Mini Fan w/ Power Bank
 
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You need a pretty ring box for your detail shots! This one is perfect, it's the perfect light neutral color, goes so well with any color theme. Highly recommend!
WantGor Velvet Hexagon Ring Box, 3 Slots
 
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While they aren't completely necessary, foam glow sticks highly elevate your dance floor for such a small price. They are so so fun in the pictures, and encourage more people to get out there and have. Don't know how to dance? Pump that glow stick in...
Jiahz 32 PCS LED Foam Glow Sticks Bulk

Kansas City Wedding Venues + Vendors

If you’re planning a wedding in or around Kansas City — this one’s for you. These are venues I love, plus local vendors like florists, photographers, makeup artists, and more. Some are well-known, others are hidden gems I’ve come across while plannin...

 
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Literally STUNNING wedding venue south of the Kansas City area. This place is perfect. The outdoor area is beautiful, the indoor area is beautiful. Bridal suite, grooms room, full kitchen for your use. You get decorations, tableware, a day of coordin...
Fireflies Farm
 
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We used Complete for our DJ and they were phenomenal (specifically Wyatt!) They had such an easy platform to fill out all your information, pre-wedding meetings and communications with the DJ of your choice. Wyatt helped out with more than just music...
Complete Wedding + Events
 
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Ice cream dessert at a wedding?! Say no more! We love the Meltbox!
- Melt Box Ice Cream -
 
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Such a fun idea for cocktail hour! Adorable snack cart, aesthetically pleasing AND yummy treats? Deal!
The Snickety Snack Bar
 
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Everything from licensed bartenders to portable bar carts! They have hot chocolate and coffee bars, they bring decorations, and they are so wonderful to work with!
Mr. & Mrs. Bartending