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Toddler Must Haves // Autism Edition
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items A curated collection of sensory-friendly essentials made to bring comfort, calm, and confidence to everyday life. From soothing textures to tools that support focus and regulation — these are the little things that make a big difference.
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On-the-go Comfort
Learning through Play
Eating But lets make it cute
Therapists that Care
On-the-go Comfort
Because having a big toddler means regular strollers just don’t cut it anymore. We’re all about keeping them comfy, safe, and supported while still making it easy for us to get out and go. These are our ride-or-die essentials for staying mobile witho...
I have a 2.5 year old Autistic son and he’s too big for a stroller so we got the Wonderfold wagon. It is heavier than most strollers but we love how comfortable he is!
wonderfold
This is AMAZING! You can throw your kiddos snacks in there and have your Starbucks. It’s kid and adult friendly.
Wonderfold Flex Snack Tray Table with Cup Holders | W and L Series Wagons
The BEST stroller on the go. It's light and folds up easily. It's great if you toddler is tall too because a lot of strollers are too short for Tatum and the cover hits his head.
Bugaboo Butterfly 2 travel stroller Heritage black sun canopy, heritage black fabrics, black chassis | Bugaboo
All weather mat so those snacks don't get stuck to your $$ wagon!
WONDERFOLD All Weather Mat W4 - Black
My child uses this to help with his sensory needs and also I like to put these on him so he won't put other things in his mouth.
Chew Necklaces 7 Pack Sensory Toys for Kids
Super durable chewy that doesn't break off easily. My son recently has really been needing oral sensory input and this thing has helped significantly. I have noticed other ones he chews through it because it isn't as tough.
ARK Textured Grabber XXT Sensory Chew - Royal Blue
Learning through Play
Learning Through Play These are the toys my son is obsessed with — the ones that actually hold his attention and help him learn without pressure. Sensory-friendly, safe, and made for endless repetition (because, yes, he’ll spin that one toy all day i...
We always joke my son is gonna be a dj when he grows up because his thing is music and spinning things. It’s a fun cute toy for your little kiddo to explore.
Fisher-Price Laugh & Learn Mix & Learn DJ Table
This is a great activity for stacking and cause and effect when the blocks fall down.
Deluxe Jumbo Cardboard Blocks - 40 Pieces
Tatum LOVES spinny toys and this is his favorite one, on the go too!
Fat Brain Toys Baby Toddler and Learning Toy MiniSpinny
Great toy for fine motor skills.
Fisher-Price Kitty Ball Tower
Tatum drives like he a crazy mad man and it funny because it makes the sound effects.
Laugh & Learn Smart Stages Sit & Steer Driver
My little guy loves motion and this is fun in doses. Dont want my little guy getting too dizzy haha.
Simplay3 Two Sided Rock Around Wobble Disk
My little guy is obessed with these and they are great on the go, in the bath, at resturants, on the airplane. Anywhere and everywhere!
ALASOU 3PCS Pop Suction Cup Spinner Toys for Toddlers
This thing has been the ringer but it's still going and he loves it!
Light Up Spinning Top Toy with Flashing Lights
Great for imaginary play and fine motor skills to stack and putting the boxes in.
Coogam Montessori Sorting & Stacking Blocks
Eating But lets make it cute
Feeding a little one isn’t one-size-fits-all — it’s 10 spoons, 3 sippy cups, and at least 5 containers of “their exact snack” just to survive the day. But when you get it right, life on the go is a little easier — and snack time becomes stress-free.
Obsessed with these sippy cups 🤍 Not only are they super aesthetic, but they also come with different straw options to match your little one’s sip speed. Functional and cute—yes, please!
Moonkie Baby Silicone Straw Sippy Cup 2pk
Tatum has eating therapy and I needed something to put his food in to-go, and of course had to find something cute, so I found this!
Bentgo Kids 5-Compartment Leak-Proof Lunch Box
These are great on the go because they keep smoothies, water, juices cold and they are larger for longer days at school or Disney trips.
REDUCE 14oz Kids Tumbler 2 Pack, Leakproof
Yes, he’s still a bottle baby — and we’re embracing it. These bottles are lifesavers: recommended by a lactation consultant for their breast-like nipple shape, they make feeding easier, comfier, and a lot less stressful for both of us.
Lansinoh Anti-Colic Baby Bottles 8oz 3ct M Nipples
Therapists that Care
I am a stickler about finding facilities that actually care about the kids and their progress and not just there to get paid. If you are in the Diamond Bar area or close to it. I HIGHLY recommend this facility for PT, OT, and eating therapy. They car...
Sensory Bridge Pediatric Therapy