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Toys, etc. that my neurodivergent kid loves - Autism Edition

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These are some toys and other things that my kiddo on the spectrum has really enjoyed. I know sometimes it's tough to figure out what to get for birthdays or other events, so I hope this list will give you some good ideas!
 
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Both of my kids are obsessed with these Danny Go! Color Beat Drumsticks. They love singing and keeping the beat with the sticks as well as watching Danny Go! and singing the songs while they mimic Danny Go! Keeps them moving, builds fine motor skills...
Danny Go! Color Beat Light-Up Drumsticks
 
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This series keeps my son entertained for hours. He has them memorized and listens to them on audiobook too. Lots of reading with great illustrations.
Captain Underpants Color Collection #1-3 Set
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Have you watched the movie Temple Grandin? If so, you'll get why some neurodivergent kids love the feeling of a gentle “hug," similar to what this sensory peapod (I call it the boat) does. It works great to provide a sense of calm. Also, it comes wit...
Sensory Chair for Kids 6-12, Inflatable Peapod
 
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If your kiddo has pica or likes put things in their mouth and bite them, I'd avoid this one. Otherwise, this is so nice and soothing for, well, anyone that plays with it! It's firm, yet pliable and always goes back to it's original shape when done.
Schylling NeeDoh Dream Drop Sensory Toy 3"
 
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Will you get sick of it? Probably before you little one does! Now this one is for the little ones. It makes noise, bounces around after you hit or bump it, and works best on non-carpeted areas, like the kitchen. Ours was used and abused and still wor...
Baby Music Shake Dancing Ball Toy BPA Free
 
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Great if you have a chewer in the house! My kiddo loved chewing on his shark tooth as an alternative to the other things that he used to chew on…like our cabinets, drywall, clothing, etc.
Chew Necklaces 6 Pack Sensory Toys for Autism ADHD
 
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Kept my son busy for a surprisingly long time. He enjoyed matching the colors and then watching as the image emerged. A surprise hit!
Lite Brite Classic Retro Toy - STEM Art Kit
 
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The Fidget Games are just fantastic. Squishyland is an amazing phonics game that covers Pre-K through 2nd grade. The thing I love about this game is that you can use different decks for different kids, thus tailoring the game experience to each kiddo...
Fidget Game SquishyLand Rainbow Reef - Phonics & Learning Toy Set
 
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The Floor is Lava anyone? Not only is this a great “toy” for proprioception and toe walkers, you can make it into The Floor is Lava game and all the kids will be jumping from stone to stone, having a blast. These are almost indestructable (they're ma...
Special Supplies Kids Stepping Stones - Indoor/Outdoor Balance Blocks
 
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The Calm Carry relaxes my kiddo when he starts to feel overwhelmed. It's a gentle electric pulsing in the palm of your hand. You can change the intensity to your preference, and just know that shipping takes a minute, but it will arrive! I have one o...
CalmCarry®
 
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Squishmallows are durable and can be cuddled endlessly, and used as a pillow (when I get dragged into their bunk beds to cuddle, I always use one as a pillow). Squishmallows are wonderful squishy friends that always have a place near my kids!
Squishmallows 14-Inch Cam Calico Cat Plush
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This is a book that both of my kids really enjoyed. It helps them identify their feelings and describe them by color. Especially for my son on the spectrum, this helped him communicate a bit better when his words were few and far between. We still re...
The Color Monster: A Story About Emotions