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Helpful Relationship and Marriage Resources

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A thoughtful list of books, conversation tools, journals, gifts, and resources that can help couples improve communication, build connection, create quality time, and grow stronger together. Some links may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a...
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Communication

 
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A book by Dr. Sue Johnson on emotionally focused therapy conversations that help couples deepen their bond.
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for Love
 
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A set of conversation starter cards with questions designed to spark meaningful talks for couples.
TableTopics Couples Conversation Starter Game
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A book by the Gottmans on eight essential conversations for couples.
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for Love
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A book by John Gottman on improving everyday communication.
The Relationship Cure: 5 Step Guide
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A book by Marshall Rosenberg on compassionate communication skills.
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
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Marriage Enrichment

 
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A research-based guide by John Gottman presenting seven principles for strengthening marriage.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
 
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A book by Emerson Eggerichs on the love-and-respect dynamic between husbands and wives.
Love & Respect: The Love She Desires, Respect He Needs
 
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A book by Esther Perel exploring how to balance intimacy and desire in long-term relationships.
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
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A scratch-off book of surprise date challenges for couples.
Couples Edition - 50 Scratch-Off Date Nights
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A book by John Gottman on patterns that predict relationship outcomes.
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: How to Last
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Books & Guides

 
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A bestselling book by Gary Chapman explaining the five ways people express and receive love.
The 5 Love Languages®: Secret to Love
 
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A book by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller on adult attachment styles and how they shape romantic relationships.
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment
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A bestselling book by John Gray on understanding gender differences in communication and relationships.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Classic Guide
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A card game with questions designed to deepen couple connection.
WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS Couples Edition Card Game
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A book by bell hooks on the meaning and practice of love.
All About Love: New Visions
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