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Free/Cheap Date Night Ideas

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Dating is such a challenge today. First, it's way too expensive. If you have kids and a busy work life, forget it. Here some of my favorite things I've tried with my husband over the last decade.
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At home - No prep date night

 
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Set the mood with a fresh scent and soft lighting.
Candles - 3-Wick and Single Wick
 
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Don’t forget the wine with your meal!
Best Wine Glasses & Sets
 
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Snuggle up with a cozy blanket and have a movie night or watch your favorite show together.
Inhand Super Soft Fleece Throw Blanket
 
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This can be done from any phone or tablet, we just use the iPad at my house. We have a game that we play only when together and it’s fun to work together.
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I don’t know what the actual rules say, but we like to grab 3-4 cards randomly and we’ll asks the questions. It typically starts a deeper conversation and has helped us learn more about each other.
Let's Get Deep by Relatable - Couples Card Game
 
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Learn a new game or grab a family favorite. Talk, drink, and eat while playing the game!
Board Games: Toys & Games
 
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Sometimes, time together doesn't need to be extravegant or over the top. It can just be a movie on the couch and snuggling.
Movies
 
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We tried this one night after the kids went to bed and ended up having so much fun! We had to close our eyes and we each picked two different things from our pantry and then had to come up with something to make at home. It was fun, we already had th...
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Minimal prep - date night

 
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Sometimes this gets a little pricy, but my husband and I like to pick out a set and build it together while eating a snack. It’s simple and doesn’t require too much. I keep an eye on sales and save our points so we always have sets to build on hand.
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Have a fun paint and sip night at home
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Have a special meal for just the two of you when the kids go to bed or the dogs are finally worn out. Or just because you want to so you can. These are great for dishes that might take a little longer to bake, and help keep the general ambiance of a ...
Hot Dish: Ceramic Casserole Dish | 9 x 13 Inch
 
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Find a puzzle (whether it’s an easy Dino puzzle or a 5,000 piece one color puzzle) you both like and get to work!
Amazon Best Sellers: Best Jigsaw Puzzles
 
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Contrary to other recommendations on this list, the rope here isn’t for spicy activities. Instead, build a blanket fort at home, grab your favorite food, and watch a movie. The communication involved in constructing a blanket fort always surprises pe...
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Don’t forget these for the blanket fort!
100pcs 3in Heavy Duty Wooden Clothespins
 
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Find a new recipe and cook something together! It could be dinner or dessert or just a snack. You could take a picture together while cooking, the aftermath, write down your thoughts. We did this our first year of marriage once a week!
10 Lazy Dinner Recipes That Come Together in 30 Minutes or Less

Spicy Time - Date Night

If you’ve been together for a long time, sometimes spicing it up or changing the scenery is needed. Some of these ideas might just help with that!
 
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Create your own, one of a kind, unique painting! Pro tip- warm the paint before using it 😏
LOVE IS ART
 
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I think the real secret from that store is that looking and feeling sexy should NOT cost so much. Target offers some really cute, affordable lingerie options.
Lingerie for Women
 
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The longer you’ve been married, the better the showers get. And these don’t even need to be intimate. Honestly, this is one of the only parts of the day where it’s just the two of us and we just end up talking about our days or what we’re looking for...
Dual Shower Head for Couples - Midnight Black
 
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I don’t think this requires a description. Spice things up and try something new. You never know, you might find your new favorite … way to do things 😉
Positions Sex Dice Game Sex Things for Couples ...
 
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Take a flat sheet, a permanent marker, and dice from an old board game. In the top corner, start. Spots to move across the sheet that include activities like take one article of clothing off, lick ___ on your partner, put ___ on ___ of your partner, ...
QuickZip Flat Sheets
 
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Turn the lights down low, set the mood with a song, and dance for your partner … or together in the living room. Whichever you prefer.
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Outside the house - date night

 
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Look, flowers don’t have to be a dozen long stem roses. Even some wild flowers from a field, hand picked from yours or your friends garden, or whatever is being clearanced out at the local grocery store will suffice. It’s the thought behind the act t...
Flowers, Flower Delivery, Fresh Flowers Online
 
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Go on a walk or hike with your furry friends. Search random questions to ask each other or turn it into some sort of spicy challenge for when you get home.
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Go out for a picnic and just talk! Go during the day and watch the clouds or in the evening while watching the sunset followed by looking at the stars.
ZAZE Extra Large Picnic Outdoor Blanket 80x80