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Becoming My Best Self

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Becoming your best self isn't always about doing more, setting bigger goals, or changing everything about your life. Sometimes it's about understanding yourself better, setting boundaries, finding joy in the little things, and learning to be kinder t...
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Becoming My Best Self Books To Read

A few of the books that I have read or on my list to read about empowerment, relationships and more.  These will help me become the best version of myself.

 
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A great read that is I could relate to.  It talks about why women struggle with confidence and how we can get what we want in life by acting with more courage and confidence.
The Confidence Code: Guide to Trust in Decisions
 
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A good read!  This book is based on the idea that you can change your life at any moment, regardless of your past.
The Courage to Be Disliked: Japanese Phenomenon
 
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A book about relationships.  This book is for those that want to deepen their emotional connection with their partner.
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for Love
 
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This book talks about what women face and how we are not given the opportunities, etc. that men get.   It's eye opening!
The Authority Gap: Why Women Are Taken Less Seriously
 
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The workbook that goes with the book.  Lots to unpack here when using together.
Workbook For Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke
 
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This is an eye-opening book about dopamine addiction; easy to read and understand.
Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in Indulgence
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Such a great and easy read! Definitely would recommend if you’re interested in understanding human behavior.
The Molecule of More: How Dopamine Drives Life
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A good reminder that you don't have to have everything figured out or be everything to everyone.
The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of You
 
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For anyone learning that protecting their peace doesn't make them selfish.
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: Reclaim Yourself
 
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For those of us who are much harder on ourselves than we'd ever be on anybody else.
Self-Compassion: The Power of Being Kind
 
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Not every season of life is meant for growth and big accomplishments. Sometimes we need time to rest and regroup.
Wintering Audiobook by Katherine May
 
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A reminder that showing up for yourself matters just as much as showing up for everyone else.
The Art of Showing Up: Be There for You
 
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A perspective on finding joy even when life isn't easy.
The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness
 
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Especially fitting for midlife, rediscovering interests, creativity, and figuring out what comes next.
It's Never Too Late to Begin Again (Artist's Way)
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Short reflections you can pick up whenever you need encouragement, without committing to long chapters.
The Comfort Book
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For letting go of the pressure to accomplish everything and focusing on what actually matters.
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
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Tools for Self Care & Growth

Little tools and resources to help you care for yourself, build confidence, find encouragement, and make everyday life a little easier. Because becoming your best self doesn't mean you have to do more. Sometimes it means giving yourself what you need...

 
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A little encouragement for the days when living with chronic illness feels like a lot. These printable cards offer reminders of self-worth, kindness, and self-care without pretending everything is okay. Keep one nearby for the days you need it most.
Gentle Affirmation Cards for Chronic Illness | 30 Printable Cards