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Bougie Gifts that I love but don't have the funds to buy.
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items There’s truly no rhyme or reason to this list — just a collection of beautiful, expensive things I absolutely don’t need but deeply enjoy dreaming about. These are the “I could never justify buying this for myself” items… yet if someone gifted them t...
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For the Home
Beauty
Clothes
For the Home
If I’m going to daydream, I’m starting with the home. These are the cozy-meets-aesthetic pieces that make your space feel elevated without lifting a finger. Think Anthropologie vibes, cozy blankets, whimsical outdoor touches, and all the little upgra...
If you’ve ever wondered why your orange juice tastes extra fancy in the morning… it’s the cup. I’m convinced that drinking from a cute glass makes everything taste 100% better. These Anthropologie juice glasses are bougie, aesthetic, kitchen-upgrade ...
Nesting with Grace Festive Confetti Icon Juice Glass
I need a moment. I’m actually emotional over how cute these are. Like… why are they this adorable?? I want the doodle, the corgi, and the frenchie because apparently my personality is “tiny dog photo display enthusiast.” These make the cutest desk dé...
Animal Icon Photo Holder: Dog Edition
This blanket screams hygge in the coziest, softest, “don’t talk to me I’m nesting” kind of way. Peak cozy comfort. I can literally imagine myself wrapped up like a burrito in front of the fireplace with a warm drink and zero responsibilities. Ultimat...
Tipped Puffer Faux Fur Throw Blanket
This mirror. This mirror. I have been longing for it like it’s a long-lost love. My bedroom would instantly become an aesthetic sanctuary, and yes—my mirror selfies would be approximately 100% better simply because this mirror exists. It’s girl math,...
The Gleaming Primrose 7' Floor Mirror
These are so stinking cute and genuinely fascinating. Dandelion lights??? Yes please. I would absolutely line our front yard with these for a whimsical, magical glow that’s not like anyone else’s. The perfect unique border light for a little fairy-ga...
Solar Dandelion LED Stake Light
I can picture this frame everywhere — on a mantle, in a kids’ room, on an office shelf, you name it. The scalloped stoneware is so charming and timeless that it just blends into whatever vibe you’re going for. It’s one of those pieces that quietly el...
Maeve Scalloped Stoneware Picture Frame
The older I get, the more I care about a truly comfortable bed. Give me the softest sheets, breathable blankets, and textures that make bedtime feel like a whole experience. This vintage linen blanket is exactly that — classic, cozy, and the kind of ...
Vintage Linen Bed Blanket (Antique White)
Beauty
My delusional beauty girl era lives here. Luxury skincare, dreamy makeup, and high-end tools that practically promise main-character energy. These are the products I swoon over, save for later, and occasionally splurge on when the stars (and sales) a...
I don’t know if it’s a sensory thing or a nostalgia thing — but velvet everything, please and thank you. This quilted cosmetic bag is soft, luxe, and downright adorable. It’s giving “I have my life together” energy even if the inside is chaos (same)....
Quilted Velvet Cosmetic Bag
If my lashes could pick their own personality, it would be this mascara. Glossy black, lifted, fanned-out perfection — the kind that makes you look instantly awake even when you’re absolutely not. I’ve loved this formula for ages, and it’s 100% on my...
Glossy Black Lash Idôle Lash-Lifting Volumizing Mascara - Lancôme | Ulta Beauty
I’ve always equated Lancôme with true luxury — the kind I usually walk right past because I already know it’s not in the budget. But if someone ever decided to splurge on me? This. This is the gift set I’d want. Skincare, makeup, the whole dreamy exp...
Lancome Holiday Beauty Box 10-Piece Gift Set - Lancôme | Ulta Beauty
Clothes
These are the outfits and accessories I would absolutely wear if my bank account would calm down and cooperate. Cute, comfy, elevated basics and statement pieces that make you feel like that girl with zero effort. Basically my ideal closet — just wai...
I could see myself wanting one for all of my kid's names! I love a good monogram, I think they take your southern card away if you don't love your initials monogrammed on everything!
Barely There Bubble Monogram Necklace
I feel like the ruffle socks snuck up on me in the comeback, but I'm so glad they came back. I always loved my ruffle socks over my lace socks.
Daily Practice Athletic Ruffle Socks, Set of 3
This sherpa jacket screams luxury. It zips in both directions. Has a massive collar. And looks like it's so warm!
Varley Franca Sherpa Fleece Jacket
Is it nostalgia that makes me want acid wash everything?
Electric & Rose Taylor Hooded Sweatshirt
This little beauty is giving ethical luxury meets effortless cool. The chain detail, the shine, the classic Falabella vibe — she’s iconic for a reason. I am fully manifesting this on my shoulder during a cute brunch moment or a date night where I pre...
Stella McCartney Mini Falabella Shiny Bag
These boots are giving tall-glass-of-confidence energy. Sleek leather, that perfect heel, the “I run errands but make it fashion” vibe — I swear they’d make every outfit illegal in the best way. I’m absolutely manifesting these in my fall wardrobe, b...
Paris Texas, 100MM Leather Knee-High Boots
Okay listen… these are technically in my price range, but I would never actually spend this much on myself. (Mom math, you know?) But wow do I love them. They’re soft, flattering, drapey in all the right ways, and give that “I’m comfy but still put-t...
Women's Lounge Brushed Wide Leg Sweatpant
I swear this was the first true status symbol I ever remember seeing. The Coach bag. It was the moment — the purse that instantly made you feel grown, stylish, and just a little bit fancy. There’s something so nostalgic and timeless about it, and hon...
COACH® Outlet | Fiona Zip Tote Bag In Signature Canvas
If you buy a girl a coach purse, she's going to want a wallet to go with it.
COACH® Outlet | Medium Corner Zip Wallet
The Hadley is just one of those bags that always feels right. Simple, classic, and easy to pair with anything I actually wear in real life — school drop-off outfits included. It has that quiet, polished look without trying too hard, and I really appr...
COACH® Outlet | Hadley Shoulder Bag
Actually, this is something that is bougie but I do need! I used to have a wonderful trench, but three babies later I assumed it wouldn't fit again. Surprise! I'm a size 2 again and could use it right about now. This Abercrombie trench in camel screa...
Women's A&F Carrie Wool-Blend Trench Coat | Women's Coats & Jackets | Abercrombie.com
Need? Define need. And honestly… can you really put a price on happiness? This festive little cat tee is soft, comfy, and just the right mix of cute and playful. Perfect for holiday mornings, school drop-off, or just making yourself smile while you w...
Black Meawrry Christmas Organic Cotton T-Shirt
I mean… can pink crocodile print do any wrong? Truly? This cardigan is pure serotonin in sweater form. Bright, fun, and totally unapologetic — the kind of piece that brings happiness the moment you put it on. It’s cozy enough for everyday mom life bu...
Pink Croco Knit Cardigan
There’s just something about a faux fur coat that makes you feel a little more glamorous than your day actually is. School drop-off? Still glamorous. Grocery pickup? Somehow glamorous. It’s warm, soft, and gives that “I made an effort” look even when...
Faux-fur coat with lapels - Women | MANGO USA