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Friendsgiving: A Table Full of People I Love

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Friendsgiving planning central 👇 These are the little things making the day feel special without making it complicated. What I’m wearing, what the kids will actually keep on, cozy outfit ideas for my husband, easy recipes that don’t stress me out, a...
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Coloring Contest/ Games

 
Autumn Hygge: Cozy Coloring Book for Adults
 
Cozy Girl Season: Bold Easy Coloring Book
 
Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza Card Game - Family Fun
 
New Phone, Who Dis? Spicier Edition Card Game
 
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I feel like these markers are a happy medium to fine tips and broad tips. If you have any kiddos that want in on the coloring fun, they’re washable!
Crayola Super Tips Marker Set, 100ct, Washable

Recipes for Hosting

We're doing a potluck, so this is just going to be my idea catch-all. But Easy, and Classic/Traditional type foods that everyone will eat. 

 
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These are a fall southern staple. The recipe can be a bit tricky, but I think I finally figured out the perfect one!
Pecans Praline - House of Nash Eats
 
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This just sounds delicious
Gluten Free Cornbread Stuffing
 
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This just screams adult friend party in the fall!
I Serve This Slow Cooker Mulled Cider at Every Holiday Party (It’s Everyone’s Favorite!)

What I Would Wear

Comfy, cute, and pulled-together without trying too hard. These are pieces that move with me while I’m hosting, wrangling kids, laughing in the kitchen, and going back for round two of dessert. Neutral tones, soft textures, and silhouettes that feel ...

 
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A Friendsgiving dress that’s actually comfy. Swingy, cute, and pie-friendly. Yes please.
Long-Sleeve Mini Swing Dress | Old Navy
 
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Thinking of pairing this with the dress and some ankle boots? Yes? Yes.
Faux-Leather Belted Biker Jacket | Old Navy
 
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Love a satin moment for Friendsgiving. This Satin Maxi Skirt gives “dressed up, still comfy” energy—flowy, easy to style, and photogenic around the pie table. I’m pairing it with a cozy knit and boots, then tossing on my leather jacket for that cool-...
Satin Maxi Skirt | Old Navy
 
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I feel like this piece is just dressy enough to say elevated without being formal. We're going for those “gathering with friends we actually like” vibes, not the “work party that I hate” vibes
Wool-Blend Wrap-Front Sweater | Old Navy

Outfits for My Man

Simple, classic, and easy to mix and match. Think neutral sweaters, casual button-downs, and layering pieces that look nice in photos but still feel like him. Zero overthinking. Just effortless “he cleans up well” energy.

 
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I love that they have matching family shirts at The Children's Place this year!
Baby And Toddler Boys Matching Family Plaid Oxford Button Up Shirt - Brown

Kids Outfits

Cute but wearable — because we all know they’re going to spill something, run somewhere, or end up under a table at some point. Soft fabrics, stretchy waistbands, layers for going in and out, and colors that hide the cranberry sauce situation. Adorab...

 
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You can't tell me otherwise, a little boy dressed in flannel that matches with his dad is THE cutest thing in the world!
Baby And Toddler Boys Matching Family Plaid Oxford Button Up Shirt - Brown
 
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I don't know that my girl will go for matching with the family, but if she does…. this is sooooo cute!!!
Womens Matching Family Velour A-Line Dress - Green
 
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All I will have to tell my daughter is "it has pockets" and she will love it! I feel like this could easily be worn to church after the holidays though and we will get more than one use out of it!
Long Sleeve Ruffle Skater Dress with Pockets
 
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In the south, the weather could be anything. I think this with a t-shirt underneath would be a great way to layer my little man so that he's warm if it's cold, but he can take the corduroy off if he gets hot.
Oversized Corduroy Button Up Shirt
 
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Easy to layer t-shirt (And I know it will last longer than just one day!)
Oversized Colorblock T-Shirt

Table Decor

Warm, inviting, and effortless. A few cozy textures, soft lighting, and pieces that make the table feel gathered and thoughtful — without me turning into a full-blown tablescape influencer. Just enough to make the meal feel special, relaxed, and read...

 
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Picture this with a cute/quirky table runner?!
YZJZEDS Linen Water Resistant Tablecloth 52x70
 
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Love these for Friendsgiving — the plum color adds just a little mood to the table without trying too hard. They look pretty in photos, feel good in your hand, and they’re stemless so no one knocks them over when we’re all reaching for the mashed pot...
Plum 13.5-oz. Stemless Wine Glass
 
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This table runner is the “I did a little extra but not too extra” piece. The linen texture and neutral windowpane pattern add just enough polish to my Friendsgiving setup without making it feel stiff. I’ll pull it lengthwise across the table, let it ...
Marin 120" Natural and Earth Brown EUROPEAN FLAX ™-Certified Linen Windowpane Plaid Runner
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These little wax-gourd LED candles are pure autumn mood. No flame drama, just soft light, cozy vibes, and zero worry while the kids are running around. My table will glow and feel festive without burning down the house.
Flicker Flameless Natural Gourd LED Candle
 
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This bakeware set is part decor, part workhorse. Bring it straight from the oven to the table and it looks good enough to stay. The sage-green (“Thyme”) color gives the spread a subtle “home-host” polish without going full party planner.
Le Creuset® Heritage Thyme 5-Piece Stoneware Bakeware Set
 
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For the kids table
SuQKXCo Fall Round Tablecloth 60in Orange White Buffalo Plaids
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Rubtlamp 60Pcs Black Plastic Plates with Gold Rim
 
Artgar 8PCS Metal Cracked Foam Pumpkins