I love the gesture of arranging to decorate (romantically and appropriately not in jest) a couple’s room for their wedding night OR making a basket to put in the back seat of their car. Especially if they’ve been living a life of virtue and this is their first time together, it’s special to have that extra touch (especially if it’s a hotel room) AND it’s nice to have someone who knows the marital union ins and outs to send them with some practical items they may not be aware are helpful.
Typically I include: Basket
Large towel
A couple washcloths
Unscented wet wipes
Panty liners
Non spermicide lube
Bottle of wine
Bottle of San Pellegrino
Non alcoholic fun drink option
Two plain water bottles
A couple electrolyte packages
Cranberry juice (the real stuff)
Chocolate
Another heftier snack like noodle bowls or sausage sticks
Real or fake tea lights depending on their lodging permits
I also try to tuck in their wedding crucifix, Bible marked to Tobias and Sarah’s prayer, and holy water.
If we can get in to the room ahead of time, I bring rose petals and arrange everything. If not, I often tuck a small bouquet or couple rose stems in the basket.
Baskets and towels TJMaxx is the place. Healthy option toiletries and some drinks Target. Other drinks, snacks, etc from the local Walmart or grocery.