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Sexy Products in Our Bedroom
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items This list is intended for married adults (18+), and features clothes, toys, shoes, etc. that we have or have tried ourselves, our ratings for them, and our thoughts on each product.
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Lingerie & Sexy Clothes We Own
Sexy Shoes We Own
Sexy Male Clothes We Own
Adult Toys We Own
Realistic Toys We Own
Love Machine & Accessories We Own
Lingerie & Sexy Clothes We Own
Sexy Clothes (for her) in our Bedroom
3 stars. While this is a very sexy piece, the open crotch leaves something to be desired when it come to fun from behind because the opening isn't as big as it could/should be. Also, there is obviously zero breast support and the holes are huge. This...
Open Bust Crotch Fishnet Bodystocking
5 stars! Comfy & sexy! This skirt it super-short and depending on how you wear it on your waist, will either be cheeky while standing or it'll expose the goods as soon as you bend slightly. Wives will feel “hot” and husbands will enjoy the show. ...
Black Pleated Mini Skirt
5 stars! What's sexier than a short skirt? A short tartan/plaid skirt, of course. This thing is smoking hot and the length lends to easy access for bedroom time. While we highly recommend this skirt, we don't recommend for outside of the house except...
Plaid Roleplay Mini Skirt
4.9 stars! These are comfortable, sexy, cute, super-flattering, and functional. We can't give them a perfect “5 star” rating, because the opening could be a little bigger to make fun time easer to enjoy.
Open Crotch Peek-a-Boo Lace Boyshort
5 stars! These look and fit great. They are completely open in front and back, so they are perfect if you want sexy wear that will definitely not get in the way of your fun.
Fishnet Suspender Pantyhose
4 stars! This is a sexy fishnet top that can be a great addition to the bedroom. It allows nips to poke through if worn alone, so it's both attractive and functional. It could be worn out in certain circumstances with something else over/under it. We...
Leg Avenue Long Sleeved Industrial Fishnet Shirt
Sexy Shoes We Own
Sexy Footwear (for her) in our Bedroom
6 out of 5 stars! Very comfortable, very sexy, and very stable! The chunky heels makes dancing or “standing bedroom activities” easier/safer that typical heels. The heels are also also great handrests/grips for husbands when his wife is not standing....
Funtasma Black Patent Maryjane-50 Platform Heels
10 out of 5 stars! Very comfortable, as in a woman who normally has to take frequent sit-down breaks when wearing heels can walk and dance all night without much problem in these. The chunky 4 inch heel gives height, but the 1.5 inch front platform m...
Funtasma Red Patent Maryjane-50 Platform Heels
Sexy Male Clothes We Own
Sexy Clothes (for him) in our Bedroom
5 stars! Super comfy boxers for daily use or special occasions. Elastic waistband makes them easy to get off when the time is right.
Tony & Candice Men's Satin Boxer Shorts
4.5 stars! Very comfortable for nightly use or special occasions. Elastic waistband makes them easy to get off when they need to come off. We took off half of a star on the rating because these pants are a tad bit too baggy in the leg.
Mens Satin Pajama Pants with Drawstring
Adult Toys We Own
Some of the Adult Toys in our Personal Collection
5 stars! This thing is awesomely fun! It's powerful yet discreet. This is not an orgasm inducing toy (for us) if we use it as intended, but it does feel great, enhances orgasm when clitoral stimulation is added (consider Ferri), and it provides coupl...
Lovense Lush 3: Bluetooth Remote Control G-spot Vibrator
4.5 stars! This toy is a clitoral stimulator which attaches to her panties with a flat magnet. The concept is top-notch, and when you get things lined up just right, BOOYAH! But it's very easy to “lose your spot" if she's not just lying still,” so we...
Lovense Ferri: Bluetooth Remote Control Vibrator for Panties & Underwear!
5 stars! Comfortable and easy to use for her. Extremely sexy for him to look at. Stimulating for both husband and wife if worn during PIV fun time (because it pushes her from inside and makes loving feel different). This toy can be worn on date night...
Small Anal Butt Plug
5 stars! We've owned a few of the original corded versions throughout our marriage, and they always last a long time even with our misuse/abuse. These are insanely well built and powerful, but that power comes with some noise. There are many love pos... That, most likely, will lead to explosive finish(es) for her...and even more fun for him when if he likes to see his wife in an orgasmic state. They now produce cordless and mini versions with varying speeds and modes, so this is back on our wish lis...
Hitachi Magic Wand
5 stars! This is an amazing toy, especially for the price. This isn't as powerful as our Hitachi Magic Wand, but it still works without fail. These are fairly quiet for what it is, but not totally silent. Its smaller size and lighter weight make it m...
Strong Vibrator Wand for Her Pleasure
Realistic Toys We Own
Realistic Toys in our Bedroom. First images are blurred to protect those who may be offended.
5 stars! Realistic feel and great size for anyone not looking for a large toy. It's big enough to feel, but not so big that it should be intimidating. The suction cup works well on all surfaces including the adapter for our sex machine. Obviously, it...
7" Realistic Silicone Dildo with Suction Cup
4 stars! Very nice, realistic toy for quicker sessions. But the size could be a bit much for beginners or extended play times. The suction cup works well on all surfaces including the adapter for our sex machine. Obviously, it can be used manually li...
9'' Realistic Dildo with Strong Suction Cup
5 stars! This is a very fun toy to be so basic. It's simply a large dildo with a handle. The handle make it very user-friendly. While the size could be daunting, the handle allows more precise control over the depth. We'd recommend this for couples p...
Doc Johnson Classic Manhandler Dildo
Love Machine & Accessories We Own
Love Machine & Accessories in our Bedroom
5 stars! This machine is serious business and can be used in various ways to enhance a marriage. It can be used for doubling her fun while husband performs PIV or anal. It can be used to stimulate wife while she give oral to husband, and so on. It ne...
Hismith Premium Wire-Controlled Sex Machine
5 stars! This extension tube allowed us more flexibility in how we can use our machine. It gives an extra foot of clearance from the original tube, so it opens up more positions and location possibilities.
12" Extension Tube for Hismith Premium Sex Machine
5 stars! This can be clicked onto the original sex machine tube or onto the extension tube. Then a suction cup dildo can be used with our machine. We currently have 3 suction cup dildos (7", 9" and 10.8" ), and they all work great on the machine with...
3.5" Suction Cup Adapter for Hismith Machine
Love Machines We've Tried
Love Machines that we've Tried, but Don't Currently Own
2 stars. We had a chance to try this and was disappointed. Both this and the Sybian had similar qualities and flaws. Don't get me wrong, this machine felt good, but not $800+ good. We were in a very hot, rushed environment when we tested it, so that ...
The Tremor Rock and Roll Sex Toy
3 stars. We had a chance to try this and was disappointed. Both this and the Tremor gave us lackluster results. This machine felt really good, but not $1400+ good as no orgasms were produced. This machine was more comfortable to use than the Tremor, ... We were in a very hot, rushed environment when we tested it, so that could have played a factor in our experiences, but for the price of this thing, and what it is (a high-powered vibration machine), orgasms should've been flowing one after the other...
Sybian - Sexual Wellness Products
Other Adult Products We Use
Other Adult Products in our Bedroom
6 out of 5 stars! This stuff is great when you need it, and it actually feels “real” (like its her fluids, not something unnatural). It's works, it's odorless and doesn't stain, it's easy to clean up with water or wet wipe, it is good for PIV penetra...
ID Glide 17 Fl Oz Water-Based Lubricant
5 stars! Great condoms and the large box makes them more affordable. Currently, we only use these on toys made with questionable materials, but throughout our (nearly 20 year) marriage this has been our go-to, and maybe 1 or 2 of these have broken af...
TROJAN Magnum Lubricated Large Condoms 36ct