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First Time Mom "Holy Sh*t" List You Def Need 🍼 👶🏻

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A first time almost 40 yo mom with the stuff that has been working for me.
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Baby Monitor

If you're anxious about baby sleeping in the other room, but need some serious space - This monitor is the way to go!

 
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Not having to rush to the bedroom to check if they are still breathing, or if they're awake - Huge help for nervous parents!
1080P High - Performance Video Baby Monitor BM01

Nail File and Buffer

I had no idea I would basically become a nail technician having to file his nails so much to avoid being scratched. This one is so gentle and soft, I feel way better knowing I can't really F it up and baby doesn't notice or mind getting his nails did...

 
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Does not hurt baby at all!! I was so scared to use it, but it's a pain free way to tame those talons! 💅
Momcozy Baby Nail File Electric, Gentle ...

Pump It GF 🫒🫒

 
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Working on building up milk supply has been helped so muc with this pump! Babe is working on taking a bottle, but it makes me feel better knowing he's got a supply of extra milk in the freezer.
Medela Breast Pumps
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Thermometer 🌡️

Seriously, add this to your registry for those ‘what if…’ nights with a fussy baby who may be uncomfortable.

 
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I hate that I needed to use this sooner than I wanted, but I was SO glad I added it to my registry! Calms the nerves when you don't know what's going on with the babe, and what to do when they get the inevitable fever.
Thermometers - Braun Healthcare CA
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Cradle Cap

This one came on for us around 3 months and poor H was so itchy :( , someone gifted us this and I'm so grateful they did! 

 
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Life saver for a babies flakey head - I honestly didn't think it would happen to us!
DermaFrida the FLAKEFIXER Cradle Cap System - Sponge, Brush and Comb

Soft Neutral Baby Carrier

Beautiful design and the only way to get sh*t done around the house, work, or even eat. 

 
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This is a knockoff of a bigger brand, but I think it's basically the same design for a way better price. It's cozy for both of us and gives you a hands free way to still hang with baby.
Baby Carrier - Neutral Houndstooth

🍑 Wipe Sticks

LOL I have no idea what the technical term is for these, but you dip these into the diaper cream so your hands aren't getting sh*tty LOL. I put the cream on a soft cloth and use it for diaper rash. Again - Who knew?!

 
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Butt spatula LOL - I had to ask what these were for when I received these from my registry, but I use these like everyday.
Diaper Cream Booty Brush – Frida | The fuss stops here.

Cutie Outfits

I mean .. How do you not go nuts with all the cute clothing for babies?! These are just a few of my favourites!

 
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Soooo soft and H basically lives in the sleeper onesies. I love the multi packs and I got a lot from my baby shower. I wish they made them in adult sizes 😅
Baby Boy Clothes | Carter's Oshkosh Canada
 
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I was surprised at how often the Gap would have major sales, especially for holiday wear, so keep your eye out for the fun outfits - I'll never miss an opportunity to dress him up! 🧸
Shop Baby Boy Clothes & Outfits

Poppin Bottles 🍼🍼

H is breast fed now, but when we were in the hospital, and a few weeks after, he was on some bottle feeding - We are trying to get him back on the juice (breast milk) from a bottle as mamma needs to go to work! 

 
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We love these, because they are glass and you can interchange the nipple for fussier feeders.
Baby bottles & nipples (44)

Sleep 😴

For when nothing is working… And, you're exhausted!

 
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Shhhh 🤫 - You're going to become a pro ‘shusher’ OR you can get this handy device that does the work for you - SO many sounds and settings that help your sanity when they just won't sleep. 😅 I go the on the go one, because we are walking, bouncing,...
Hatch.co

Diapers 🧷🧷

The first week, we literally went through 80 diapers 😳 - Do yourself a favour and get your partner's buddys to host a diaper party and request the best! No shame - you've done it for others, haven't you? 

 
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Canadian 🇨🇦 non toxic diaper brand that I LOVE. Sizing is a bit wonky, bc H is long and narrow, so he is only now in the size 1 at 3 months! But, I love that there's no funny business in these diapers.
Box of Bamboo Diapers
 
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Clean, non-toxic, safe for your baby's booty. And, another Canadian brand I love to support.
Box of Unbleached Bamboo Baby Wipes
 
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🎒Why are diaper bags insanely expensive!? I had a gift card for lulu, so I used it towards this bag and I'm so glad I did! I can eventually use it as a travel bag for myself with all the handy pockets. I take it everywhere for those just in case mom...
New Parent Backpack 17L | Diaper Bags,Purses,Wallets | lululemon

Play ▶️

‘Wake windows’ are actually so stressful for me, because I'm not a naturally playful person. These helped me in those months where you're like, ‘ok, what can you even register at this age?’ Turns out a LOT. These toys and tools helped keep it fresh a...

 
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Great for all ages and stages - Request this for holidays and birthdays as a subscription !
Lovevery

Baby Gear

So far, we haven't needed to fill our home with too many things, but these are the ones that let you take a shower, or have a hot min when you've been with babe allllll day and allll night. 

 
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Rest assured that baby is safe and protected while you get stuff done at home, or just put them down for a hot min! So cute and cozy.
Infant Loungers - Snuggle Me Organic

C-Section Recovery

I was gutted to have an unplanned c-section, so I was not prepared for the recovery, but these items made it a bit more bearable. Honestly, it still sucks and I'm still recovering, but I'm so glad I grabbed these. 

 
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This helped me big time in the early weeks post surgery. My back was killing me, but my abs were non-existent/ still healing. This gave me the support I needed to lift and feed baby.
Frida Mom - Postpartum Abdominal Support Binder Belly ...