lighter woods bring in a touch of nature and warm undertones to a space. it's a great way to let the light bounce and give the airy, open atmosphere you desire.
I shudder at big lights- having lots of different lighting options is key, particularly warm, glowy, softer lights. It's recommend to have 4-6 light sources per room at different heights- wall lamps, table lamps, floor lamps, etc.
Add textures and textiles is key to making a space look lived in- think rugs, blankets, linens, baskets, ceramics, and more. Make your space feel especially homey and comforting by incorporating a few of these ideas.