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Holiday Season 2026 Goth, Dark Academia, Dark Cottage Core Style

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Im bringing dark academia/goth cottage core back to my home. The whimsical, elegant patterns and mysterious figures that once made Victorian holidays the events of the season make my heart happy. Yule logs and mistletoe meet Krampus. Let's bring holi...
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Happy Spooky Vintage Gothic Bookish Halloween!

I'm busily getting my home back to being the place where family and friends love to gather. I let if go to ruin the last ten years so I hope you'll join me as I learn to redecorate and celebrate life instead of hiding away from the world.

 
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We grabbed a couple of these because they don't look too ‘Halloweeny’ and can be used at fall gatherings and Thanksgiving. They fit in my whimsical dark cottagecore theme nicely.
Way to Celebrate Halloween Orange Acrylic Pumpkin Beverage Dispenser, 1.5 gal
 
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You have got to be kidding me! How adorable are these silicone ‘cauldron’ cups? We grabbed a couple of these as well. One can never have too many silicone cauldron baking cups around, especially when littles are afoot.
Way To Celebrate 4-Piece Silicone Cauldron Baking Cup Set, Black
 
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Safety first, cool gothcore second. These flameless flickering led candles are up to the task of spooky vibes for your Halloween decor.
Battery-Operated LED Flickering Votives, Black, 4 Count, Halloween by Way To Celebrate
 
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More spooky lighting. We put these out on both front and back porch to add to the fun that our house is becoming.
Uncahome LED Flickering Flame Light Bulb, 4 Modes Fire Flame Light Bulbs with Upside Down Effect,E26 Base, Halloween Christmas Party Porch Indoor Outdoor Decor(4 Pack)
 
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It's not truly Halloween til you add some spooky, ghostly draping across doors and entry ways. We draped it across the front porch with some flameless candles.
Cyantor Halloween Creepy Cloth Black 80x400in
 
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Imagine my surprise when looking through the ColdWater Creek website and seeing these 2 amazing crows. They are perfection and on their way to live on my front porch.
Antique Black Iron Crows, Set of 2
 
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I added this spooky table runner to my new to me French Provincial Dining room table. It's so perfect!
Spiderweb Lace Table Runner, 72X13
 
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Yes I did. I got the placemats to match the table runner. Wait til you see the plates to go with it.
Spider Web Placemat, 18"
 
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These are just the most stunning dessert plates for having the spooky vibes girls over for a day of crafting and enjoying a glass of wine and dessert afterward.
Lenox Vintage Halloween 4-Piece Dessert Plate Set & Reviews
 
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We also got 2 sets of these to go with the more simple design in this list. I love these dishes.
The Holiday Aisle® Hartsdale Dinner Plates, Set Of 4, Service For 4
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All matchy matchy. They perfectly complement the other 2 sets for the perfect dark cottagecore theme I"m so in love with right now.
Lenox Lenox Vintage Halloween Haunted Accent Plates, Set of 4
 
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Imagine setting your halloween/gothic table with these dramatic chargers, the flickering flameless candles and listening to your guests delighted gasps when they see what you've done. I'll let you now how it goes. I've missed decorating and entertain...
13 Inch Crown Plate Chargers 6 Pack BPA-Free
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You can't have a dessert without a wineglass. This wineglass is stemless and has dancing skeletons on it too. They're so cute!
The Holiday Aisle® Sedgley 4 Piece 19 oz. Stemless Wine Glass Set
 
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Add the high bll glasses to your Halloween glassware for your table. These are perfect for guests who prefer tea or some other drink. No one wants to drink soda out of a wineglass. That truly would be spooky.
Susquehanna Glass Dance of the Dead 4 Piece 15 oz. Highball Glass Set & Reviews
 
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Oh! I found my favorite artwork all in one place. Gothic/Dark Cottagecore. I don't mind that they're not framed because I can find special frames for them that match their vibe better. A teen who is into goth would probably love these too.
97 Decor Vintage Halloween Ghost & Witch Posters
 
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I put this set on my fireplace mantle with black ribbon tied to them. Elegant. Still Goth, and Cottagecore aesthetic. I love them so much
Hurricane Glass Vintage Taper Candle Holder
 
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These scales are also sitting on my fireplace mantle with candles in them. They pull the Dark Academia look together quite well.
Owlgift Vintage Metal Libra Jewelry Tray Bronze
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I have this cute typewriter pen holder on my office desk. I never can keep up with pens. It's currently empty.
Vintage Typewriter Pencil Holder - 4.5" Retro Desk Organizer
 
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I love crows. this little candle holder will look right at home on my bookshelf when it gets here. Do you know any crow lovers?
Gothic Crow Lamp Tealight Candle Holder
 
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Make sure you've got the best candy bowl and candy in town and all over your house if you're having a party.
HOMELEX Halloween Cauldron Candy Bowl with LED Skeleton
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I have this one on my front porch. It's waiting patiently for Halloween night.
Ghost Candy Bowl Large Halloween Decor
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Elegant Thanksgiving Tableware

 
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I love the simplicty and elegance of this dish set that I found, of all places, Home Depot. I can't wait for them to get here so I can see what they look like with my table cloth and placemats,  candles, and floral arrangements. Oranges, browns and yellows, are my favorites for fall and Thanksgiving.
Certified International Harvest Splash 16-Piece Country/Cottage Multi-Colored Earthenware Dinnerware Set (Service for 4) 89040RM
 
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Beautiful soup bowls. I know they don't match the main dinnerware, but I didn't want it to. I like the look of mismatched, but same theme tableware. It feels more home like but still elegant. My grandmothers' didn't have all matchy matchy but holiday...
Certified International Autumn Breeze 4-pc. Earthenware Soup Bowl, Color: Beige
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We've always had either peach cobbler or blackberry cobbler, sometimes apple cobbler, from fruits and berries home canned, for Thanksgiving and or Christmas. I thought these bowls, since I'm sticking with the pumpkin theme were perfect for steamy hot...
Certified International Harvest Fields 24oz Ceramic Ice Cream Bowls – Set of 4 Rustic Farmhouse Bowls with Autumn Pumpkin Designs – Perfect for Cereal, Soup, Snacks & Desserts – Microwave & Dishwasher Safe
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Ok. You gotta have a turkey platter for a Thanksgiving Turkey. It's just that simple. This one does have pumpkins on it so it still fits my theme. It's a gorgeous platter with a stunning gobbler surrounded by the traditional fruits and veggies of Tha...
Certified International Platter & Reviews
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I chose a simple white napkin to go with my colorful, delightfully whimsical, mismatched tableware so that it doesn't overwhelm the senses. they have words of Thanks on them. Sometimes a splash of simple is just the right thing for a tablescape that ...
Ebern Designs Aveneet 100% Cotton Harvest Sentiments Embroidered Square Napkin & Reviews
 
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Again, going with simple and understated while also slightly mismatched for the perfectly imperfect elegant Thanksgiving tablescape that feels like home (to me anyway) There are several options available if plain isn't your cup of tea.
Highland Dunes Seagrass Border Placemat Set
 
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I chose another neutral color that pulls the gold and beige out of the Thanksgiving pumpkin theme. I have a massive dining room table that seats 10 so there aren't a lot of affordable options out there for me. I got it at an estate sale so I got it f...
Ophelia & Co. Burchfield Solid Floral Jacquard Damask Polyester Tablecloth & Reviews
 
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It simply wasn't Thanksgiving dinner until my grandma set the butter dish, that looked a lot like this one, on the table for bread and potatoes or whatever else you wanted to put butter on. I love this one. That green sets off the table so well that ...
Butter Bell - The Original Butter Bell Crock - Antique Collection & Reviews
 
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And who could forget the gravy boat with that thick rich gravy inside? Passing it along the table as each person added just enough gravy to cover…well pretty much everything. This gravy boat is bigger and deeper so it should last longer between refil...
Noritake Colorwave Gravy Boat, 20 oz. & Reviews
 
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I picked some old fashioned “fancy” looking 12 oz drinking glasses to kind of offset the plates and serving pieces. Plus they look like something that was in my great grandma's house when we visited during the holidays. they come in different colors ...
Bungalow Rose Marqueeta 12.5 Oz. Vintage Textured Smoke Glass & Reviews
 
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Every Thanksgiving cook needs an adorable apron while cooking and serving. Where else are you going to wipe your hands? (lol) This apron even has pockets and light ruffles. It's a classic look that calls back to home when I was a little girl.
Alilang Unisex Floral Print Kitchen Apron with Ruffled Trim Adjustable Waist Ties and Front Pockets
 
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This is just something simple, floral, for the table centerpiece. You can grab those glass pumpkins from the Halloween list and add them on either side of this floral to make the table more interesting.
The Holiday Aisle® Artificial Mixed Floral Arrangement & Reviews
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I love this soft blue plate with a reminder to be thankful. There are lovely hues of fall tht go with Thanksgiving so well. It will be great displayed on your mantle or a side table as part of your fall holiday decor.
The Holiday Aisle® Kambelle Solid + Manufactured Wood Decorative Plate 1
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Where has this idea been these last 50 years? I love this punch bowl with a serving tray that wraps around the base for hor's d'uerves. I plan on using it for Christmas as well. It's so convenient and takes up less table space,
Libbey Selene 6-in-1 Multiuse Glass Server, Punch Bowl, Chip and Dip Bowl, Cake Stand & Reviews
 
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Oh! Look at this adorable lantern. It's so perfect for Thanksgiving either on the mantle or a side table, maybe even on the dining table itself.
Holiday Living 13-in Harvest Tabletop decoration
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Dark Academia Christmas. The Whimsical, Bookish, Dark Side of Victorian Nostalgia

If you've been paying any attention at all to my Holiday decor lists, then you'll know I DO NOT match everything perfectly. I like mix n match styles and colors as I feel it gives a more down to earth, homelike feel that I want to bring back to my ho...

 
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The Grand Duchess Christmas Tree. It's a perfectly Victorian Name for my perfectly Victorian decor. This GORGEOUS tree goes viral every year. This year I managed to grab two as soon as they became available.  I have the  Grand Duchess 9ft tree, with clear lights  next to the fireplace and the smaller one with multi color lights for the dining room. My mom's tree is in the living room. The Grand Duchess is available in many sizes to fit any home. She's a “Smart” tree and if you don't hurry, you'll miss out on ...
Home Decorators Collection 9 ft SMART Grand Duchess Twinkling Balsam Fir LED Pre-Lit Tree T28 26LE31015
 
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I have this exact 4 foot black prelit Christmas tree in my office as I do weddings and sometimes the couple gets married in my office. Most are not put off by a black Christmas tree. It's usually a ‘OH! Look at that tree!" reaction. When the decorati...
Puleo International 4 ft. Pre-Lit Black Carson Pine Artificial Christmas Tree
 
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I love icicles on a tree. To me they're magical  looking with soft Christmas lights reflecting off them. BUT! Fair warning. These are real glass and should be used with caution in homes where a fur baby or young children can get them.
GERSON INTERNATIONAL 4.9 in. Christmas Icicle Ornaments (3 Packs of 20) 2156800EC
 
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Striking red and white bauble garland you can use anywhere in the house or on your tree. Wrap it in a plain Christmas greenery garland and add a sting of fairy lights, put it on top of your table runner and you'll have a beautiful conversation piece ...
FAWEY TRED INC 2 Pcs 6 ft Christmas Ball Ornament
 
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These are great baubles that come in many different colors. They're shatter proof. I like to use them as fillers in the spots where the Christmas tree branches wouldn't cooperate. Get a couple of extra packages to put in bowls and clear vases, add fa...
Nearly Natural 3 in. Shatterproof Holiday Christmas Ornament Set with Re-Useable Storage Container (20-Pack) D1056-RD
 
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These distressed mercury glass ornaments look stunning on my black Christmas tree with their elegant, iridescent blue and Grey tones giving them a vintage but modern vibe. There's 12 in a set, perfect for a smaller tree, like the one in my office.
Distressed Mercury Glass Ornament (Set of 12) - N/A
 
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Elegant, traditional, dark Victorian Serving Platter. This beauty looks right at home on the buffet filled with yummy sweets or breads or on the dinner table. People don't even notice it's darker than traditional holiday dinnerware.
Botanical Black Merry and Bright Platter with Greenery & Berries
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 This gorgeous piece will fit right in with the other pieces I have chosen for my holiday theme. Holly leaves are a huge part of Christmas lore and Christmas of the past. Delicate breads and pastries will look beautiful when presented on this lovely p...
Holly And Vines Embossed Holly Platter 13"
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I know, I know, it says icecream bowl, but really you can use it for whatever you want to put in them. We serve warm berry cobbler with icecream or whipped cream in ours, as well as soup (not always but sometimes when the occasion calls for it). Ther...
Holly and Vines Ice Cream Bowl
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I collect Santa, Angels, and Snowmen. I love the detail and rich colors on him. This Santa comes in so many colors I'm afraind my husband might disown me if I add another 2 or three to my collection. But he is on his way here as I type. Shhhhhh.  don't tell.
Santa's Workshop 10" Victorian Claus
 
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I  have 2 sets of these beautiful antique brown Christmas tree ornaments on their way for my black Christmas tree/ I'm thinking they will pair well with the mercury look ornaments as there aren't as many of them and they do have a hint of vintage blue t...
Christmas Antique Brown Glass Tree Ornaments with Glittered Trim, Set of 6
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It's not dark academia without crows. This whimsical guy looks cute perched in all of my trees.
Raven Ornament
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Ok, it's another not so victorian Santa. But it's Santa! In pink!  So, he's going on the Grand Duchess tree by the fireplace. Hubby won't notice him among all the others anyway.
Santa In Suspenders Ornament
 
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It isn't dark academia without some wrapping paper to match the moody Christmas theme. This paper is magic and mystery, the very heart of the dark academia core, for wrapping magical and mysterious gifts.
Dark Mystical Enchantment Christmas Wrapping Paper, Dark Academia Wrapping Paper, Dark Cottage Core Wrapping Paper, 00TM93M
 
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This is such a beautiful gift wrap I'm almost too scared to cut it. If you have a friend who is into dark academia or gothic victorian, then you'll want to put gifts in this stunning paper, or just gift the paper, it's beautiful on its own,
Gothic Christmas Wrapping Paper, Dark Victorian Winter Village
 
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Oh my goodness. I know someone who would live this blanket for Christmas, do you? Plush, detailed, and perfect for the gothic book lover in your life. One Christmas gift down, many more to go,
Dark Academia Christmas Blanket, Gothic Christmas Throw, Black Cat Blanket, Vintage Holiday Decor, Witchy Gift
 
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There are a lot of holiday lore from countries around the world. Krampus is one of them. This blanket perfectly captures multiple stories in one piece. It comes in 3 different finishes and several sizes. Another gift down on my list.
Krampus Christmas Blanket: Gothmas Gothic Holiday Throw (Velveteen, Sherpa, Woven)
 
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This is sow adorable. Gothcore, Dark Academia isn't all monsters and crows. Sometimes it the mundane, everyday things you don't think about, like a simple call back to the era of candles for lighting like this replica of a tiny lamp (this one is batt...
Gothic Table Lamp, Dark Academia Lamp, Battery Operated LED Accent Light, Vintage Gothic Desk Lamp, Moody Bedroom Home Decor
 
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I have a scrapbooking.journaling friend who would love to have this sticker collection to add to her stash of all things bookish. another gift off my list. Take a look, you might know someone who would love it too,
Dark Academia Sticker Kit, Bookish Journal Stickers, Magical Library Grimoire Bundle
 
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My son will love this print. If you have a guy, or gal on your list who loves sea going mysterious ships and all things ocean, this fits the bill nicely.
Ghost Ship Wall Art | Vintage Ocean Aesthetic Painting | Gothic Dark Sea Pirate Art Print | Dark Academia Decor | Moody Antique Oil Painting

Unusual Christmas Decor (including some 'different' trees) That I LOVE!

I'm building on my Christmas favorites. Christmas is MY time of the year. the sights. Smells. Sounds just make my heart happy. This section has some unusual decor that is just stunning (at least I think it is). It includes, trees, garlands, candelabr...

 
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I love this tree because it looks like its limbs are weighed down with snow. Beautiful with or without deocrations.
Costway 6 FT Pre-Lit Artificial Christmas Tree with 519 PVC & Pine Needles & PE Tips
 
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This is the thin/pencil version of the snowy christmas tree in this list. It would be perfect in a corner of a bedroom or guest room. I think it's beautiful with just the lights and nothing else added to it.
Costway 6 ft Flocked Cypress Christmas Tree with 526 Full PE Branch Tips, 280 LED Lights Sparse-Style White
 
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Don't like the snow/flocked look? This gorgeous, simple tree calls to mind the Charlie Brown tree in it's simplicity. If you like simple, this is your tree.
Costway 7.5 FT Pre-Lit Cypress Christmas Tree Hinged with 612 PE Branch Tips Timer & 540 Lights
 
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If you have a rambunctious toddler, or a naughty kitty, or puppy who will pull a tree down or turn it over, well, here's your tree. It has a low profile so even if somehow it gets turned over, no harm done just sit it back upright, fluff a little and...
Lolsea Set of 2 18 Inch Pre-lit Outdoor Christmas Tree with Multi-Color Lights, Timer, Battery Operated, Lighted Pathway Urn Filler with Pine Cones
 
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If you are a minimalist or into a more industrial vibe for your holiday decor. PERFECTION! has arrived. The sky is the limit when it comes to decorating this particular tree. Or don't decorate it. It makes a statement no matter which way you go.
The Holiday Aisle® Artificial Christmas Tree - Stand Included
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If you have a collection of beloved, treasured, heirloom ornaments that your grandma made, or your child, or something you collected over the years, then you'll want to set them apart on this ornament display tree, separate from your tree.  Use it as a table decoration, or on the mantle or where ever you like. It's unusual and striking and has a very Victorian vibe.
The Holiday Aisle® Noelle Christmas Tree Ornament Display with Hooks 5 ft & Reviews
 
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Tropical location? Dreaming of a tropical location while freezing your toesies off? This is the tree for you. Have a luau instead of a turkey, and enjoy.
Bay Isle Home™ 6' Pre-Lit Christmas Tree
 
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Got kids? Grandkids? How cute is this Santa Claus Hat Tree? They're only little once. Put it in the living room or next to your more formal tree to put just their presents under.
6FT Artificial Christmas Tree with Santa Hat Design, 1250 Branch Tips, 300 LED Lights, Fake Xmas Tree for Holiday, Home, Party
 
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This is a Christmas tree made of feathers. It's another stunning, unusual, Christmas decoration for your dining table or mantle or where ever else you could use a touch of Victorian Whimsy. It would be cute in a cabin or other rustic setting as well.
16.5" Natural Feather Tree Set of 2
 
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Isn't this nutcracker just adorable? I don't know where I'm going to put it, but it is on his way here to live somewhere in my house.
The Holiday Aisle® 24" Resin Antique Nutcracker
 
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 I found the perfect set of gothic Christmas ornaments to go on my black christmas tree. Krampus! Retro/vintage look with different scenes on each bauble. If you are a Gothic Victorian lover, then this set is for you too.
Outus 16 Pcs Vintage Krampus Christmas Ornaments
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A Krampus Nutcracker to go with my Dark Gothic Victorian themed tree this year. I have a shelf waiting for him by the tree. Isn't he handsome? Go get one for yourself before they're all gone.
Krampus Nutcracker Wooden Block, Gothic Christmas Decor, Dark Holiday Shelf Sitter, Horned Nutcracker Wood Standee
 
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These are gorgeous in person and even more beautiful on my black Christmas tree. I did have to have 3 because they're only 6ft long. Well worth it,
House of Hampton® Glass Beaded Metal Garland
 
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It is not Christmas without candles. It is not a true gothic Victorian Christmas without a strikingly beautiful candelabra. This one is a floor standing design. It steals the show at night when you have the candles lit (look in my lists for flameless...
Design Toscano 63.5'' H Malbork Castle Gothic Floor Candelabra & Reviews
 
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Aren't these pretty? They also look so pretty on my tree tucked up against the lights. Best of all they're shatterproof.
Colarr 15 Pcs Vintage Xmas Finial Ornaments
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