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Back-to-School Anxiety Toolkit for Parents

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For parents of anxious kids dreading school in August; also year-round
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Fidgets & Sensory Tools

 
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Come in many colors and styles; squishy, satisfying, and calming for the nervous system. A counselor office staple.
nee doh stress ball - Target
 
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Connected, curving pieces kids can reshape and twist; soothing for teens and entertaining for younger kids. Reviewers say it helps with anxiety and PTSD
Set of 3 Fidget Toys by Tangle Jr. - Amazon
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Silent and compact. Great for classrooms and test-taking situations.
Infinity Cube - Amazon.com
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Silent so it doesn't distract others; comes in varying resistance levels. Used by OTs and school counselors regularly.
Therapy Putty - Amazon.com
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Tactile, repetitive pressing motion; the popping sound and feel helps kids focus, relax, and decompress when stressed.
5 Pack Silicone Bubble Sensory Pop Fidget Toy
 
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Flexible, stretchy, quiet, and great for stress and anxiety relief. Works for kids, teens, and adults at school or in the office.
Morf Fidget Worm Toy - Flexible 3D Sensory
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Installs on desk or chair legs, giving kids an active footrest that redirects restless energy without disturbing others. Nearly 80% of parents and teachers reported kids stayed on task longer.
Bouncy Bands - Amazon.com
 
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Small, quiet, and discreet; a favorite for kids who need something subtle during the school day.
Fidget Ring - Amazon.com
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Adhesive strips that stick under a desk for subtle under-the-table tactile fidgeting. Popular with kids, teens, and adults who need quiet sensory input.
Zen Strips - Amazon.com
 
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Visual and hands-on breathing tool. Expands and contracts with the breath; a counselor go-to for teaching 4-7-8 breathing to kids who struggle with abstract breathing instructions.
Hoberman Sphere - Amazon.com
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Books

Books that help anxious children and resources for parents.

 
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Picture book for separation anxiety; works for ALL ages.
The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
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Classic; younger kids with anxiety
WEMBERLY WORRIED A Story for Little Worriers by Kevin Henkes ...
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Workbook for kids 6-12; parent + child read together.
What to Do When You Worry Too Much, 2nd Ed
 
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Explains anxiety to kids using brain science.
Hey Warrior by Karen Young 9780648488804
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CBT skills in a readable format for teens.
The Anxiety Survival Guide for Teens: CBT Skills
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Worry journals; feelings journals; search “kids anxiety journal”
Kids Daily Journal With Prompts - Amazon.com
 
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Top teacher's pick with elementary students.
First Day Jitters By Julie Danneberg - READ ALOUD - YouTube
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Friendships, siblings, and starting school.
Archie and Pip First Day of School Book
 
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Bestseller for parents to read. All about child independence and phones.
The Anxious Generation: Childhood Rewiring
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Free Resources

 
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Expert-led articles, videos, and parent guides specifically for anxiety and school struggles; highly credible and well-known to parents.
Anxiety - Child Mind Institute
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Includes the ADAA and REACH Institute anxiety brochure for parents, plus resources on school anxiety, OCD, and treatment options
Childrens Mental Health Resources
 
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Free downloadable back-to-school checklist plus grounding techniques parents can practice with their kids
Back-to-School: Parent/Educator Toolkit
 
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Downloadable PDF from a children's mental health company. Validates that kids' school anxiety is as real as adult work anxiety
Little Otter Shop
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900+ free mental health worksheets organized by topic including anxiety, ADHD, anger, feelings, and self-esteem. Used by both parents and counselors.
Mental Health Resources for Children and Teens
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Free printable anxiety worksheets, behavior charts, journal pages, and daily affirmations for kids. Helpful for parents, teachers, and counselors.
Free Printable Anxiety Worksheets & Resources | Free Printable Behavior Charts
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Free online resource from the CDC for parents of teens with tools for building positive parent-teen relationships.
Resources for Population Mental Health
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Free one-page handout from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. Very shareable, parent-friendly format
AACAP Home
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Clinically reviewed article covering what school anxiety looks like, how parents can help, and when to seek professional support.
Understanding Back to School Anxiety: Tips for Parents and Students
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Written by a licensed child psychologist: curated list of websites, books, and handouts parents actually use.
24 Resources for Children and Teens with Anxiety and Their Families — Hope+Wellness
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