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Essential Books for School Counselors

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A list of books for every level. They cover a range of themes and topics. These are books for to use with students as well as resources for yourself!
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Elementary Must Have Books

Books for elementary school counselors that cover a range of themes, including social-emotional development, friendship, resilience, and positive behavior, providing valuable resources for supporting young students. 

 
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Encourages positive behavior by teaching children the concept of filling others' buckets with kindness.
Have You Filled a Bucket Today?
 
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A humorous story helping kids understand and manage impulsive behaviors, particularly interrupting.
My Mouth Is A Volcano: About Interrupting
 
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A beautifully illustrated book that encourages a growth mindset and resilience in the face of challenges.
What Do You Do with a Problem? - Barnes & Noble
 
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Inspires creativity and self-expression, encouraging children to embrace their unique abilities.
The Dot - Peter H Reynolds: Books
 
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Promotes self-acceptance and positive self-esteem in children.
I Am Enough by Byers, Grace
 
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Teaches the importance of listening and understanding others in a school setting.
Whole Body Listening Larry at School! 2nd Ed.
 
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A heartwarming book that explores the idea that we are all connected by an invisible string of love.
The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
 
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A colorful exploration of emotions, helping children understand and express their feelings.
The Way I Feel by Janan Cain
 
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A humorous story that addresses responsibility and accountability in a child-friendly way.
But It's Not My Fault!
 
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Encourages children to consider the consequences of their actions and make positive choices.
What If Everybody Did That? by Javernick, Ellen
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Addresses anger management by teaching kids strategies to cool down when they feel “fizzy”.
Soda Pop Head
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A comforting book about separation anxiety, especially useful for the beginning of the school year.
The Kissing Hand: Penn, Audrey, Harper, Ruth
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Celebrates uniqueness and self-confidence, encouraging children to embrace who they are.
Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon - Books
 
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Helps children distinguish between teasing and bullying while promoting empathy and kindness.
Tease Monster: Teasing vs. Bullying Book
 
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A story that explores emotions, particularly anger, and offers coping strategies for young readers.
When Sophie Gets Angry-Really, Really Angry
 
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Addresses the topic of bullying on the playground and promotes friendship and kindness.
The Recess Queen by O'Neill, Alexis
 
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Celebrates diversity and teaches the importance of embracing one's unique name and identity.
Chrysanthemum: Kevin Henkes - Books
 
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Introduces the concept of a growth mindset and encourages children to embrace learning challenges.
I Can't Do That, YET: Growth Mindset Book
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A reassuring book for children dealing with separation anxiety and the transition to school.
Llama Llama Misses Mama: Dewdney, Anna
 
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A delightful series that emphasizes friendship, sharing, and cooperation through the adventures of Bear and his friends.
Bear Snores On (The Bear Books)

Middle School Must Have Books

These must-have books for middle school counselors cover a range of topics, from academic success to social-emotional well-being, providing valuable resources to support the diverse needs of middle school students.

 
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A guide that helps students develop positive habits for personal and academic success.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Covey
 
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Offers insights and strategies for navigating the middle school years.
Middle School Matters: The 10 Key Skills Kids Need
 
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LOVE this book! Explores the concept of mindset and how it impacts learning and achievement.
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
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Addresses bullying dynamics and provides strategies for intervention and prevention.
The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander
 
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Explores the challenges faced by adolescent girls and offers guidance and support.
Reviving Ophelia: Saving Adolescent Girls
 
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Focuses on understanding and addressing behavioral challenges in students.
Lost at School by Greene Ph.D., Ross W.
 
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Offers insight on leadership and building a culture of courage and vulnerability.
Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations.
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Provides ready-to-use group counseling activities and discussions.
Small Groups for Counselors - Grades K-3
 
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Helps students develop grit and resilience for academic and personal success.
The Grit Guide for Teens: A Workbook to Help You
 
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Offers practical exercises to help teens manage and overcome anxiety.
The Anxiety Workbook for Teens
 
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Explores strategies for understanding and supporting brain development in adolescents.
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies
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Introduces students to the concept of neuroplasticity and the potential for growth.
Your Fantastic Elastic Brain: Growth Mindset Book
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Encourages self-reflection and guides students in developing strong character traits.
Free Spirit What Do You Stand For? For Teens
 
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Provides practical activities to help students develop essential social skills.
Social Skills Activities for Secondary Students
 
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Focuses on promoting optimism and resilience in children.
The Optimistic Child: A Proven Program
 
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A collection of inspirational stories for teens dealing with various challenges.
Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul: Stories
 
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Explores challenges faced by girls and offers insights for support.
Girls on the Edge: The Four Factors Driving...
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A comprehensive guide for school counselors, addressing the evolving role in a changing educational landscape.
The Essential School Counselor in a Changing Society
 
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A resourceful guide for school counselors covering various aspects of counseling.
Counseling Children and Adolescents: Theory...
 
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Addresses trauma-sensitive approaches in education to support the well-being of students.
Fostering Resilient Learners: Strategies for Creating
 
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Hands down a book that every counselor needs to read! A great insight into trauma and how it affects the brain.
The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: Stories ...
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I learned SO much about the brain and how our body is affected by trauma.
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
 
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A great book to read if you are wanting to understand emotions and how they work.
Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection

High School Must Have Books

Books for high school counselors that cover a range of personal development topics, providing valuable resources for students as they navigate academic, social, and personal challenges. 

 
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Explores the concept of mindset and how it impacts success, offering insights for high school students.
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
 
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Examines the role of grit in achieving long-term goals, a valuable read for high school students facing challenges.
Grit: The Power of Passion by Angela Duckworth
 
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Offers timeless principles for personal effectiveness and success applicable to high school students.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
 
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A classic guide to effective communication and relationship-building, relevant for high school students navigating social dynamics.
How to Win Friends & Influence People
 
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Encourages authenticity and self-compassion, valuable for high school students exploring their identities.
Workbook For The Gifts of Imperfection
 
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Focuses on the power of small habits and their impact on personal development, suitable for high school students.
Atomic Habits: Proven Way to Build Good Habits
 
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Offers a code of conduct for personal growth and self-discovery, applicable to high school students navigating choices.
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide ...
 
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Encourages living in the present moment and finding peace, relevant for high school students managing stress and expectations.
The Power of Now: Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
 
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Empowers readers to overcome self-doubt and pursue their goals, a motivating read for high school students.
You Are a Badass: Stop Doubting Your Greatness
 
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Explores strategies for cultivating focus and productivity, beneficial for high school students managing academic demands.
Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success
 
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Discusses the connection between happiness and success, offering insights for high school students on well-being.
The Happiness Advantage: 7 Principles of Success
 
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Challenges conventional notions of success and encourages readers to focus on what truly matters.
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counter...
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A compelling memoir about overcoming obstacles and pursuing education, inspiring for students with aspirations.
Educated: A Memoir by Westover, Tara
 
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Explores the path to personal and spiritual growth, offering insights for high school students navigating complex choices.
The Road Less Traveled, Timeless Edition
 
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Examines motivation and what drives human behavior, relevant for high school students setting academic and personal goals.
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be... by Brene Brown
 
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Offers a perspective on approaching challenges with creativity and optimism, applicable to high school students.
The Art of Possibility
 
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Presents life lessons through simple actions offering practical wisdom for high school students.
Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change...
 
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Introduces a simple technique to overcome hesitation and take decisive action.
The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins
 
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Explores the connections between emotions, behaviors, and personal growth, applicable for high school students navigating financial literacy and healthy habits.
Lost and Found: Unexpected Revelations About Food