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Fine motor delay? We got this!

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My son has struggled with a fine motor delay, and has been working with an OT, since he was 2 years old. Here are some of our tried and true toys, tools and games that have helped him grow. If you're walking through this with your child, you're not a...
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2-3 year-olds

These are not only fun and engaging, but will help develop fine-motor skills through play!

 
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Pushing the "quills" in and out builds palm strength and color recognition.
Learning Resources Spike Fine Motor Hedgehog
 
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Large, chunky plastic bolts. It teaches the twisting motion (wrist rotation) needed for later skills.
Peg Board Set - Montessori Toys for 2 Year Old
 
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Features real metal hardware (locks, latches, hooks). It feels like a "big kid" tool.
Melissa & Doug Wooden Latches Board Toy
 
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Great for "heavy work"; pulling them apart and pushing them together provides great resistance.
Pop Tubes Sensory Toys 8 Pack Large
 
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Excellent for car rides. Focuses on the "click" and "snap" of different types of buckles.
Buckle Toys - Fine Motor Skills Travel Toy
 
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Great for practicing lacing. Hand-eye coordination and using both hands together.
Melissa & Doug Primary Lacing Beads - 30 Wooden Beads & 2 Laces
 
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Picking up the thin, flat coins requires the thumb and index finger to work together (the same grip used for a pencil). Kids have to turn their wrists to align the coin with the horizontal or vertical slot, which builds flexibility.
Fisher-Price Laugh & Learn Smart Piggy Bank
 
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A classic wooden "peek-a-boo" hammering station that uses a mallet to build hand-eye coordination and arm strength as colorful pegs pop up and down in response to every strike
Melissa & Doug Deluxe Pounding Bench Toy
 
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hand strengthener! push or hammer the balls - cause and effect fun for littles
Melissa & Doug Deluxe Pound & Roll Tower

4-5 year olds

Toys and activities my son loves while working on his fine-motor goals!

 
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Hand-eye coordination! Includes a working power drill (battery operated)
Design & Drill Bolt Buddies Barn - STEM Toy
 
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Requires precise finger placement to snap gears together so the whole machine turns.
Learning Resources Gears! Gears! Gears! 100-Piece Set
 
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Pushing the small pegs into the board is the ultimate workout for the pincer grasp. Also great for kiddos who love toys that light up!
Lite Brite Classic Retro Toy - STEM Art
 
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Like a more "boy-friendly" version of Operation; requires a steady hand to pull noodles without dropping the Yeti.
Yeti in My Spaghetti Game - Kids & Family
 
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Squeezing sand strengthens the entire hand, and the tiny shovels/trucks encourage precision.
Kinetic Sand Construction Site Sandbox & Truck
 
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Different resistance levels to strengthen. Fun stackable pieces for interactive play! Storage bag for easy clean up!
Finger Exerciser Set - 5 Resistance Clips

Tools for all ages

These are great at any age. Younger kiddos may need some help from adults! 

 
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Great for playing in the sink, bath, or sensory bin of your choice!
Helping Hands Fine Motor Tool Set Toy
 
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Play-doh just got more interesting with these fun tools!
Play-Doh 9-Piece Starter Set with Tote & 4 Cans
 
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Great for pencil grip. The "brush" is chunky and teaches the "tripod" hold without the mess of real paint. No mess, no stress!
Melissa & Doug Water Wow! Mess Free Coloring
 
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Amazing for developing tripod grip! Store nicely in box. My kids LOVE these crayons.
12 Water Drop Non-Toxic Crayons for Toddlers
 
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Great to use with dry erase markers or wonder stix (see in list). No more wasted paper!
Reusable Dry Erase Sleeves 6 Pack Assorted
 
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BETTER than dry-erase!! Writes on everything. Wipes clean. More resistance than dry-erase for tracing and smaller size for little hands.
Wonder Stix Pastel Dustless Chalk Crayon 12pk