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Hair Care

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Welcome to my complete hair journey! This list is broken down into my four-stage system for healthy, salon-quality hair at home: my Wash Routine staples, the Pre-Wash oils I swear by for growth, my Post-Wash repair treatments, and the Hair Tools I’ve...
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Wash routine

The foundation of every good hair day starts in the shower. This section features my absolute favorite shampoos, conditioners, and masks that focus on deep hydration and repair without weighing your hair down.

 
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My absolute holy grail for hair recovery. It doesn't just clean; it actually smooths out my frizz and leaves my hair feeling unbelievably soft. Plus, the scent is fresh and stays with you all day. If your hair feels "fried" from heat or color, start ...
Dove Damage Therapy Intensive Repair Shampoo
 
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The perfect partner to the shampoo. It has incredible "slip," which makes detangling in the shower a breeze. It’s deeply moisturizing without being so heavy that it weighs down your volume. It makes my hair feel like I just had a professional treatme...
Damage Therapy Intensive Repair Conditioner
 
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This is my "reset button" for my hair and scalp. I use it once a week to wash away all the buildup from products, oils, and hard water. It leaves my scalp feeling incredibly clean and refreshed without stripping my hair of its natural shine.
Detox Shampoo
 
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This has been a staple in my routine for years! I love using it as a deep-conditioning treatment while I finish the rest of my shower routine. I apply it only to the ends and let it soak in for 3-5 minutes while I shave or use a body scrub. It leaves...
Invisible Oil Hydrating Hair Mask
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This is the ultimate "extra credit" for your hair routine. It’s a powerful bond-builder that strengthens your hair from the inside out. I apply it for just one minute after my conditioner, and the results are cumulative—the more you use it, the stron...
Bond Protein Repair TREATMENT
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This is my go-to when I want a truly luxurious wash day. It has a rich, creamy lather and a clean, spa-like scent that makes the whole experience feel like a treat. While it’s a bit more of an investment, the way it leaves my hair feeling nourished a...
Olive Fruit Oil Shampoo
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I am obsessed with how thick and moisturizing this conditioner is. It has a gorgeous, spa-like scent that makes your shower feel like a high-end experience. A little goes a very long way, and it leaves my hair feeling deeply hydrated without any grea...
Hair Conditioner Formula 133
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pre-wash faves

Treating your hair before you even turn on the water is my biggest secret for growth and scalp health. From stimulating massagers to nutrient-dense oils, these are the steps that have transformed my hair from the roots up

 
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This is my "secret weapon" for length and strength. I massage it into my scalp and let it work its magic for about an hour before I hop in the shower. It’s packed with nutrients that support hair growth and keeps my scalp feeling healthy and hydrated...
Organic Batana Oil
 
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My go-to for protecting my ends. I love applying this before a workout or as an overnight treatment. It’s surprisingly lightweight for an oil, so it doesn't feel greasy, but it creates a perfect moisture barrier that prevents my ends from drying out
Coconut Miracle Oil
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Don't skip this step! I use this for a 5-minute scalp massage to boost circulation before applying my oils. It feels like a spa treatment and helps the products penetrate much better. It's a total game-changer for scalp health.
Scalp Massager
 
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The perfect pick-me-up for your scalp. I alternate this with my other oils because the rosemary scent is incredible and it’s specifically formulated to support hair growth. It’s a must-have if you’re trying to grow your hair out or just want to impro...
Pre-Wash Oil
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post-wash faves

This is where the magic happens for strength and shine. These are the leave-ins, heat protectants, and towels I trust to prep my damp hair for styling while preventing breakage and frizz.

 
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This is a total holy grail for me. While it’s a bit of an investment, a tiny amount goes such a long way that the bottle lasts forever. It has a massive impact on my hair’s texture—zero grease, no frizz, just salon-silky results every time I blow it ...
Résistance Blow Dry Heat Protectant
 
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f I could only keep one product from my entire post-wash routine, it would be this. It’s a total game-changer for damaged hair. I apply it specifically to my ends on damp hair right after the shower, and the difference in strength and texture has bee...
Bond Builder & Hair Strengthening Treatment
 
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Yes, this is an investment, but it’s an absolute miracle worker. It's incredibly lightweight—not greasy at all—and a tiny bit goes a long way. I apply it to almost-dry hair as my final heat protectant layer before blow-drying, and it leaves my hair w...
Hair Oil
 
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A total must-have for heat styling! This spray protects my hair up to 450°F and uses bond-repair technology to keep it strong. It’s a literal fraction of the price of salon protectants but gives me the same sleek, shiny results. You can pick this up ...
Bond Protein Repair 450°F Heat Protect Spray
 
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A total classic for a reason—I've been using this since middle school! It’s my absolute favorite for "in-between" wash days when my ends need a little extra moisture and shine. It seals the hair perfectly and tames any flyaways without being greasy. ...
Moroccanoil
 
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My absolute favorite prep step before using a curling iron! This spray is incredibly lightweight and never leaves my hair feeling oily or greasy, even if I use it several days in a row. It doesn't build up, so my curls stay bouncy and soft rather tha...
Invisible Oil Protectant Spray
 
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This is my top choice for deep, molecular-level repair when my hair needs a serious reset. It’s an expensive treatment, but it's incredibly effective, especially after my hair has been exposed to the ocean, steam rooms, or saunas. I always keep a tra...
K18 leave-in hair mask
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I love how lightweight this is—it stays perfectly in place while I do my skincare routine without pulling on my hairline. It’s a small swap that makes a massive difference in hair health.
The Hair Towel
 
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Another absolute favorite for preventing breakage. It wicks moisture away so fast that I barely have to use my blow dryer. If you have fine or fragile hair, this is a must-have for your post-wash routine.
Aquis Hair Towel
 
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The best non-toxic dry shampoo I’ve ever used. The brush application is a total genius move—it lets you target oily spots perfectly without that 'white cast' or powdery mess everywhere. Plus, it smells like a dream.
Dry Shampoo

hair tools

Investing in the right tools makes all the difference for long-term hair health. These are the high-performance irons, wands, and dryers I’ve used for years to get salon-quality results at home with minimal heat damage

 
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I have had this wand for years, and it is still my absolute favorite for creating the perfect effortless curls and waves. The barrel size is exactly what you need for that lived-in, voluminous look without the curls being too tight. It’s incredibly d...
Drybar curling wand
 
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I mean… do I even have to say it? This is hands-down the best hair tool I’ve ever owned. It makes achieving a salon-quality blowout at home incredibly easy, and I love having so many different attachments to switch up my look. I’ve had mine for 6 yea...
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GHD is the absolute GOAT of straighteners—it is the only brand I have ever used and trusted for my hair. I’ve owned several throughout the years, and they have all been incredible, but this newer model is definitely my favorite yet. It heats up insta...
GHD Straightener
 
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This iron is truly tiny but mighty! It is absolutely necessary for styling baby hairs and those stubborn pieces right at the front that a larger iron just can’t reach. I love using it for quick finishing touches and small sections because it gives me...
BaBylissPRO Nano Titanium Mini Iron