Deiona Monroe

Some moments demand that you understand them — not just feel them. This is one of those moments. Whether you're watching federal funding disappear from organizations you care about, trying to make sense of DEI rollbacks, or just feeling the weight of what's happening to Black communities right now — these 15 books will give you the context, the language, and the framework to understand how we got here. This isn't a Black History Month list. This is a right now list.

From page-turning thrillers to heart-wrenching memoirs, sweeping historical fiction to spine-tingling horror—this reading list celebrates the breadth and brilliance of Black authors across every genre. Whether you're looking for books that challenge how you see the world, stories that make you fall in love, or reads that keep you up way past your bedtime, you'll find it here. These 22 books aren't just for Black History Month—they're essential reads that deserve a spot on your shelf year-round. Let's honor Black storytelling by actually reading, discussing, and sharing these incredible voices.

Starting a journaling practice changed how I ground myself each morning. If you're new to journaling, you don't need much—just a notebook, a pen, and intention. But these essentials can help make the practice feel sacred and sustainable, turning your daily writing into a ritual that centers and clarifies your spirit.

There's something powerful about using tools that are both beautiful and functional. In your 30s, you stop settling for ugly productivity tools or pretty things that don't actually work. This curated collection proves you don't have to choose between aesthetic appeal and genuine effectiveness. From planners that inspire you to actually use them to desk accessories that make you want to sit down and focus, these essentials combine intentional design with real productivity. Because your workspace should feel good AND help you get things done. Created in collaboration with brands that understand that beauty and function aren't opposites - they're partners.

NYC winters hit different - the cold is brutal, the darkness sets in early, and seasonal depression is real. But after years of navigating these months in the city, I've learned that winter doesn't have to mean hibernating and being miserable. This guide covers everything you need to stay physically healthy, mentally sane, and socially connected during the toughest season. From immune-boosting essentials to combating seasonal depression to staying social when all you want to do is hide under blankets - these are the tools that help you actually thrive through winter instead of just surviving it. For New Yorkers who refuse to let the cold win.

There's a difference between surviving in New York City and actually living here. In your 30s, you stop performing 'busy' and start protecting your energy. You invest in quality over quantity. You choose what aligns instead of saying yes to everything. This curated collection reflects that shift - from someone who's learned that intentional living in NYC isn't about having it all, it's about having what matters. These essentials help you create a life that feels good, not just one that looks impressive. For the New Yorkers who are done with survival mode and ready to build something real.

Staying fit in NYC doesn't have to cost $200+ monthly gym memberships or $40 boutique classes. After years of navigating expensive fitness options while building my career, I've discovered the city's best-kept secrets for staying active without breaking the bank. From free outdoor workouts to affordable gear that transforms your apartment into a gym, these resources prove you can maintain your fitness goals even on a tight budget. Perfect for recent grads, career changers, or anyone who refuses to choose between rent and their health.

There's something magical about reading during fall - the crisp air, changing leaves, and that irresistible urge to curl up with a good book. As someone who devours fantasy novels and has perfected the art of cozy reading sessions, I've curated everything you need to create the ultimate autumn reading experience. From lighting that sets the perfect mood to comfort essentials that make those long reading marathons possible, these items transform any space into a fall reading sanctuary. Whether you're diving into spooky season fantasies or savoring literary fiction, this setup will make every reading session feel like a scene from your favorite bookish aesthetic.

When deadlines pile up and stress levels spike, having the right tools can make all the difference. This curated collection comes from my experience managing high-pressure projects and helping others stay productive during overwhelming workdays. From coffee gear that actually delivers to planning tools that keep you organized and stress-relief essentials that work fast—these are the items that turn chaotic days into manageable ones. Perfect for busy professionals, remote workers, and anyone who needs to stay sharp under pressure.

This curated list comes straight from my YouTube channel [@monroetheguru] and my $0 project management training video!Who says you need expensive courses or formal training to level up your skills? I've compiled the best free and low-cost resources for developing project management expertise, honing professional skills, and gaining career-boosting knowledge. From YouTube channels and free courses to apps and tools you can start using today—everything here is accessible, practical, and designed to get you results without breaking the bank. All the resources mentioned in my video are available here, along with bonus finds to accelerate your learning journey. Perfect for self-directed learners ready to invest in themselves the smart way.

Spooky season is almost here, which makes this the perfect time to start building your fall TBR — save this list so you're ready when cozy, magical season hits. This list brings together 21 fantasy books full of dark academia vibes, magical adventures, gothic atmospheres, and hauntingly beautiful stories. From bestselling authors like Leigh Bardugo, Sarah J. Maas, V.E. Schwab, and Rebecca Yarros to dragons and witches, secret societies and parallel worlds, these BookTok favorites and award-winning reads will set the tone for cozy autumn nights, candles, and that slow build into the spookiest, most magical time of the year. Perfect for Halloween reading, autumn TBR lists, and fantasy book recommendations.

Starting yoga doesn’t mean you need to buy everything or have a perfect setup. These are just tools that can make your practice feel more comfortable, supported, and consistent. Take what you need, leave what you don’t.

Menstrual week is not for the weak — and I refuse to suffer without snacks, comfort, and a little drama. These are my ride-or-die essentials, straight from my survival diary to yours. Stock up, snuggle in, and remember: you’re not alone in the struggle.

These are the Korean skincare products I keep coming back to whenever I want my skin to look its best — brighter, more even, and hydrated. They’ve helped me with dark spots, keeping my glow, and just making my skin feel healthy overall. If you’re trying to get that fresh, radiant look without overcomplicating your routine, this list is a great place to start.

If you’re hungry in NYC, I’ve got you covered. These are my go-to restaurants — from Harlem comfort food to Brooklyn brunch spots, sushi and steak in Midtown, and desserts worth the subway ride. Whether you’re a local or just visiting, these are the places I keep going back to.