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Seattle Autumn

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Three months on a business trip in Seattle, years ago, and autumn there ruined me a little for how much I miss it living somewhere that only knows wet and dry season. Sweaters that actually get worn, candles that smell like a season I don't get here,...
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Cozy Layers

The pieces that made me miss real seasons — sweaters and coats built for a cold I don't get here, worn once a year if I'm lucky, and worth it anyway.

 
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Cotton-linen blend instead of pure wool, which means it layers without overheating the second indoor heating kicks in. The one that gets worn on repeat, not saved for a special cold day that never quite feels cold enough to justify it.
Haley Cotton Linen Sweater | AnthroHome
 
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Longline suede, the kind of coat that does most of the outfit's work on its own. This is the piece that made me miss walkable streets and real weather to dress for — nothing about Ubud calls for a coat like this, which is exactly the appeal.
NVLT Rachael Suede Longline Coat
 
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A poncho-cut vest, layers over anything without committing to full sleeves. Impractical for daily Bali life and exactly the point — this is the "remembering Seattle" purchase, not the "solving a real problem" one.
Enza 100% Cashmere Poncho Sweater
 
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Waxed cotton, structured, genuinely weatherproof in a way nothing in a tropical wardrobe needs to be. The kind of jacket that makes you want an excuse to be somewhere with real seasons again.
Barbour x Anthropologie Waxed Cotton Sullivan Jacket
 
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Quilted, less bulky than the waxed cotton version, works better for transitional cool-not-cold days. The easier one to actually wear if you're not fully committing to full autumn weight.
Barbour x Anthropologie Quilted Jacket
 
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Popover style, not a full jacket, not a sweater — the piece that bridges the gap on days that can't decide what season they are. Genuinely useful if this list ever gets used, and genuinely nostalgic if it doesn't.
Pilcro Lakeside Popover Jacket

Autumn Wardrobe

Corduroy, jacquard, tulle — the fabrics and cuts Bali never asks for. The pieces I'd actually wear if I stepped off a plane into 55°F instead of 88°F humidity.

 
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Structured jacquard pumps — no sand, no scooter, no humidity to account for. Just a proper shoe for a proper indoor evening, the kind Bali rarely calls for and Seattle always did.
Autumn Ankle Strap Kitten Heel Pumps by Badgley Mischka
 
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A basque-waist skort holds its shape without relying on a hot climate to make sense of the silhouette. Works layered with tights in a way nothing in a tropical wardrobe ever needs to.
Maeve Basque-Waist Mini Skort
 
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Tulle, sleeveless, dressy in a way that assumes indoor heating and a coat over it to get there. The dress that belongs to a version of a night out I don't really have access to here.
Hutch Willa Sleeveless Tulle Maxi Dress
 
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Wide-leg, high-rise, scalloped hem — corduroy is a fabric that has zero business existing in my actual wardrobe, which is exactly why it's on this list and not the real one.
Maeve Colette Corduroy Scallop High-Rise Wide-Leg Full
 
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Structured, ruffled, the kind of top that's begging for a jacket layered on top — a whole styling logic that just doesn't apply to a climate where layers are the enemy, not the outfit.
Pilcro Remy Shrunken Ruffle Collar Buttondown Shirt
 
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Structured puff sleeves, the kind of volume that would wilt in Bali humidity within the hour. Built for weather that does some of the work for you instead of fighting you all day.
Pilcro Tallulah Puff Sleeve Buttondown Top
 
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Platform loafer mules — closed-toe, structured, nothing about them built for sand or scooter rides. The shoe equivalent of missing sidewalks.
Bibi Lou Platform Loafer Mules
 
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Relaxed barrel-leg, pull-on ease, still corduroy — because one pair on this list clearly wasn't going to cut it once nostalgia took over.
Pilcro Izzie Relaxed Corduroy Pull-On Barrel Pants
 
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Tiered, puff-sleeved, midi-length — a silhouette that only really works when you're not sweating through it by 10am. The dress version of remembering what temperature control felt like.
By Anthropologie Tiered Puff-Sleeve Midi Dress
 
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High-rise, barrel-leg, corduroy-adjacent denim — jeans in general don't get much wear living here, let alone a textured pair built for actual cold.
Pilcro Kayden Corduroy High-Rise Barrel-Leg Jeans
 
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Ruched leather, classic loafer shape — a second closed-toe pick on this list, which says something honest about how much I miss shoes that aren't sandals or slides.
Bibi Lou Classic Ruched Loafers - Cuero Suede

Home & Seasonal Decor

Candles that smell like a season I don't get here, the small clutter of pumpkins and mugs that made a rental apartment in Seattle feel like it was actually autumn. Nothing practical about this one — just what I miss.

 
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Raspberry, warm and fruity rather than the usual pumpkin-spice cliché — this is the specific scent memory of that Seattle trip, not a generic autumn stand-in.
mise en place Fruity Autumn Raspberry Glass Candle
 
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Woody, apple-forward, and shaped like an actual pinecone — the kind of seasonal object that only makes sense in a place that has an actual fall to sell you on.
Haunted House Woody Honeycrisp & Pinecone Figural ...
 
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Dried, not fresh — which is its own small autumn logic. Bali's humidity kills a dried bouquet's whole purpose; this only really works somewhere the air isn't fighting it.
Autumn Wildflower Bouquet: Burnt Orange Dried Flower ...
 
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A whole set of tiny glass pumpkins, purely decorative, purely nostalgic. This is the closest thing on the list to just buying a memory and setting it on a shelf.
Mini Glass Pumpkins, Set of 2 - Terrain
 
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A larger single glass pumpkin — the centerpiece to the set above, for anyone who wants one statement piece instead of a scattered collection.
Glass Pumpkin (Large, #42)
 
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A stoneware mug with actual seasonal personality, not the generic white ceramic that shows up on every "kitchen essentials" list. This one's just for the fun of it.
Peluche Halloween Stoneware Cat Mug | AnthroHome
 
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A lidded tumbler with Halloween iconography — proof that even a cold-drink glass can carry a season with it if you let it.
Mystic Halloween Icon Juice Glass | AnthroHome
 
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A large printed tray to actually corral the candles, pumpkins, and mugs instead of letting them scatter across every surface. The organizing principle for the rest of this section.
Printed Archival Tray, Extra Large | AnthroHome
 
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Small, cheap, embroidered — the kind of detail nobody notices except you, which is exactly the point of a nostalgia list like this one.
Halloween Cotton Icon Embroidered Hand Towel
 
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A proper 1,000-piece puzzle — the kind of slow, indoor evening activity that a hot climate rarely invites, but a cold one always seemed to.
The Gilded Spine 1000 Piece Foil Puzzle

Skin & Hair Reset

Not autumn-specific, just the self-care upgrade that goes with slowing down for a season — real skincare and hair treatments instead of the humidity-proof basics I default to living here.

 
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A cleansing balm and toner pair, built specifically for dry skin rather than the oil-control formulas that dominate everything marketed for a hot climate. The kind of gentle routine that makes sense when the air isn't already stripping moisture out o...
Makeup Removal Duo for Dry Skin - Aesop Australia
 
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Antioxidant-rich, oil-based cleanser that dissolves makeup and sunscreen without the tight, stripped feeling most face washes leave behind. One of Aesop's most consistently praised products for a reason.
Parsley Seed Facial Cleansing Oil - Aesop Singapore
 
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A calming, anti-blemish mask built to settle irritation rather than just cover it up. The kind of slow, 15-minutes-with-nothing-else-happening ritual that's easy to skip in daily Bali life and worth making time for anyway.
Chamomile Concentrate Anti-Blemish Masque
 
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Balances oil production without stripping hair dry — built for scalps dealing with excess humidity and sweat, which describes basically every day here. A genuine upgrade over whatever's sitting in a rental bathroom.
Equalising Shampoo - Aesop hair & scalp care, styling & ...
 
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A moisturizing mask for hair and scalp both, rose-scented, meant to sit for a while rather than rinse-and-go. Pairs naturally with a slow, at-home self-care evening.
Rose Hair & Scalp Moisturising Masque - Hair Treatments
 
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Most hair routines skip the scalp entirely. This treats it directly — sage and cedar, grounding rather than floral, closer to a ritual than a product step.
Sage & Cedar Scalp Treatment