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Needles, Threads, & Peace

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Here I share my favorite cross-stitch and needlework finds that help me unwind, reflect, and create something beautiful—one stitch at a time. 🪡💖 A cozy little corner where creativity meets calm. ✨
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Cross Stitch Patterns

Cross stitching has become my little pocket of peace. Each thread feels like a moment to slow down, pray, and create something beautiful with my hands. These are my favorite finds that make every stitch extra special. 🧵💛

 
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When the kids are finally asleep, I sit down with my Santa of the Forest cross stitch. It’s my quiet time — just me, some thread, and Christmas magic. Can’t wait to hang it up for the holidays.
Lavender & Lace "Santa of the Forest" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I started the Winter White Santa cross stitch last week — and wow, it feels so calming after a long day with the kids. The tiny sparkly beads make it look so magical, like real snow on Santa’s coat.
Mirabilia "Winter White Santa" Cross Stitch Pattern & Embellishment Pack MD100
 
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I worked on Royal Holiday after putting the kids to bed. The gold and red details are stunning — it feels calm and rewarding to see her come to life stitch by stitch.
Royal Holiday Mirabilia Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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The details in her gown and flowers are delicate but not overwhelming. It’s the kind of project that makes you slow down and enjoy the process.
Lavender & Lace "Angel of Summer" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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The soft pastels and blooming details capture the beauty of the season perfectly. It’s detailed but not too hard—just enough to keep me relaxed and inspired.
Lavender & Lace "Angel of Spring" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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Stitching the Angel of Winter felt like bringing Christmas magic to life. The icy blues, silver threads, and peaceful expression make her look like she stepped right out of a snow dream. It’s one of those pieces that instantly warms your heart—even w...
Lavender & Lace "Angel of Winter" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I was amazed at how the cool blues and silvers blend to create such a graceful, peaceful figure. It’s a challenging design, but so worth it once you see her shimmer come together.
Lavender & Lace "Ice Angel" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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The deep reds and gold accents give it such a rich, festive feel. Stitching it felt like working on a piece of classic holiday art. It’s detailed but beautifully balanced, and watching the design unfold was pure satisfaction. A true centerpiece for C...
Lavender & Lace "Celtic Christmas" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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The Celtic Spring pattern feels so alive and refreshing. The soft greens and floral details perfectly capture the feeling of new beginnings. Each color blend reminded me of a garden waking up after winter.
Lavender & Lace "Celtic Spring" Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I haven’t stitched it yet, but I picked it up because the preview made me stop and take a breath—107 × 188 stitches, with bold colors and elegant details that feel like a story waiting to be told. I’m excited to see how the gold-tones shine, and how ...
Bella Filipina “The Golden Voice” Cross Stitch Pattern – 2025 Release
 
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As a mom who grabs stitching time after bedtime, I love that this design feels like a story I’ll love telling later—“I stitched this mer-warrior goddess while the house was quiet.” It’s detailed, a little intense, and absolutely worth keeping for a l...
The Legend of Freya Cross Stitch  Pattern – Bella Filipina Designs
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I finally sat down with this one last weekend and let me tell you — stitching Julia is pure joy. The firefly glow around her wings? Magical. I kept finding myself pausing after each sky-colored row just to admire how the colors shift. The included be...
Bella Filipina ‘Julia, The Firefly Princess’ Counted Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I found this pattern one quiet afternoon and thought, “Yep — I need this.” Stitching the holly-pixie wings with their soft red and green accents became my little escape after dinner. The included beads and metallic threads added exactly the sparkle I...
Bella Filipina “Holly Berry Pixie” Counted Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I finally treated myself to Greta Goldbroom and I love how the broom-sheathed girl bursts off the fabric. The wildflower trails and magical swirls of thread make each evening feel less like chores and more like a little escape. I’ve caught myself smi...
Bella Filipina “Greta Goldbroom” Cross Stitch Pattern – Black Magic Academy Series
 
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I set this chart aside for our quiet after-bedtime hour. From the very first section, I was drawn in by the way the colors pop—bright bow, deep red apple, and that hint of mystery in her eyes. It’s not just a project; it’s a story I’m stitching piece...
The Poison Apple by Bella  Filipina  Designs – Counted cross stitch pattern (2023)
 
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The mermaid’s deep-sea blues and jewel accents feel like night-time sea magic, and her treasures seem to shimmer under my lamp. It’s ambitious: the stitch count (186 × 280) is a commitment, and yes—the symbols are tiny, and the metallics and beads re...
Bella Filipina “Enchantress of the Abyss” Counted Cross Stitch Pattern
 
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I just pulled out Hummingbird Pixie for my nighttime stitching ritual, and wow—it’s everything I hoped for. The purple and teal wings shimmer subtly in the light, and the beadwork adds just the right touch of magic. It’s complex enough to keep me eng...
Bella Filipina “Hummingbird Pixie” Counted Cross Stitch Pattern + Beads & Threads Set
 
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I pulled this pattern out last night and felt a little thrill — the design of Belinda surrounded by her over-grown magical plants spoke me at that exact exhausted-but-still-creative hour. The details are lovely—not overly dense but enough so I’m imme...
Bella Filipina “Belinda Botanica” Cross Stitch Pattern – Black Magic Academy Series

Cross Stitch Fabrics

A collection of my go-to cross stitch fabrics—soft, durable, and perfect for every project. Whether you’re stitching your first pattern or your hundredth, these fabrics make every design feel special and easy to love. 💫

 
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The fabric feels high-quality—smooth yet sturdy—and my needle just glides through. The weave is even, making it perfect for detailed cross stitch projects. It gives every piece that professional, polished look I love.
Zweigart Belfast 32 Count Linen Sampler Fabric
 
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The 32ct Old England Linen has such a beautiful vintage charm. Its warm, antique tone gives my cross stitch projects a classic, timeless look—especially for samplers and heirloom designs. The texture is soft but durable, and stitching on it feels eff...
32 Count Old England Linen Fabric
 
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This Zweigart Vintage Belfast Linen 32 Ct. is a dream to stitch on. I love how the subtle vintage tones—especially the soft neutrals—add warmth and depth to my projects. The weave is even and easy to work with, perfect for both beginners and seasoned...
Zweigart Vintage Belfast Linen 32 Count
 
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The 16ct Aida Zweigart fabric is my go-to when I want clean, precise stitches. The grid is perfectly even, making counting so much easier, especially for detailed patterns. It’s firm enough to hold its shape but still soft to the touch. Whether you’r...
16 Count Aida Zweigart Fabric
 
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The subtle sparkle catches the light beautifully without being overwhelming, and the even weave makes stitching smooth and enjoyable. I used it for a winter-themed design, and the shimmer made it look so special—like it was glowing.
16 Count Glitter Cross Stitch Fabric
 
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The DMC Charles Craft Aida Fabric is one of those reliable staples every stitcher should have. The quality is excellent—sturdy, smooth, and easy to handle. The 16ct weave gives perfect stitch definition, and I love that it comes in different sizes. I...
DMC Charles Craft 16 Count Aida Fabric

Cross Stitch Threads

A colorful collection of my favorite cross stitch threads that bring every design to life. From soft pastels to bold hues, these threads make stitching more fun, relaxing, and beautifully vibrant. 🪡✨

 
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The colors are vibrant, soft, and consistent—no fading or fraying even after hours of stitching. I love being able to pick my own shades and stock up for future projects. It blends beautifully and gives every cross stitch piece that polished, profess...
DMC Embroidery Floss Art.117 – Premium Cotton Thread
 
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The DMC Satin Floss gives such a beautiful, silky sheen to my stitching projects. It’s perfect for adding a little shine to floral designs or lettering. The texture feels smooth and luxurious, and the color range is gorgeous—so many rich tones to cho...
DMC Satin Floss Six Strand – Shiny Embroidery Thread in 60 Vibrant Colors
 
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I used it for stars and Christmas accents, and it made my project shine—literally. It’s a bit stiffer than regular floss, but the shimmer it gives is totally worth the extra care. A little goes a long way to make your stitches pop.
DMC Light Effects Metallic Floss Art.317W – Shimmering 6-Strand Thread
 
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The DMC Metallic Pearl Size 5 is my go-to when I want a touch of gold or silver elegance in my stitching. It’s thicker than regular floss, giving beautiful texture and shine without being too flashy. I used it to outline stars and ornaments, and it m...
DMC Metallic Pearl Cotton Size 5 – Gold & Silver Embroidery Floss
 
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The Kreinik Very Fine Metallic Braid #4 is such a beautiful way to add shimmer and dimension to stitching projects. It catches the light perfectly without overpowering the design. I used it on 16ct fabric, and it glided smoothly through the holes—no ...
Kreinik Very Fine Metallic Braid #4 – 12yd Premium Metallic Thread