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Helpful tools when caring for an ill or aging parent
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items My mother has several significant medical issues. Caring for her through these matters and as she ages has been quite an experience. These are some tools or resources that really help!
This may seem silly, but tongs have been a lifesaver. They are easier to store and clean (dishwasher safe) than the grabbers. We keep them all around the house for Momma. Whether she is using them to grab laundry from the washer/dryer, or to pick up ...
Non Scratch Silicone Tip Tongs - Various Lengths
These are VERY easy to attach to a standard walker or rollator with zip ties. While this may not be the fanciest “look” it is a very streamlined, functional, and inexpensive solution to carting around items while using a safety tool like a walker or ...
Mesh Shower Organizer with 7 Pockets
As Momma’s vision slowly deteriorates, she needs a magnifying glass more frequently. This one takes AAA batteries, but has a decent battery life. The light has been perfectly bright and the 30X magnification has been wildly helpful, even for a phone.
Handheld Magnifying Glass 18LED 3 Modes
This is a smaller wedge pillow that has proven invaluable as Momma sits more. She can use this pillow to change which areas of her bottom are getting pressure, which was even more helpful when she broke her tailbone in a fall. But it remains helpful ...
Big Hippo Memory Foam Wedge Pillow 14x14x2.75
This is another helpful cushion to rotate in the seat of chairs to help adjust the pressure points on Momma’s bottom as she sits more as a result of illness and aging.
Gel Seat Cushion Large Thick for Hip Pain
As a side-sleeper, I personally love this pillow. I bought one for Momma after a long hospital stay and it’s been very helpful. The L-shape of the pillow makes it easy to use in chairs, behind her back and neck, or even on her lap. It’s inexpensive a...
DMI U-Shape Body Pillow for Side Sleepers
This is the extra pillow case for the L-shaped pillow.
Contour L Pillow Case Navy for L-Shaped Pillow
Momma’s toilets are an odd size, but this fit wonderfully. In fact, we were able to install it with the front bars in the rear and multiple PT and OT experts have said it’s a good, stable fit. It’s been a true safety blessing!
Adjustable Toilet Safety Rails for Seniors 600LB
The handles of the drawers and cabinets are a darker color in Momma’s home. But they also have blunt, somewhat sharp ends for thin skin that tears easily. So I ordered a couple packs of these, cut them in half, and stuck them on the ends of the handl...
BLUECELL 30-Pack Black 1.5in Soft Pencil Grips
While not Apple authorized, this long cord has been a game-changer for Momma. She can feel the two different sides of the ends even when her vision isn't good. The fact that there are usb-c and lightning connections means the cord can be used for her...
2 in 1 iPhone Fast Charger Cable 10ft
This heating pad is weighted, has multiple heat settings, and has a vibrating massage feature. It works for so many different purposes, including soothing massage for back pain or leg cramps, warming up post-dialysis, calming as a small weighted (and...
Sharper Image Calming Heat Massaging Pad 12x24
This spray can gently serve as a mild sanitizer or quick and safe cleanser without any stinging or burning. As the skin thins and tears easily, this has been so helpful to avoid irritating a wound while carefully removing debris.
BRIOTECH Pure Hypochlorous Acid Spray 8.5oz
These are almost identical to a more expensive brand that I used for several years. They are great because the size is big enough to serve as a disposable washcloth that doesn't easily tear. Yet, they are lightweight, hygenic, and easy to keep closeb...
Ourmed Life Disposable Biodegradable Face Towels, 50 Count
This portable charger is not very heavy and has built in lightning, usb-c, and micro-usb connectors. It can be used to charge phones, tablets, hearing aids, and a variety of small electronics. It doesn't require a cord to charge, in fact the plug jus...
VRURC 10000mAh USB C Portable Charger
These are can be soothing when to tired eyes, worn on the forehead when suffering with a headache or migraine, or just enjoyed as a relaxing self-care ritual. They are so easy to use, just open and loop over the ears. I love them, but they have also ...
Steam Eye Mask, Self Heating Warm Compress
This hand-sized 20X mirror has been a terrific personal care resource as Momma's vision has declined. It helps her see everything from eye issues to applying makeup to skin care. We struggled to find a mirror that provided enough magnification in a p...
MIRRORVANA 20X Compact Travel Magnifier
Momma really didn't want a bed rail, but it became a necessity. Once we put this in place, she said she wished she'd done it sooner. It's small enough to work without overwhelming the bed, very stable, and just perfect for her space.
Medical King Bed Rails for Elderly Adults Safety