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The 12 Days of Witchmas | Gifts For the Darkly Inclined

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sing along to this grimmer spin on the well-known Christmas carol celebrating outlandish gift-reaping! (The 12 days start on Christmas day, if you're counting. Straight from the advent calender into the wishlist.)
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On the First Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

A custom made corset

 
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I have two Lace Embrace corsets - overbust and longline underbust - and can vouch for their quality. Melanie Talkington is an absolute sweetheart!
Custom Corsets | Lace Embrace Atelier

On the Second Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Two pairs of anti-social socks (fuck you, Aunt Carol, it's not a phase)

 
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What happens inside the combat boot, stays inside the combat boot.
I'm a Delicate F*cking Flower Socks - Blue Q
 
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Smiling on the outside, checked out on the inside.
Hi, I Don't Care Socks - Blue Q

On the Third Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Outfits to make sure I'm not included in any photos

 
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Gotta have a leather jacket. Two or three is even better.
Women's Classic Biker Debossed Leather Jacket - Harley Davidson
 
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You can't be a consumptive Victorian lady all the time - sometimes you have to break out the kickass.
Lambskin Skinny-Fit Zipped Trousers Philipp Plein
 
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How are you supposed to pretend you're an assassin without a leather jumpsuit? Honestly.
Leather and Cotton Jumpsuit - Rick Owens

On the Fourth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Four fabulous Fluevogs that say “I kick and bite”

 
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THE cloven hoof boot - now comes in colours!
Grand National Boot - Fluevog Shoes
 
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The absolutely iconic Swordfish bump toe in a buckled ankle boot. Legendary.
Cubist Cupcake - Fluevog Shoes
 
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Fluevog is so good at taking a classic - a witchy boot - and turning it into art.
Alexandria Black Lace-Up Boots with a Leather Ruffle | Fluevog Shoes
 
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Combining the goth pike long, pointed toe with an early 20th century women's lace up - and some shimmer, cos why not.
Jenne Black Metallic Lace-Up Heels | Fluevog Shoes

On the Fifth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Five very on-brand rings

 
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Very detailed, heavy - in the good way - silver jewellery. Choose from mythology-inspired, various animals, biker/horror and more. The gothic architecture series is so unique!
ArtFoxJewelryStudio on Etsy
 
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Mother's little helper holders. Aspirin. I mean aspirin...
Poison Rings by ArtofRing - Etsy
 
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Macabre Gadgets is one of those TAKE MY MONEY companies. Their mythology rings are gorgeous, they use a lot of pearls in non-traditional ways, and everything has a little edge to it.
Macabre Gadgets Skull Rings
 
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Kicking open the door to the underworld like “oh, this old thing?”
StarlandUS Coffin-cut Engagement Sets - Etsy
 
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Make friends with the inevitable
Antique Memento Mori Rings

On the Sixth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Six (x four) obscenely expensive gourmet chocolates as black as my soul

 
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You know what, just give me 6 Terry's chocolate oranges and let me make myself truly sick. Yay, Witchmas!
NōKA Chocolate - Vintages Collection (~$854/lb)
 
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(My undead love had a less pretentious backup)
Coppeneur Chocolatier Canada

On the Seventh Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Seven deathly bath & body products

 
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Nothing says “Merry Witchmas” like staining everything black like your mood
Gift Republic Dark Like My Heart Bath Bombs
 
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Earthy and spicy like dead flowers on a grave
Exotique Blends - Black Gold Bath Bar
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The age old dilemma: you can't go out cos your roots are showing, but you wanna go out cos it's rainy and blowing. WWPSD
Black black black black #1
 
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It is ILLEGAL (look it up) to take a black, glittery bath without at least a dozen black candles making a mess everywhere and heating the room and extra 2 degrees, Beauty is suffering.
Apotheke Luxury Scented Candle - Charcoal
 
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Deep, warm, and smoky, with earthy and animalic notes, like bonfires and wolf skin boots… and the club at 2am.
Black Oud by Maison d'Orient Fragrance
 
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What is more goth than staring at the night sky and contemplating your mortality (from the comfort of your bath)?
Black Magic - Bath Bomb
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Get clean and smooth while scrubbing the black right into your skin!
Natural Charcoal Body & Face Scrub

On the Eighth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Eight drinks for coping

 
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IT'S SHIMMERY! IT LOOKS LIKE BLUE GOLDSTONE! I am hyperventilating
Black Magic - Elle Talk
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Black as night, black as coal #teargoals
The Black Widow - Aimee Mars
 
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As the wise man said - “Tequila!”
Mysterious Black Margarita Recipe | Filo de Agave Tequila
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It's a little bat! That you can drink! And then annoy someone with the leafy bits. 10/10 very festive.
Ektoras Biniko - Absolut Kelly
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Very atmosphere. Such mist among the graves. Goth af y'all!
Spooky Black Cocktail - Alekas Get Together
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Enjoy some covert trauma-bonding with little guy (doesn't he look pn the verge of tears?) Too bad you don't get to melt away and escape it all like he does.
(Another) Black Magic Cocktail - Celebrations at Home
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A half moon floating in the infinite depths of a cold and unfeeling cosmos. Tragically beautiful.
Lunar Elixir Cosmopolitan - xoxo Bella
 
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Last resort: get tossed out for general inappropriateness. A xmas to remember (or not)!
Blavod Black Vodka

On the Ninth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Nine crosses to banish the bad vibes

 
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Holy shit this is beautiful! Blister pearls, almandine garnets and Turkish turquoise, along with enameling.
Wonderful Antique Silver-gilt Gem-set Austro-hungarian Cross Pendant In Original Case, C 1890.
 
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As much as it hurts me to say it, red stones just look better set in gold.
Renaissance Revival Cross Pendant with Pearl and Garnets c.1880
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“Unheated” means the rubies really are that vibrant colour, which is very unusual.
Unheated Art Deco Ruby Diamond Cross 18K White - SalonUber
 
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This was made to hang from a velvet choker.
Victorian Fourteen Carat Gold Black Paste And Split Pearl Cross C1880
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The simplicity of the design contrasts so well with the intricate inner scroll work.
Antique Carved Gold Diamond Cross c.1880
 
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Loving the layers built up on each other.
Gerochristo 5124 - Solid Gold, Silver & Gemstone Byzantine-Style Large Cross Pendant
 
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Just little diamond-encrusted antique things
Rococo Cross Pendant With 15 Rose Cut Diamonds
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What a find this is (assuming it's genuine)! That the reliquaries still exist is incredible.
1600s Renaissance Antique Reliquary Silver Cross, Georgian Cross - SalonUber
 
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You can just see the beginnings of what will become Art Deco in the style lines of this cross.
Antique Edwardian Diamond Platinum Openwork Cross Pendant c.1910

On the Tenth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

Ten creepy kisses in the cemetary

 
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Black is hard to wear, and so is grey, but mix them together and add some metallic pigment and you have a much more user-friendly lip!
Hell Bites Imperishable Lips - Mistress of the Night Metallic Black
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Sleepwalker liquid to matte, Omen satin bullet lipstick, and The Mortician pigmented lip gloss
Into the Void Lip Trinity - Black Moon Cosmetics
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I'm in love with the “Recently Deceased” purples! Always a treat to see a red eyeshadow.
Halloween Collection Bundle - Black Moon Cosmetics
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I went “Oh.” The packaging, the colours. the packaging… Oh. [SOLD OUT]
Interview with the Vampire Rose Lipsticks Set - Phoenix Rising Cosmetics
 
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Lips as red as blood on snow, wardrobe as dark as the forest on a moonless night.
Ultimate Reds Bundle - Black Moon Cosmetics
 
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Olive gold is my goooooold I waaant it (look at that pigmentation DAMN)
Emperor Kraken - Black Moon Cosmetics
 
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Flashbacks to the “nude” trend of the early 2000s, though this one is a bit more cream than peach. Top it with a blue or purple gloss for that "recently removed" look!
Osamenta Lipstick - Necromancy Cosmetics
 
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A shimmery iridescent mix of baby blue and turquoise that can be sheer or built up to a beautiful aqua.
Zenith Moon Topper - Black Moon Cosmetics
 
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Wear on their own for colour-shifting magic, or as toppers for when you're feeling ethereal like a ghost haunting the attic of a mansion with a dark and sordid past.
The Vixen Collection - Concrete Minerals
 
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Still my favourite liner, hands down.
Rimmel 1000 Kisses Stay On Lip Liner

On the Eleventh Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

An entire garden of otherworldly delights! (AndromedasCurse on etsy has some of the most original dark/witchy/goth scents. It's not just all berries and sweetness - there's a lot of green notes, along with unusual notes like milk, and plenty of woods...

 
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I would wear every single one of these, which is unusual with collections ----- 🐍 𝗕𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗸 • Wormwood, Fall Leaves, Moss, Salt, Oakmoss, Oud 👾 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗺𝗲𝗿𝗮 • Chocolate, Palo Santo, Violet, Cinnamon, Patchouli, Egyptian Musk, Vanilla 🦁 𝗚...
Bestiary Collection Volume 1 Gift Box (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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This collection has a few more earthy notes ----- 𝗖𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗱𝗿𝗶𝘂𝘀 • Leather-bound pharmacopoeia, a warm cup of tea, & stargazer lilies in a glass vase. 🐐 𝗦𝗮𝘁𝘆𝗿 • Barrels of blackberry wine in golden goblets, clove bud, cashmere, incense,...
Bestiary Collection Volume 2 Gift Box (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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This collection includes fragrances from the divination connection ----- • 𝗕𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗿 𝗥𝗼𝘀𝗲 - Thorny Roses, Incense, Dragon’s Blood, Egyptian Musk, Rosewood, Black Oud • 𝗞𝗮𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗵 𝗝𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗮 - Piles of dusty leather-bound books, a s...
Dark Academia Gift Box (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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I am nothing if not terribly predictable ----- 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Funerary Flowers, Musk, Dirt 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Letting Go, Looking Forward, Accepting Change. "Black musk, freshly laid dirt, a wreath of funerary flowers, a s...
Death: Funerary Flowers, Musk, Dirt (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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If you can't get lost in a forest, store bought is fine ----- 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐲 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Dirt, Leaves, Woods 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: The smell of fallen leaves crunching underfoot...
Dead Leaves & the Dirty Ground: Dirt, Leaves, Woods (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan) - Andromedas Curse
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Lured up from the dark depths of the subconscious by this ----- 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Milk, Honey, White Florals 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Emotion, Reflection, Perplexity. "White flowers, milk and honey." 𝐒𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐓𝐲𝐩𝐞: Floral 𝐍�...
The Moon: Milk, Honey, White Florals (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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Let me sniff my wrist and I'll tell you your fortune (it's bad) ----- Dark incense swirls like the last dregs of tea in your cup as you try to divine the meaning in the leaves. 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Black Tea, Incense, Amber 𝐒𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐓𝐲𝐩𝐞: Warm Wo...
Tasseomancy: Black Tea, Incense, Amber (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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Part of the Alice in Wonderland collection ----- 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Incense, Cedarwood, Amber 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Deeper down the rabbit hole into a dark forest where strange creat...
Never Seen By Waking Eyes: Incense, Cedarwood, Amber (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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Did someone say “leather”? Inspired by Rasputina's “The Hunter's Kiss” - 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐇𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫'𝐬 𝐊𝐢𝐬𝐬 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Leather, Dark Forest, Incense 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Fallen Leaves crunch underfoot - Tobacco smoke swirls...
The Hunter's Kiss: Leather, Dark Forest, Incense (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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Isn't wet moss one of the best scents in the world? ----- 𝐋𝐮𝐧𝐚 𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Jasmine, Bamboo 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Slick garden stones, the sound of bamboo swaying in the wind and the scent of blooming chrysanth...
Luna Moth: Jasmine, Bamboo, River Stones (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free) - AndromedasCurse
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I'm the weirdo who doesn't mind smelling like wood smoke ----- 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬: Bonfire, Forest 𝐅𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Cinders glow, flames lick, and grey smoke billows into the night as embers fly into the air and mix with the ...
Firefly Hollow: Bonfire, Forest (Rollerball Perfume Oil - Vegan & Cruelty Free)
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On the Twelfth Day of Witchmas My Undead Love Sent To Me...

12 pairs of skin-obscurers lest my vampire-white legs cause anyone to go blind

 
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If you can wear an ugly sweater, I can wear my holey tights.
2 Pack Patterned Fishnet Tights - Moon, Star, Kawaii, Hearts, Gothic, Cut-Out, Diamond, Pentagram, Chevron Tribal, Cross, Abstract, Snake
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For the dark academia-leaning among us.
Skull bat & moth pattern on black semi-opaque tights
 
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Love the simple, bold design, especially the asymmetrical legs - makes it interesting.
Black bandage Style tights - Flying Hedgehog UK
 
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If you don't have a pair of spider tights, it's not too late to change!
Lace Spider Web Tights
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Don't underestimate or dismiss animal print tights - they're perfect if you're going for more of a rock look (especially 80s)
Leg Avenue Tights - Snake, Bats, Zebra
 
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Um, these are AWESOME! Jus imagine under black light.
Leg Avenue Women's Op Art Tights
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Wouldn't be Witchmas without these little devils making an appearance!
Red 7 Deadly Sins Tights
 
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Somebody's bound to bring it up - might as well own it.
Sheer Black Tights with “Hot Mess” Print - LoneRoseCo (also comes in "Sinner", "Witchy Woman", and "Bite Me")
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Emily Dickinson is the original goth girl, and this is one of her more dramatic poems. Girl didn't hold back.
EMILY DICKINSON Poem Tights "I gave myself to Him" - colinedesign
 
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The call of Cthulhu on the dance floor. Definitely a conversation starter (... or ender)
Octopus Fancy Fishnet Tights - adoptetonpoulpe
 
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The classic layering combo of black and red net (excuse me I'm having a moment)
Ripped black & red fishnet tights - agoraphobix
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Thank the Goths for tights that are cheap enough it isn't a disaster when you snak them on your rings.
SOUTHRO Women's Patterned Tights - Spiderwebs
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