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Things That Help Me Act Like I’m Not Falling Apart (Even When I Am)
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items Things That Convince Me I’m Functioning When I’m Definitely Just Vibing Through Chaos
Sections
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Functional Delusions
Aesthetic Coping Mechanisms
Pretend Productivity Starter Pack
Functional Delusions
Why: It’s leak-proof, cute, and lets you sip or chug depending on your emotional state.
Beneble Vibe: The hydration equivalent of an emotional support friend.
Freesip - Owala
Why: Structured enough to feel like you’re journaling, short enough for when your brain is mush.
Beneble Vibe: Passive productivity. You did one thing today.
The Five Minute Journal - Original Linen - Intelligent Change
Why: Smells like you have your life together (even if you’re spiraling with soft lighting).
Beneble Vibe: Clean girl meets brooding academic.
Teakwood & Tobacco - P. F. Candle Co.
Why: It fights seasonal depression with bright white light. Literally.
Beneble Vibe: Fake it ‘til your circadian rhythm makes it.
Verilux HappyLight® Luxe Light Therapy Lamp
Why: 20g of protein and zero prep. Plus they’re actually good??
Beneble Vibe: Adult Lunchables, but emotionally evolved.
Barebells Cookies & Cream Protein Bar
Aesthetic Coping Mechanisms
Why: You don’t have to read it to feel something just by holding it.
Beneble Vibe: Sad girl canon. Also, literary clout.
The Bell Jar (Modern Classics): Plath, Sylvia
Why: It gives your hands something to do besides scroll TikTok or pick at your cuticles.
Beneble Vibe: Quietly anxious but high-functioning.
Aluminum Alloy Infinity Fidget Cube - 6 Colors
Why: You can be mentally crumbling but if you have gold hoops on, it’s fine.
Beneble Vibe: Chaos, but make it minimalist chic.
Gold Vermeil Dôme Hoop Earrings - Jewelry | Mejuri
Why: Diffuse peppermint oil and pretend you’re not overstimulated — just refreshed.
Beneble Vibe: Spa core meets stress management.
Cordless Diffuser | Vitruvi Move Diffuser
Pretend Productivity Starter Pack
Why: Keeps your coffee warm long enough to remember you made it.
Beneble Vibe: “I’m a slow sipper, not a disaster.”
Ember Mug 2 | Heated Coffee Mug
Why: For when you want to feel productive while writing absolutely nothing of value.
Beneble Vibe: Pretend journaling as an executive function hack.
reMarkable 2
Why: Feels like pajamas, looks like you tried.
Beneble Vibe: Mentally in bed by 5, physically ready for brunch.
Soft Lounge - SKIMS
(Takis but with taste)
Why: Crunch therapy.
Beneble Vibe: Self-care is 50% snacks, 50% delusion.
Chili & Lime Flavored Rolled Corn Tortilla Chips (Trader Joe's ...
Why: Temporarily de-puffs your face, permanently boosts your illusion of control.
Beneble Vibe: “If I look sculpted, maybe I am emotionally regulated.”
MINI+® Starter Kit - Smart Petite Facial Toning Kit - NuFACE