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My Deep Summer Ritual Tools
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What I Use to Track My Own Cycle & Energy
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Books on the Mother Archetype & Feminine Power
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Roots & Release
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The Ardra Storm Kit
My Deep Summer Ritual Tools
🌱 Everything I’m reaching for this month to nourish the roots — journaling, candlelight, and small grounding practices. A few of my go-to sources, linked below.
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My go-to for integrating tarot into daily journal reflection. Moon phases, weekly intentions, and space to actually sit with what a card is telling me intuitively. Women-founded, and it shows in how thoughtfully it’s built.
Writual Planner | Tarot Journals for Self-Care and Self-Discovery
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These are made specifically for reading and reflecting— light one before you pull a card, let the scent hold the moment, snuff it out when you’re done. Small ritual, big shift in how present I feel during a reading.
Pinky Swear & Co. | Coconut Soy Candles (@pinkyswearandco)
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Where I go for grounding tools — crystals, altar pieces, small additions to a quiet corner of the house. Good starting point if you’re building your own space for reflection and don’t know where to begin.
Crystals
What I Use to Track My Own Cycle & Energy
Not really a wellness routine — just the subtle tools that help me notice my own patterns instead of fighting them. Cycle-syncing has taught me more about pacing myself than almost anything else. 🌙
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Whatever specific planner you’re currently using — daily/weekly layout with cycle-phase tracking built in, so energy patterns become noticeable over a few months instead of feeling out of sync.
Cycle Syncing Journal - Etsy
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My go-to blend. Pair this with lemon and raw honey, and it’s refreshing and comforting. Help alleviate my menstrual pain in due time. Wonderful alternative if you don’t want to rely so much on prescription medication.
Organic Cycle Support Loose Leaf Tea
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An Oracle card deck that is helpful for guidance to cycle track and understand your body more deeply (or connecting with divine feminine even if you experience a menstrual cycle or not).
The Sacred Cycles Oracle: 50-Card Deck & Guidebook
Books on the Mother Archetype & Feminine Power
The books that shaped how I think about the Mother archetype, feminine rage, and reclaiming power that was never really lost — just buried. A running list I keep adding to. 🌿
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I feel that every woman has this book in their collection! This is foundational text for this whole category. Myth, folklore, and Jungian analysis on the “Wild Woman” archetype — heavy, but life-changing if you sit with it slowly.
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths & Stories
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Breaks down Greek goddess archetypes as psychological patterns in real women’s lives. A great way to identify which “mode” you default to, and which one you’re neglecting.
Goddesses in Everywoman: Powerful Archetypes
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Less on mythology, more on modern retribution — on why women’s anger gets pathologized instead of honored, and what reclaiming it actually looks like.
Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger
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If you’re familiar with Sue’s book, “The Secret Life of Bees,” you’ll find this one a great read too. A memoir of leaving a narrow-minded spiritual framework to find the sacred feminine instead. Gentle, personal, and a good starting point if Estés fe...
The Dance of the Dissident Daughter
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This book is a really good read. I was skeptical at first, but it’s a great start on how to reclaim your sacred feminine of revealing your inner feminine, identity, and sensuality.
Untamed: Reese's Book Club - Glennon Doyle
Roots & Release
A companion shelf for boundaries, reflection, and release. 🌱
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For the ones who confuse control with love — a reminder that boundaries are the answer, not the guilt.
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
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If you’ve ever felt responsible for a whole household, this one will feel like it’s reading you back.
The Eldest Daughter Effect: How Firstborn Women - like Oprah Winfrey, Sheryl Sandberg, JK Rowling and Beyonc - Harness their Strengths
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The book Diana and Paco both needed on their nightstands.
All about Love: New Visions
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For the letter to your past self — the one Mercury retrograde keeps asking you to write.
Start Where You Are: Journal for Self-Exploration
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For sitting with a question to reflect on longer than the essay could give you room for.
The Wild Unknown Tarot Deck & Guidebook Set
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Perfect when you are ready to unwind, read, or release while the candle is lit.
The May Twenty-Third Candle
The Ardra Storm Kit
A five-piece ritual kit inspired by Ardra — the storm nakshatra that clears away what’s false so you can finally hear your own inner authority. Built for anyone sitting with Venus in Ardra this Solar Return, or anyone ready to stop pretending to be l...
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Light this when the noise finally stops. A 3-wick soy candle with earthy lavender, vanilla, violet, freesia, and black pepper — plus clear quartz crystals to keep once the wax is gone.
Grounding 16 oz. Ritual Candle (Lavender)
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Ardra’s symbol, worn close. An 18K gold vermell teardrop pendant on a delicate rope chain — a soft reminder that the storm has a shape, and so does what comes after it.
Gold Teardrop Necklace | Droplet Pendant Necklace
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For the voice that’s been waiting to speak. A refillable leather journal for the writing you do once you stop narrating your life around someone else’s approval.
Personalized Refillable Leather Journal with Charm, Traveler’s Notebook Cover A5 A6, Thank You Gift for Him Her, Back to School
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Space for what’s true, once the air clears. A 22”x22” velvet cloth for tarot spreads or altar work, in a jewel tone that holds the storm without pulling back.
Velvet Altar Cloth - "Celestial"
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After the storm, roots back down. A naturally caffeine-free rooibos with notes of toasted caramel and black pepper — the quiet closing to the ritual.
Golden Moon Organic Rooibos Loose Leaf Tea