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Memoirs to Read for Pride Month

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To celebrate Pride Months has some to enjoy for LGTQIA authours
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Lesbian

 
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A graphic memoir exploring sexuality, family secrets, and Bechdel’s coming out alongside her father’s.
Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic
 
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A "biomythography" blending memoir, poetry, and myth about Black lesbian identity and self-discovery.
Zami: A New Spelling of my Name - Penguin
 
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A collection of Lorde's essays and speeches, essential for queer, feminist, and Black theory.
Sister Outsider
 
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Essays from the founder of the Lesbian Herstory Archives, about being working-class, Jewish, and lesbian in 1950s New York.
A Restricted Country

Gay

 
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A heartbreaking account of surviving conversion therapy in the American South.
Boy Erased: A Memoir of Identity, Faith and Family
 
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A poetic, raw, and lyrical memoir about growing up Black and gay in the U.S.
How We Fight for Our Lives: A Memoir
 
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A psychology-rooted memoir exploring internalized shame and healing
The Velvet Rage: Overcoming Pain Growing Up Gay
 
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A YA memoir-manifesto on Black queer boyhood, family, identity, and resilience.
All Boys Aren't Blue

Bisexual

 
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A witty, smart exploration of bisexual identity, desire, and the complexity of labels.
Greedy: Notes from a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much
 
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A deeply personal account of growing up queer, Latina, and working class in the U.S
A Cup of Water Under My Bed: A Memoir
 
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A blend of memoir and radical theory — unapologetically bi-centered.
Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution
 
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A landmark collection of essays and memoirs that amplify the bi+ experience.
Bi Any Other Name - Bisexual People Speak Out

Intersex

 
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A poetic, raw, and humorous memoir chronicling Hillman’s experience as an intersex activist and person.
Intersex (For Lack of a Better Word)
 
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A candid account of discovering she was born intersex (with androgen insensitivity syndrome) and the medical concealment that followed.
XOXY: A Memoir (Intersex Woman, Mother, Activist)
 
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One of the most well-known intersex memoirs, this book blends activism, personal narrative, and a call for bodily autonomy.
Born Both: An Intersex Life
 
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A gripping memoir about being raised under secrecy, surviving unnecessary surgeries, and growing into a leading intersex advocate.
Nobody Needs to Know: A Memoir

Transgender

 
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A powerful coming of age memoir by a black trans women
Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood
 
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By the first openly transgender person to speak at a major political convention
Tomorrow Will Be Different: Trans Equality
 
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Written with humour and honesty about the social ,medical , and emotional aspects of transtitioning
Just Add Hormones: Insider's Guide to Transsexual Experience
 
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A highly personal narrative about transitioning in his teens and early adulthood
Before I Had the Words: Being a Transgender YA

Non-binary

 
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A graphic memoir about navigating life outside the gender binary. Widely acclaimed and widely challenged—deeply resonant.
Gender Queer: A Memoir
 
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A vibrant, stylish, and thought-provoking memoir from a non-binary writer and performer in the UK.
In Their Shoes: Navigating Non-Binary Life
 
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A poetic, fierce, and concise exploration of gender outside the binary—blending memoir and manifesto.
Beyond the Gender Binary
 
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Includes autobiographical reflection alongside educational content on non-binary identities.
They/Them/Their: Guide to Nonbinary Identities

Asexual

 
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A groundbreaking blend of memoir, interviews, and cultural criticism. Chen, a queer Chinese-American science journalist, shares her experience discovering she was asexual and examines what ace identity reveals about intimacy and expectations
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire
 
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A graphic memoir that’s relatable, funny, and heartfelt. Burgess details the confusion of adolescence and the discovery of asexuality in adulthood.
How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual
 
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Based on their popular podcast, this book includes autobiographical insights and humor while unpacking common misconceptions about ace and aro identities.
Sounds Fake but Okay: Asexual & Aromantic View
 
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Join the The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project (TAAAP) for a deep dive into the process of discovering and embracing your ace and aro identities. Empower yourself to explore the nuances of your identity, find and develop support networks, explore differen...
Ace and Aro Journeys: Embracing Asexual & Aromantic Identity