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A Must-Have Books for Anyone Who Keeps Making Themselves Small
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items I spent years waiting for a 'permission slip' to be successful, only to realize I was the one holding the pen. These books helped me stop shrinking to fit into rooms where I was meant to stand tall. If you're tired of being your own biggest obstacle,...
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Rewiring Your Inner Narrative 🧠🤯
The Science of High Performance📈
Taking Up Space & "Playing Big" 🤩
The "Confidence Reset" ✨
Rewiring Your Inner Narrative 🧠🤯
The "mental shift" books. Start here to stop the self-sabotage.
This is the foundation. It helped me realize that "not being good at something yet" isn't a permanent state. It’s the ultimate cure for the fear of looking like a beginner.
Mindset – Carol S. Dweck
If you feel like you’re constantly getting in your own way, this book is a mirror. It’s a gentle but firm guide on how to stop self-sabotaging your progress.
The Mountain Is You – Brianna Wiest
A total game-changer for people-pleasers. It taught me that other people's opinions of me are none of my business. Truly liberating.
The Courage to Be Disliked – Ichiro Kishimi
The Science of High Performance📈
To prove to your logical brain that "luck" is something you can build.
This stopped me from comparing my "Chapter 1" to someone else’s "Chapter 20." It breaks down the math behind success so you can stop feeling "less than". It helped me stop blaming myself for not being “naturally gifted” and shifts my mindset from sel...
Outliers – Malcolm Gladwell
I used to think I lacked "natural talent." This book proved that my persistence and "stick-to-it-iveness" are actually my greatest superpowers.
Grit - Angela Duckworth
A great reminder that nobody is born a "pro." Everything you admire in others is a result of deliberate practice you can start today.
Talent Is Overrated - Geoff Colvin
This took the pressure off. It’s a fascinating look at how to position yourself so that when luck strikes, you’re ready to catch it.
Success and Luck: Good Fortune and the Myth of Meritocracy
Taking Up Space & "Playing Big" 🤩
Tactical advice for when you’re ready to be seen.
Specifically for those who feel "unqualified." Mohr gives practical tools to quiet that inner critic that tells you to stay quiet in meetings.
Playing Big - Tara Mohr
Perfectionism is just a shield. This book helped me put down the shield and show up as my messy, authentic, and capable self.
Daring Greatly - Brené Brown
The best book on creative confidence. It taught me to invite fear along for the ride, but never let it sit in the driver's seat.
Big Magic - Elizabeth Gilbert
If you think you’re "small" because you’re quiet like me, read this. It’ll show you how to lead and succeed without pretending to be an extrovert.
Quiet: The Power of Introverts - Susan Cain
The "Confidence Reset" ✨
For the days when imposter syndrome feels loud and you need a quick shift.
This book dives into the science of why women specifically tend to overthink and under-act. It’s a great reality check for anyone who feels they need to be "100% ready" before starting.
The Confidence Code - Katty Kay & Claire Shipman
You've probably heard of "power posing," but this book explains the deep connection between your body and your bravery. It helped me literally stand my ground in tough rooms.
Presence - Amy Cuddy
Lisa doesn't talk about being "fearless"—she talks about being scared as hell and doing it anyway. It’s a "No-BS" guide to becoming the hero of your own life.
Radical Confidence - Lisa Bilyeu
A total classic. It simplified my life by teaching me that the fear will never go away as long as I’m growing—so I might as well get comfortable with it.
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers