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Grief and Loss Resources

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I hope that this helps and that you can find some comfort.....I understand.
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Quotes

Depending on how I am feeling at the moment, I find quotes can be helpful and inspiring. I thought I would share some favorites with you as I remember. 

 
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There are times when I know “someone” is carrying me and I am grateful for those moments.
FOOTPRINTS STEPPING STONE / DECORATIVE WALL PLAQUE
 
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Life is short…..a gentle reminder.
Blue Dragonfly Wall Art Gift for Girl Women Life is Short Motivational Quotes Dragonfly Pictures Wall Decor Canvas Prints Framed Modern Inspirational Painting Artwork for Home Bedroom 16"x12" - Walmart.com
 
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A beautiful reminder, and ready to hang.
Inspirational Quotes Canvas Wall Art Poster Wrapped Wooden Frame Wall Decor,,Canvas Wall Art for Living Room,Bedroom,Office,Ready to Hang - Walmart.com
 
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The full version on canvas. This is beautiful, inspiring and ready to hang on the wall.
Footprints In The Sand Painting Poem Poster Classic Framed Canvas Wall Art For Home Bedroom Office Living Room Decor 12x16 Inches.
 
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This inspirational wall canvas can bring comfort to yourself or someone you love that is going through a loss. Many consider the cardinal to be a sign from a loved one.
Aaheei Cardinal Wall Art I Never Left You Pictures Wall Decor Canvas Decor Heaven Memorial Gifts Canvas Painting Print Inspirational Quotes for Loss of Mother Dad in Memory of Mom Grandpa Grandmother
 
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A high-quality painting with a beautiful wooden frame. This comes in two sizes and several choices for the frame color.
Stupell Industries Grieving Inspirational Heartfelt Phrase Inspirational Painting Brown Floater Framed Canvas Art Print Wall Art, 18 x 18 - Walmart.com
 
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A beautiful 8x8 with different frame colors to choose from. Having something like this on my nightstand would bring me comfort, especially at night.
Sympathy Gift Picture Frames In Memory of Loved One, Memorial Gifts to Add to Your Sympathy Gift Baskets or Condolence Card, Loss of Father Gift, Bereavement Gifts, "Your Smile" Framed Poem 8658B - Walmart.com
 
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This sea turtle quote is beautiful. I love the art that goes with it, and it is on canvas.
Teal Sea Turtle Wall Art Beach Ocean Bible Coast Walk by Faith Pictures Wall Decor Scripture Quotes Canvas Painting Print Artwork Modern Home Decor Framed for Living room Bedroom Bathroom 16"×12" - Walmart.com
 
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Never, ever give up. ((hugs))
When the world says give up hope whispers... try it one more time Vinyl wall art Inspirational quotes and saying home decor decal sticker
 
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Sometimes we have to remember to just breathe………. and that's ok.
EOBTAIN Zen Flower Butterfly Yoga Wall Art
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We can do the impossible…..and we are strong.
Inspirational Wall Art Canvas Poster 10x16.5
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With God all things are possible, for those that believe.
Mimiso With God All Things Possible Wall Art
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There is always a piece of them in our hearts.
BRPXJRA Memorial Angel Wings Canvas Print
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Someone to watch over us.
Rustic Wooden Box Sign 'I Believe Angels'
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I was drawn to this, I think it is beautiful.
GADZRTIL Angel Wings Abstract Canvas Art
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Never, ever forgotten. Ever.
Angel Wings 5D Diamond Painting Kit 13.8x13.8
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A beautiful and inspirational gift or to buy for yourself. It is very reasonably priced, too.
Little Book. Big Idea. When I Look to the Sky: A Collection of Quotes, Poems, and Prayers for Loss, Grief, and Healing, (Paperback)
 
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I think this would be very comforting to get for yourself or to give as a gift to someone that you care about.
Stupell Industries Always With You Emotional Quote Floral Jar Bouquets Graphic Art Black Framed Art Print Wall Art, Design by Lettered and Lined - Walmart.com
 
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I love this. We are all “beautiful” in our own, unique way. Why not hang this as a reminder to yourself or gift this to someone else.
Stupell Industries She Was Beautiful Quote Inspirational Feminine Phrase Wall Plaque Design by Daphne Polselli - Walmart.com
 
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One of my favorites. This can go in any room, makes a great gift. It is the perfect size and the perfect price.
Busyhead Beach Stone Scripture Quotes Serenity Prayer 16"x12" Framed Canvas Prints

Self Care

When going through loss, it isn't something anyone can truly understand unless they have been through the same type of loss. Losses are different and individual to every person. It is important that we give ourselves grace and we take care of ourself... 

 
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Rub this on your hands, feet, legs, arms or wherever you feel most comfortable. It may bring some moments of relaxation and sleep when you need it most.
Magnum Solace Nighttime Magnesium Lotion with Arnica
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Yes, sometimes we need to just hold or hug something while we are alone in our grief.
Plushland Classic Small Brown Teddy Bear 10"
 
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When you are able to read (it took me a while to be able to just sit and read a book, if you know you know). It's important that we allow ourselves to sit with our grief when needed.
It's OK That You're Not OK: Grief & Loss
 
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Light a hug for yourself as often as you need it.
Sympathy Gifts - No Words Just Hugs Candle
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Because some days you won't want to wash your hair. This helps.
Dove Dry Shampoo Spray, Volume & Fullness, 5 oz (2-Pack)
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Always check with your doctor……but this may help.
Pure Encapsulations Rhodiola Rosea - 90 Caps
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For when the nights (or days) are too quiet.
Brown Noise Sound Machine with 30 Sounds & Night Light
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When you want to put some thoughts and/or feelings down on paper. This can help if you have the energy to do so.
Gilded Floral Journal
 
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I don't know if it was just me, but when my lips were hydrated…..it brought me just the tiniest bit of comfort. Still does.
COVERGIRL Clean Fresh Yummy Lip Gloss, Sheer, Vegan - 100 Let's Get Fizzical
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Water, water, water. Stay hydrated as best that you can. Love my Stanley.
Stanley Quencher H2.0 FlowState Tumbler
 
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When people ask what can they do for you…..this is it. Food is necessary…..this makes it easier.
DoorDash Gift Card $50
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Faith can help during the difficult moments. this angel can remind us of our strength no matter what our beliefs may be. Sometimes we forget.
Willow Tree Remembrance Angel, Lighter Skin
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This comes in several color options. It is an extra layer of cozy for when the night can be difficult.
COOKEY Satin Pillowcases Queen 2 Pack with Envelope Closure, Ice Blue Silk Pillow Cases Set of 2,Pillow Covers 20×30inch. - Walmart.com
 
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This is reusable and comes in handy for the extra hard days (or nights). This would be nice added to a small self-care basket with some other items.
Medi Grade Reusable Cooling Gel Eye Mask for Puffy Eyes and Dark Circles

Something to give to a griever.

People always ask, “what can I do”? Here are some ideas that may be appreciated by someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one. 

 
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Someone gave this to me with a picture of my husband, me and our two kids. It holds a special meaning and gives me comfort. You can send any photo.
SUPHELPU Personalized Photo Circle Bracelet
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Such a soothing sound listening to the wind chime while thinking of his/her loved one. I have one on my back deck. I love it.
The Wind Chime CO Memorial Sympathy Wind Chimes
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Lighting a candle while remembering a loved one can be very comforting. This is a beautiful gift.
Pavilion 'In Memory, Light Remains' Candle
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This comes in different family member options. Personalize it with a picture of their loved one to always be remembered.
Vetbuosa Memorial Gifts for Loss of Dad Frame
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The LAST thing I wanted to do after the loss of my husband was cook. This is helpful to the whole family, especially during the beginning stages of grief.
DoorDash Gift Card $50
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A gift basket may help to bring some strength and healing during a difficult time.
Sympathy Gift Basket for Loss of Loved One
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An ornament to be placed on a tree or wall to remember a loved one.
Christmas Ornaments 2025 Memorial Sympathy Gift
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Like a hug wrapped in a gift. This is comforting and comes with fuzzy socks!
Memorial Sympathy Blanket - Comfort Fleece Throw 50x60
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I thought this was so beautiful. Especially, if you believe in the cardinals that are signs from our loved ones.
Cardinal Gifts for Women, Sympathy Decor
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Faith can bring strength during a difficult time. This necklace comes in gold, silver and rose gold. Wearing this can remind us to keep our faith when we need it the most.
SANNYRA Gold Cross Necklace for Women
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Elisabeth Kubler Ross is considered an “expert” on grief. The stages can sometimes go in all different directions. like a roller coaster.
On Grief and Grieving: Five Stages of Loss
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Sometimes the quite night can be so overwhelming. This may help.
Sleepbox White Noise Machine - 25 Sounds, 36 Volumes, Timers, Portable
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This is beautiful! To bring some light and a beautiful scent to the room during a difficult time can really lift one's spirits!
Aertyole Warm Candle Lamp with Bulbs, Timer and Dimmer, Electric Candle Lamp Warmer, House Warming Gifts New Home Bedroom Decor Dimmable Wax Melt Warmer for Scented Wax with 2 Bulbs, Jar Candles
 
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This metal tree of life makes a great gift, reminding us that our family is rooted and will always be connected.
Hosley Metal Tree of Life Wall Art with Wooden Ring 20 Inch Round – Rustic Farmhouse Wall Décor for Living Room, Bathroom, Bedroom, Dining Room – Housewarming Gifts
 
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This garden angel is very reasonably priced and could bring such comfort to someone. I love that it is solar and the lights come on at night, bringing a beautiful reminder that our angels are watching over us. This would make a great gift or get one ...
Goodeco Angel Solar Outdoor Garden Decor Statues Yard Art Patio Front Lawn Ornaments Christmas Gifts for Mom Grandma Women LD602229
 
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This is an inspirational book. This would go well in a small basket with some other self -care items and perhaps a gift card to give to a griever or friend in need.
Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy, (Hardcover)
 
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Another great gift option. This can bring so much comfort to someone in need.
Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe, (Paperback)
 
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This would make a great gift with a nice pen or add it to a small basket of thoughtful items.
The Five Minute Paperback Journal
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Some fuzzy socks to give in a small basket or tied with ribbon and a gift card to bring comfort to someone you care about.
6 Pairs Womens Fuzzy Fluffy Cozy Warm Super Soft Slipper Socks Microfiber 3-8 Pairs Home Socks For Christmas - Walmart.com