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🤍 How I Wear Suits When I Want to Feel Like Myself
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Shunyo Osho
Not to impress. To be grounded, present, and quietly strong. When I was younger, I wore suits to appear confident. Now I wear them when I already feel confident — or when I want to remember who I am. For me, a suit is not about power. It is about pre...
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🌙When the Moment Matters, but I Want to Stay Myself
 
🌿 When I Need to Feel Calm and Clear
 
🌸 Soft Evenings, Slow Conversations
 
🌧 For Days I’m Not Sure Who I Am Yet
 
🌆 Evening / Sunset Softness (When I Forget Time)

🌙When the Moment Matters, but I Want to Stay Myself

Dinners, events, thoughtful gatherings. This is the suit I wear when the world is watching —but I am still with myself.

 
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Serious, but not rigid. I feel grounded in this — like I am enough as I am.
Modern Slim-Fit Charcoal Wool Suit Jacket - Banana Republic - Gap
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Clean lines. No shine. Presence doesn’t need to sparkle.
Men's Black Oxfords & Derby Shoes
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Not visible. But felt. A private reminder of depth.
Men's Necklaces – Gold, Silver & Titanium Chains (Under Shirt)
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🌿 When I Need to Feel Calm and Clear

For everyday life, meetings, showing up without force. This is the suit I wear when I want to feel steady.

 
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Navy is my grounding color. Calm. Balanced. Never loud. I wear this when I want to move through the day gently but sure.
Men's Blue Suits - Banana Republic
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I don’t iron it to perfection — I let it feel lived-in. Soft confidence > sharp performance.
The Classic Oxford Shirt | White | Standard
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Quiet. Functional. A reminder to stand in my center.
Slim Leather Belt For Men
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🌸 Soft Evenings, Slow Conversations

Cafés, sunsets, poetry energy, gentle presence. This is the suit I wear when I want to feel soft and open.

 
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This one breathes with me. I wear it when life feels warm and open.
Men's Beige Suits | Banana Republic
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Shirtless suit energy — but calm, grounded, romantic.
Men's Tees
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A whisper of self-expression. Just enough to feel like art.
Onyx Bracelet
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🌧 For Days I’m Not Sure Who I Am Yet

Mild identity fog. Low energy. Tenderness. Some days I wear the suit to find myself again.

 
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Deep colors hold me. They give me structure when I don’t have it inside.
Men's Black Suits - Banana Republic
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Soothing. Slow. Gentle on the nervous system.
Turtlenecks
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A reminder that I can be quiet and still be powerful.
Onyx Jewelry - Necklaces, Bracelets, Rings, Earrings
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🌆 Evening / Sunset Softness (When I Forget Time)

Even ends need softness. Your outfit should let the evening unfold — not force it.

 
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I wear this when the day ends slow. The fabric breathes — the light shifts — I breathe with it.
Linen Suits
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Cozy, soft, warm — even in suit form. I don’t trade comfort for looks anymore.
Sweater Blazer
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For dinners, cafes, soft conversations. Presence without posture.
Fitted Casual Blazer
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To keep the suit clean — inside and out.
Lint Brush
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