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Self Help Books That Have Healed, Helped And Humbled Me
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items Looking for books that actually change your life, not just collect dust on your nightstand? This list is packed with reads that shifted my mindset and helped me grow in ways I didn’t see coming. These are the books that stuck with me long after I tur...
Atomic Habits completely changed how I think about progress. I tend to feel so overwhelmed, but it made me realize that tiny changes really do add up, and honestly, it’s the only habit book that didn’t make me feel overwhelmed.
Atomic Habits - by James Clear (Hardcover)
This book challenged so many of my beliefs about happiness and other people’s opinions. It was a little mind-bendy at times, but it helped me stop taking things so personally.
The Courage to Be Disliked
This book was short but deep - it helped me slow down and rethink what success actually means. It’s one of those reads that feels peaceful but still hits you with big truths.
The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success
This one made me realize how much mindset affects everything - money, goals, even confidence. Some parts feel a little old-school, but the core lessons are still powerful and motivating.
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
This book taught me how to stop living in my head and actually be present. It’s not a quick read, but it really helped me feel more grounded and calm in everyday life.
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
This book totally changed how I think about money. It’s not about budgeting or investing tips - it’s about mindset, emotions, and why we do what we do with money, and it just made so much sense.
The Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons on Wealth ...
Simple, but so powerful. This book felt like a reset button for my mindset - especially when it comes to not taking things personally and letting go of assumptions.
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz ...
This one hit me hard - in the best way. It helped me see how I was getting in my own way and gave me the push to actually start doing the inner work
The Mountain Is You
This book was such a good reminder that talent isn’t everything. It made me feel hopeful about growth and progress, especially when things feel slow or messy.
Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things
This book made me rethink the whole ‘traditional success’ script. It felt like permission to choose a different path - one that actually feels right for me.
The Pathless Path by Paul Millerd
This book was a game-changer for me. It helped me realize that setting boundaries isn’t selfish - it’s necessary, and it can actually make your relationships healthier.
Set Boundaries Find Peace
This one gave me a serious confidence boost. It reminded me that playing small doesn’t serve anyone, and that big thinking isn’t just for ‘other people’ - it’s for me too.
The Magic of Thinking Big: The True Secret of Success ...
This book felt like a gentle nudge to trust the journey. It reminded me that following your purpose might not be easy, but it’s always worth it.
The Alchemist (25th Anniversary Edition)
This book helped me spot the habits that were holding me back. It’s super practical and gave me tools to build real mental strength, not just fake positivity.
13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do - Amy Morin, LCSW
This one had such a classy, calm vibe. It reminded me that living well isn’t about flashy stuff -it’s about values, quality, and quiet confidence.
The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less
This idea was so freeing - just let people do what they’re gonna do and stop trying to control everything. It helped me focus more on my own peace instead of other people’s opinions.
Let Them Theory - by Mel Robbins
This book found me at a low point, and I’m so glad it did. It didn’t try to fix everything - it just helped me sit with the hard stuff and find a little peace in the middle of it all.
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
This book helped me stop dragging goals out forever and actually get stuff done. Thinking in 12-week chunks makes things feel way more doable and way less overwhelming.
The 12 Week Year - by Brian P Moran & Michael Lennington (Hardcover)
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This book felt like getting real, honest advice from a big sister who’s been there. It helped me see that building wealth is possible without burnout or selling your soul.
The Black Girl's Guide to Financial Freedom - by Paris Woods (Paperback)
This one really got me thinking about how much my thoughts were running the show. It gave me a whole new perspective on how powerful the mind is - and how I don’t have to stay stuck in old patterns.
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself - by Joe Dispenza (Paperback)