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Wedding stuff that I loved or would have loved if I had thought of it back then.

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Wedding stuff I loved + wedding stuff I forgot because I was in full panic mode. Don’t be me. Learn from my chaos 💅
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Not just a parfum – it’s a whole moment. Name, scent, and design = triple threat. Perfect for every close-up bc the bottle itself is basically a prop for your detail flatlays.
KAYALI - The Wedding Silk Santal EDP 50ml
 
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Classic ivory meets a bold twist. Perfect for the bride who wants timeless with a sprinkle of extra. It’s giving red-carpet wedding vibes without trying too hard – twirlable chiffon, statement silhouette. - Maybe a good choice for your civil wedding.
ASOS DESIGN - structured bandeau maxi dress with chiffon thigh split skirt (ivory)
 
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Of all the after-midnight switch-ups, this one wins. Embroidered mesh = delicate and so dreamy. Classic bridal glow meets playful edge. If you’re doing a midnight mini, make it this one.
Jarlo - embroidered mesh bandeau mini dress (ivory)
 
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Everyone talks about the little black dress, but have you already thought about the little white afterwards? Perfect for switching it up after midnight. Low cost but big effect and for sure some comfort for the bride after the long day. Get the real ...
Collective The Label - Puffball halterneck mini dress (white)
 
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White, cozy, and photogenic. Basically mandatory for your bridal prep photoshoot.
Ann Summers Cherryann - robe (ivory)
 
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White lace, soft fit, major confidence boost – basically a bridal glow-up you can wear under anything. Sexy but classy, like ‘main character getting ready for her wedding night’ energy. Lace that actually feels luxe.
Bluebella - lace lingerie set (white)
 
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Another midnight switch-up, but make it playful. 3D flowers = twirlable, fun, and totally ‘I’m still the bride’ energy. t’s giving after-party vibes – mini, off-white, and covered in adorable floral drama
New Look - 3D flower bandeau mini dress (off white)
 
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From aisle to reception, every angle screams bridal perfection. If you’re planning multiple looks, this is the one for your spotlight moment. I’m not even kidding – I changed five times and this one felt like the finale.
House of CB - Persephone strapless corset dress (ivory)
 
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Yeah, we all have bras, but this one? Total multitasker. Plunge front = works under every bridal vibe without drama. Unsexy but essential: your bridal fits will thank you, your comfort will thank you, and TBH your IG pics will too.
ASOS DESIGN - moulded open front plunge bra (beige)
 
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Unsexy? Maybe. Essential? Absolutely. Beige no-shows are the quiet MVPs of every bridal ‘fit. Think of them as the safety net – not cute for Instagram, but the secret hero under white bridal fits.
ASOS DESIGN - brazilian brief (beige)
 
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For some wedding games - during the party, or afterwards 🤭
Strumpfhalter - white
 
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Church wedding vibes? Covered. This chiffon mini cape keeps it modest but still cute. - Don't forget to match the tone of your cover-up with your actual dress.
TFNC - Bridal chiffon mini cape (white)
 
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Soft, creamy, slightly floral – basically the ‘yes I do’ of perfumes. 10/10 would wear down the aisle. Perfect size for your bridal clutch or honeymoon carry-on.
KAYALI - The Wedding Silk Santal EDP 10ml
 
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My bridal clutch had pearls, my name, our date — and even a photo inside the lining. Like… could it get more personal? — basically a love letter in clutch form. 100/10 recommend.
Custom Beaded Bridal Clutch

Gift Boxes 🎀

From one bride to another — here’s your cheat sheet for the cutest, most thoughtful wedding gifts. Think bridesmaid surprises, morning-of keepsakes, and little ‘just married’ treats you didn’t know you needed. It’s giving sentimental, aesthetic, and ...
 
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It’s giving ‘Pinterest-perfect but effortless.’ I picked matching tones for my color scheme and it looked so put together. Personalized gift bags = instant aesthetic points. Whether you’re filling them with skincare, champagne or hangover kits.
Personalized Name Gift Bags
 
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Got these for my groom and his best man — such a subtle but meaningful detail. Classic, timeless, and lowkey emotional. Honestly, the guys loved them more than expected.
Personalized cufflinks with a walnut box
 
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Empty or filled, it just looks luxe. A small detail that made the morning-of feel extra special - bonus points if you match the color to your wedding palette. I used these for my girls and they loved them. Perfect mix of practical + aesthetic.
Bridesmaid selfcare cosmetic bag
 
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Cigar + whisky in a personalized wooden box? — total win. It’s classy, personal and gives that old-school celebration vibe.
Cigar gift box - Groom, Groomsmen, Father of the Bride, Father of the Groom...
 
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For the happy tears. Trust me, give one to your moms, your maid of honor and don't forget the grannys. You’ll thank me later — because someone’s definitely gonna cry.
Custom embroidered handkerchief
 
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A detail I totally slept on — a personalized pocket watch for the best man. Such a timeless (literally) and classy gift. It’s giving vintage gentleman energy. Something he’ll actually keep, not just smile at and forget.
Engraved Pocket Watch-The perfect gift for the groomsmen
 
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Soft, shiny, and personalized — a little treat for your bridal crew that actually gets used after the wedding too. We had ours with names embroidered and it made the morning-of feel like a little luxury spa moment."
Bridal Long Pajamas Set

Bachelorette Party

 
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Warning: once this veil is on, you become the paparazzi’s main target (aka your bridesmaids with iPhones). Get ready for iconic content. Main character energy unlocked!
Six Stories - Bride to be (tulle veil in ivory)
 
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Serving casual bride vibes but still keeping it 100% chic. Perfect for brunch with the girls or maybe airport drip. Not every bride-fit has to be sequins & lace. This sporty ivory co-ord? Effortless, comfy, and still screaming ‘future Mrs.
Six Stories - Bride t-shirt co-ord ivory
 
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Lowkey the cutest way to squad up – matching socks that scream ‘we’re here for the bride AND the prosecco.’ Perfect for pre-game pics, spa day vibes, or just surviving the all-night dance floor. These socks = instant bridesmaid uniform. And maybe, ju...
Maya - Team bride socks (dusty blue, sage green or frosted pink)
 
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This dress eats every angle. Lace sleeves keep it classy, mini length keeps it spicy. Warning: wearing this might cause your fiancé to propose again. Yes, it’s that iconic.
TFNC - Bridal corset mini dress with lace
 
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These shoes basically said ‘I do’ to comfort + cuteness. Block heel = dance-all-night approved, bow = Pinterest-core perfection. Not just shoes, but a whole vibe. Ivory, chic, and serving bridal Barbie energy without the blisters.
Be Mine - Bridal block heeled shoes with bow (ivory)
 
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Perfect for winter hen trips, mountain honeymoons, or just flexing that ‘married but make it comfy’ energy. Imagine sipping hot cocoa in this fit with your ring hand casually in frame. Keeps you snug, chic, and screaming BRIDE without the frostbite.
Six Stories - Bride sweatshirt co-ord (ivory)
 
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The collarless cut? Sleek. The ivory tone? Timeless. The whole look? Giving luxury bride without even trying. Perfect for rehearsal dinners, city hall weddings, or that one fancy dinner where you wanna serve.
Six Stories - Bridal collarless tailored blazer co-ord (ivory)
 
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These sandals are basically jewelry for your feet – satin straps + crystal sparkle = bridal Cinderella moment unlocked. Close-up shoe pics? Mandatory. The crystal detail makes them look way more expensive than they are.
Be Mine - heeled sandals with straps in satin and crystals (ivory)
 
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Obsessed. These satin lily heels are basically a version of that iconic designer shoe… without the designer price tag (dupe alarm for sure). Warning: everyone will ask where you got them. Pro tip: let them drool, but keep your secret.
Public Desire - satin lily flower high heels (ivory)
 
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Not your typical wedding accessory, but hear me out – matching your color scheme AND glow-up your skin at the same time? Yes, queen.
Patchology Something Blue Bride Self-Care Facial Kit
 
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Not for everyone, but imagine a sunset beach party… Ivory lace meets bold silhouette. For brides who want their after-party or beach celebration to be unforgettable.
Rare London - bandeau thigh split ruched drape detail lace maxi dress (ivory)
 
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A short tulle dream for the bride-to-be. Tiered layers = playful, flirty, and so on...
Lace & Beads - tiered structured mini dress (ivory)
 
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For bachelorette pics, bar crawls, or any ‘let’s get wild’ bride energy. Bonus: perfect little accessory to top off any hen do outfit.
Bride Bling Cowboy Hat

Decor Inspo

 
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Small detail, big heart moment. You’ll thank yourself later when you use it again at home and get all the feels. I had mine personalized with our engagement date — no one ever thinks of it, but it added such a sweet, sentimental touch to the bridal t...
Flower Vase
 
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Perfect for your toast, your detail shots, and every bubbly moment after. A small touch that feels timeless. We had ours for the champagne fountain and used them again on our anniversary — one sip and you’re right back at your wedding day (minus the ...
Personalized champagne flutes
 
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Practical, personal, and photogenic — the ultimate trifecta of a perfect wedding detail. Looks amazing during the cake-cutting moment, and even better when you use it again for anniversaries or birthdays. Such an underrated detail — our personalized ...
Personalized cake cutting utensils
 
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Instead of a classic guestbook, we did personalized playing cards. Everyone wrote messages, inside jokes, or wishes — we still go through them and laugh. Would 100% do this again — way more fun than a guestbook and such a unique twist for your weddin...
Blank Playing Cards Deck
 
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It’s giving retro romance. Imagine your first dance song printed right on it and signed by your favorite people. Didn’t have one at our wedding (we only got our record player this year 😭), but I’m obsessed with this idea now — so personal and timele...
Custom Vinyl Record Guestbook
 
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If you’re writing your own vows, do it right — no notes app energy allowed, only cute personalized vow books and they’re now one of my fave keepsakes — the kind of thing you open years later and still cry.
Wedding Vow Books
 
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If you’re planning a big moment reveal — cake, first dance, whatever — sparkler tags are the ultimate sparkle upgrade. We had sparkler tags on the tables around the dance floor — everyone lit them when the cake came out and it was pure magic.
Arch Shape Wedding Sparkler Tags
 
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Wooden, engraved, and way more aesthetic than the basic velvet box. Timeless but still gives that natural chic vibe. We still use ours to keep our rings safe when traveling — cute and practical, that’s a win.
Custom Wooden Ring Box,Wedding Ring Box
 
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I know this one is cute but pricey.. hear me out: We used our personalized trunk at the wedding for gifts and cards and now it holds everything from the day — such a sweet keepsake. The idea was to start a tradition: every anniversary, we open it and...
Keepsake Trunk for Wedding Day - Something Blue
 
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I’m from the Balkans and we love our rakija — so of course we had personalized shot glasses for us, the girls and the guys. Cute and functional little glasses, big vibes. Perfect way to serve something traditional while keeping it aesthetic.
Cute Wedding Shot Glasses
 
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They look cute in flatlays, keep everyone cool, and honestly double as a fun keepsake. Yes, everyone’s seen them before — not a world-first — but my guests were SO grateful when it hit over 86°F (30°C) during our wedding!
Bulk Engraved hand fans Rustic
 
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It’s giving ‘know the couple’ energy but make it interactive and aesthetic. Perfect for killing time before dinner or during cocktail hour.
Personalized Wedding Crossword Puzzle
 
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I wanted custom napkins so bad — but with 300+ guests it just wasn’t realistic. Still, they’re such a cute touch if you’ve got a smaller guest list. If your wedding isn’t massive, please do this for me. The aesthetic payoff? Unreal.
Custom Wedding Napkins
 
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Our LED name sign above the sweetheart table? 10/10 recommend. It completely changed the vibe once the lights went down. If you’re debating it: do it. Nothing says just married like your names in lights.
Sweetheart Table Sign