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Accessories I'd buy over and over

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Shoes, jewelry, and other accessories that I love- and I also list some I don't!
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The Stuff Under The Outfit

Things that go underneath it all- and some socks that I guess we now wear over our yoga pants.

 
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After purchasing approximately 49,000 strapless bras- this is finally the one that worked! The only time I ever had this slip was when I slept in it. But I have restless body syndrome when I sleep, so it's likely the cause of the slippage.
Lusait Strapless Bra Non-Slip Silicone Wireless
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I LOVE these.  I have tried so many- including Sheertex (which have their place!), but these are my favorite day to day.  They don't rip easily and they're very high waisted which I love because it helps suck it all in!
Unbelievable Durability Rip Resistant Tights
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I buy these because I am a millennial who is trying to be cool when I go to Pilates.  They have grip on the bottom which is perfect for the megaformer.  I wear these all the time whether I am going to pilates or not! Also, if you're never done the Megaformer- you should.  You'll hate me every second and you'll curse the day I was born BUT the results are fast and insane!
Toes Home Women's Pilates Socks Non Slip
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I wear these because I can't feel them and I refuse to pay SKIMS prices for underwear! They are cheap enough that I can buy a bunch and not feel bad.  At the end of the day, they're underwear so like, they're not that cool.
Cotton G String Thongs
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I wear these every single day.  I am not kidding.  They last so long (If you don't lose one like me) and maintain stickiness for 6+ months with daily wear.  Make sure you get the appropriate size because I tried some that were too small and it was horrible looking!
Nipple Cover - Sticky Adhesive Reusable w/ Box
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I am very particular about my measurements and this is a godsend for me.  It has a curved holder so it can align perfectly with your body! I use it weekly and have for years- and will continue to!
Perfect Body Tape Measure - 80 Inch Automatic
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Jewelry

I’ve tried it and loved it- and if I didn’t I’ll link it and tell you why I didn’t.
 
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I LOVE these earrings.  They're my daily earrings- I have both silver and gold.  I have probably gifted these about 10 times. They're adorable and understated but look so nice on! They are PLATED, so I do take them off before I shower.
PAVOI 14K Gold Plated 925 Silver Studs
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I love these long bar drop earrings- i have them in black.  I don't wear them a ton but when I do, I always get compliments.
Bar Drop Earrings for Women - Hypoallergenic
 
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You will only catch me with these on when I'm in the presence of someone I don't trust. I am a fan of subliminal messaging. I bought them in silver and wear them only when they need to be seen!
Vintage Goth Snake Earrings - Gold & Silver
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These are cool in theory but I think they're terrible.  I do not recommend.  They have great reviews but I truly do not understand why.  They fall out and bend very easily.
Jstyle 4 Pairs Stainless Steel Threader Earrings
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I really wanted to love this.  It's a cheap price and so is the product.  It bends very easily- to the point you can never get it tight enough and it just falls off.  Maybe I'm just a harsh mover- if you're a more gently soul, it may work!
SILVERCUTE S925 A-Z Rings, Adjustable
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Shoes because I like my money where I can see it

All the shoes and boots i've tried as a thick caved lady.  I will put the boots/shoes that didn't work as well and why!

 
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I purchased these in chestnut.  I am 5'3".  These looked like clown shoes on me.  I was hoping to wear them in Vermont and be cute.  It did not happen. I was not cute.
UGG Womens Moxy Chelsea
 
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I bought these in white. I returned them only because with the outfit I had, I needed something more elevated.  Otherwise I would have kept these, no question! They're cute and seemed like they were quite comfortable.
Jessica Simpson Immie Platform Sandals
 
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These are cheap and I LOVE them! They're surprisingly comfortable and I can wear them for hours!
Mostrin Women's Lace Up Strappy Square Heels
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Okay my wide calf girlies- these are great for wide calf. HOWEVER, I do not love the shape of the boot when looking down at them from above.  Straight on they're fine.  From the side, they're okay.  Directly above they're bad.  I wore them, I just refused to look down.
LifeStride Reese Western Riding Boots Knee High
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I love TKEES sandals.  I have probably 10 pairs and I wear them all summer.  They're super comfortable and I absolutely love them.
TKEES Women's Riley Flip Flops
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I will be real with you.  These are not the prettiest shoe.  BUT I wore them for TWELVE hours to a fundraiser and at the end of the night my feet were not swollen and red.  They stay in my closet and see the light only in specific moments where a long dress is involved.
vivianly Pointed Toe Wedge Heels Pumps Slingback
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