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unique Valentine's gift ideas for her πŸ’•
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Skip the chocolate and roses β€” these are the Valentine's gifts she actually wants. I've hunted down the weird, wonderful, and genuinely thoughtful finds organized by budget, from $25 pasta-shaped magnets to grand gesture jewelry. For the friend who h...

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For the girl who loves carbs and cute office supplies. These tiny gold pasta shaped magnets are ridiculous and delightful.
U Brands 3ct Pasta Magnets Gold
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A little sparkly anchor for the friend who keeps you grounded = other cute designs to choose from. Sweet, simple, and under $25.
ALEX & ANI | Pave Interchangeable Charms
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Because eating caviar with a metal spoon is apparently a crime. These are fancy and functional and she'll feel very chic using them (even for anything other than caviar).
2 Pack 4.73in Mother of Pearl Caviar Spoons
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A tiny cowboy boot to open her bottles. It's cheeky, it's cute, and it's perfect for the country music girlie in your life.
HEYYDAY | Boot Bottle Opener
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The book I recommend to literally everyone. Life-changing science about women's sexuality that should be required reading.
Come as You Are: New Science to Transform Sex Life by Emily Nagoski PhD
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An engraved compact mirror is heirloom material.
ETSY | Initial Monogram Calligraphy Engraved Compact Mirror
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I have pulled out this game at more dinner parties than I’d like to admit, but it’s always a good time.
WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS | The Card Game
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I love a chunky ceramic, but this one's a stunner. and the matching saucer? gagged.
ETSY | Chunky Chubby black & white ceramic coffee cup with saucer, Handmade Dalmatian splatter mug
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Snuffer, wick trimmer, and dipper in a pretty brass box. For the candle obsessive who deserves nice things.
H&H | 4pc Candle Tool Accessories in Brass Finish Box
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Gorgeous watercolor playing cards for game night. Too pretty to shuffle aggressively.
HARMONY | Two Deck Playing Card Set - Watercolour Swatches
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She's not a doormat, but that doesn't mean she doesn't need one that is both funny and functional.
ANTRHOPOLOGIE | Sardines Doormat
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A tiny salt cellar that looks like it belongs in a fancy restaurant. Elevates the everyday.
RAVEN + LILIY | Upcycled Horn Salt Pot
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A chic water bottle that doesn't scream "I'm going to the gym." Hydration but make it fashion.
WATERDROP | All-Purpose Thermo Β· Straw Lid
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Esther Perel's books + more in one set. If she hasn't read these yet, she needs to.
State of Affairs & 3 More: 4 Book Set
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"From the library of..." energy. For the booktok girlie who wants her books back.
ETSY | Personalized Book Embosser Stamp, Custom Library Embosser, From the Library of, Ex Libris Embosser, Gift for Book Lovers
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Spicy and warm and a little unexpected. Not your basic floral.
BOY SMELLS | Red Hot Perfume
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Stephanie Wandtke’s exquisite necklace is a beautiful way to take tarot anywhere. Enjoy a moment of stillness in a busy day, do a quick pull when you’re seeking guidance, or just wear it to celebrate the art of tarot itself.
Tiny Tarot Deck Necklace
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Self-cleaning water bottle with UV-C light. For the germaphobe who also cares about aesthetics.
LARQ | Bottle PureVisβ„’
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A tiny vintage vial for her favorite scent. Romantic and old-world and very special.
MARBLE & MILKWEED |Vintage Mother of Pearl Perfume Vial
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Create a custom charm necklace with unique and eye catching Solid Gold Statement Charms! Each Statement Charm has its own unique story (note, limited styles are currently available and they sell out fast!)
LOCAL ECLECTIC | Solid Gold Statement Charm
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A little clock shaped like a pomegranate. Whimsical, artsy, and a conversation starter for her desk or vanity.
ETSY | Red pomegranate clock
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I stumbled upon this little mug on Pinterest and it stopped me in my tracks β€”Β I don't know who it's for yet, but I'll be gifting it to someone.
CAP BEAUTY + ALI HEWSON | Swan Mug
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and just like that, a star is born, a puffed ballon star πŸ₯Ή
KEARY & JAMES | 14k Puffed Star Charm
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For the friend who will always share a bottle of wine.
FURBISH Needlepoint Throw Pillow - Sober 8x14
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I really like this wine-colored catchall, and though it's branded, the brand is β€œpeace & quiet”. so subtle πŸ’•
Everlane x Peace & Quiet Suede Catchall | Wine
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Everything she needs to make matcha at home, and it looks beautiful on the counter.
FELLOW | Matcha Set
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A single pill-shaped earring that's punk and oddly chic. For the girl with edge.
AMBUSH | Pill Charm Earring
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The coziest, chicest robe. She'll wear it every single morning.
DUNSEN DUNSEN | Stripe Bathrobe in Magnolia
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I have had this watch bookmarked for YEARS. Can someone get it for me, please?
BREDA | Revel - Gold/Champagne
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A tiny gold cherry for her charm necklace. Sweet and playful.
MEADOWLARK | Cherry Charm
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Handmade, personalized, and actually unique. Not another generic vase.
ETSY | Personalized Green Striped Ceramic Vase: Handmade Minimalist Flower Pot
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For the equestrian or the horse girl. Preppy and fun.
The Pink Reef Keeneland Horse Earring
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A pretty place to keep all her pretty things. Classic and functional.
ANTHROPOLOGIE | Sophia Jewelry Box
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A delicate gold watch that looks *way* more expensive than it is.
BREDA | Jane Bracelet Watch 23mm Gold-Plated
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An Apple Watch can ruin a look. This one can make it.
BREDA | BREDA Γ— DALMATA Time Ring - Gold
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Kind of obsessed with this mussle-shaped locket with a little surprise inside.
POSH TOTTY DESIGNS | Yellow Gold Plated Mussel Shell Cz Diamond Necklace
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The candle is delicately woody and floral, and the jar is a keeper even after the candle has burned out.
LOEVE | Ivy small pink scented candle, 170g
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Solid gold initial charm for a necklace she'll never take off. Heirloom quality.
KINN | Milestone Alphabet Charm
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Trudon does candles AND perfume, and both are incredible. Dark, mysterious, unforgettable.
TRUDON | Eau de Parfum - Midnight Omen, 100ml
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Her initial with her birth flower in enamel. Custom and meaningful.
ETSY | Personalized Initial Ring, Birth Flower Ring, The Rose Enamel Ring, Custom Jewelry For Women, Birthday Gift For Her, Handmade Jewelry.
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Minimalist and modern. A watch that goes with everything.
VANNA | Linea Watch
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For the woman whose home always smells incredible. Effortless luxury.
TRUDON | Reed Diffuser - Ernesto, 350ml
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A heart-shaped velvet box for her jewelry. On the nose for Valentine's Day in the best way.
ROXANNE FIRST | Open Your Heart velvet jewelry box
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Colored crystal that catches the light. Too pretty to be anything other than a home for something on her vanity, her desk, or bookshelf.
REFLECTIONS COPENHAGEN | New Haven crystal jar
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For the romantic, a whimsical enamel ring that's giving fairy tale energy.
ETSY | The Frog Prince Ring, Custom Enamel Ring, The Rose Photo Ring, Handmade Jewelry, Memorial Gift, Anniversary Gift For Her
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Vintage-inspired and feminine. The kind of watch that starts conversations.
HEAVEN MAYHEM | Bella Watch
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At $595, it's absurdly impractical and beautiful and I want one.
JUJU VERA | Shell Lighter Case
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Beautifully handcrafted 14k yellow solid gold tiny queen of hearts charm (pendant only, does not include chain). She can wear it by itself or stacked with the charms of her choice for a one of a kind charm necklace.
ZOE LEV | 14K Gold Queen of Hearts Pendant
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For the friend or couple who loves game nights and weekend getaways. Chic and portable.
FORWOOD DESIGN | Faux Shagreen Travel Backgammon Set
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Hang charms and wow everyone with this swivel carabiner hinge. Crafted from solid 14k gold and designed with a swiveling jump ring, this eye-catching piece is perfect for any necklace. Inspired by rock climbing carabiners, it will make a statement wi...
BC CLARK | Swivel Carabiner Hinge
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Pave diamonds on a gold initial. Subtle sparkle, major impact.
STONE AND STRAND | Letter 14-karat gold diamond necklace
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Handmade in London with a blue sapphire star. One of a kind.
LIBERTY LONDON | 9ct Gold Handmade Ianthe Star Blue Sapphire Ring
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A hard-case bag shaped like a fish. She's either going to love it or hate it β€” no in between.
VIN. | Fishy Top Handle Bag
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My forever bag. Architectural, functional, and worth every penny.
LOEWE | Puzzle Fold convertible medium leather tote
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Dark and moody and absolutely stunning. Not your typical diamond necklace.
KINN | Roselle Black Rhodium Round Pendant Diamond Necklace
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A working magic 8 ball pendant in 18k gold. Whimsical, wildly luxurious, and absolutely absurd in the best way.
MARIE LICHTENBERG | Magic 8 Ball 18-karat gold, diamond and enamel necklace
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A pink sapphire ring that's romantic and modern. Engagement ring territory.
AU3 GOLDSMITHS | Keto Meadow 6mm - Spring Pink
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A stunning fairy-tale necklace from luxury jeweler I came across at the Bergdorf uptown. Can I afford it? No. Do I want it? Yes.
MONICA RICH KOSANN | "Slow and Steady" Tortoise and the Hare Necklace
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The ice bucket for the hostess who *literally* has everything. Statement barware for the chicest of chic.
REBECCA GARDNER | Hammered Silver And Cabochon Ice Bucket & Tongs
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This handmade signet is a *stunner*, and an investment.
YVONNE LÉON Chevalière Ovale La Savane 9-karat gold, diamond and enamel ring
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