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NEED 2 READ - Hot Girl Book Recs

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If you wanna get back into reading, pick books that CAPTIVATE! These are personal reccs, generally all about owning up to personal power in one way or another! I've personally linked each author's insta in the reccs below if you find someone you like...
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Feminist Literature, but cool

Right now if things just feel impossible, or if you just wanna really OWN your existence more and explore your power, these books are here for you, each one is absolutely fascinating! These REALLY helped me become who I am today fr.

 
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This is an absolute staple for anyone who’s dealing with the modern dating scene right now. Sometimes it can feel hopeless or impossible but this book has everything you need to know to help you!! You can buy it here on the link!
How to Date Men When You Hate Men - Books
 
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Bad Feminist is a really relatable book about when women happen to love things that seem at odd with Feminist ideology. This book explains things through references to pop-culture, which we love. ABSOLUTE MUST READ IN 2025
Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay
 
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In a world that is patriarchal, sometimes just choosing to enjoy yourself is an act of feminism, activism, and even resistance. Making the most of your life while being aware of the cards delt and deciding not to settle or succumb to the sometimes ov...
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
 
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This book could fall under self-help, women's health, psychology and much more, but encompasses so much helpful information that it simply doesn't fit into one category. The author is very clear on what you will learn in this read: the role of gender...
A Feminist's Guide to ADHD: Women Thrive & Focus
 
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THIS BOOK IS SO IMPORTANT TO ME. Please, if you have ever struggled with personal growth, worried about being labelled, or cared about what people would think if you stood up against things that bother you, this book delivers everything you need to h...
You Don't Have to Like Me: Essays

Witchy/Woo Woo/Spiritual books

 
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I bought this book at target! I honestly love using some of these tips and i find myself doing them in little moments every day like stirring my morning tea with intention and maximizing wellness during my shower routine! If you are into woo woo AND ...
The Witch's Guide to Wellness: Natural Healing
 
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I live my life by this philosophy. Purchasing this book changed my life. I am walking at a higher vibration than I ever did before. I feel happier, and more grateful and satisfied with my life in little everyday moments. I personally follow the autho...
The Law of Positivism: Higher Vibrations
 
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There's a lot of online talk about what ‘being in your feminine energy’ means and even various confusing ways to ‘master femininity’ (which sounds impossibly fake) The fact is, this culture of spirituality and even women's health is difficult to navi...
The Power of Feminine Energy: High-Value & Feminine
 
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Cuurently reading- OMG
Awaken Your Psychic Ability - Updated Edition
 
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This one just makes me feel super connected to all the women in history ahead of me, and makes me feel so powerful in my womanhood. I wish i bought this on amazon WAY long ago.
Evolution of Goddess: Modern Girl's Guide to Activating Your Feminine Superpowers
 
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OOH DO NOT ASK ME ABOUT THIS BOOK BC I WILL JUST SAY BUY IT ON AMAZION RIGHT NOW.
Mind Magic: Neuroscience of Manifestation
 
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I've added the author's Instagram here. This book is Daunte's Inferno Vibes but for the witchy woman, poetic and captivating, 10/10 must buy!
Girl Mess: A Katabasis in Verse by Kim Rashidi

Psychology Based

I have a degree in Psychology, so I love anything regarding human behavior, if you just wanna understand people better and why they do the things they do; these are for you!

 
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This is a powerful book that taught me a very valuable skillset that i can honestly say i use everywhere all the time. It's like having a cheat code for talking to people. Job interviews, customer interactions, boyfriends all become so much easier to...
How to Read a Person Like a Book - Nierenberg
 
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OH MY GOODNESS THIS BEAUTIFUL BOOK.  This one is for the weird kids who just couldn't understand why they thought differently than everyone else. You will feel SEEN and HEARD. This is writing from the inside of the authors brain in a way that will make you say out loud 'OMG FINALLY SOME...
Obsessive, Intrusive, Magical Thinking by Marianne Eloise
 
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The best way to describe this one for all my psychology lovers is ‘learn to love yourself by literally re-wiring your brain’ this book is a guide that breaks things like living your happiest life down to it's most basic level. 8/10 Read if you're loo...
The Neuroscience of Self-Love - Books
 
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This is my favorite travel book as a psychology girl, if you are interested in human behavior at all this is a really great book to purchase, keep it in your backpack or purse and read whenever you can and you'll start noticing the people in the worl...
Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships
 
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I am currently working on this one, I love it SO MUCH!! I am going to read my way through his collection of books because i follow Thomas Erikson on insta and he has many more called ‘Surrounded by Energy Vampires’ etc. Definitely have recommended th...
Surrounded by Idiots: Four Types of Behavior

Hyper-Specific Help Books

VERY niche appeal, enjoy buying these book recs!

 
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This author has really made a huge name for herself since writing this book. This book covers the feelings of doubt that come with simply existing as a woman, as a mother, an entrepreneur and so much more. Her Instagram is also very inspiring if you ...
If In Doubt, Wash Your Hair: A Manual for Life by Anya Hindmarch
 
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Sometimes, I really was standing in my own way, but this book was the wake up call I needed. I would not have accepted this advice from anyone but for some reason this book made it all so clear to me! 8/10 buy!
Maybe It's You: Cut Crap, Face Fears, Love Life
 
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This book has humor and true crime, but also serves as a genuinely helpful memoir. The authors have a true crime podcast called My Favorite Murder which is really good. I've linked their Instagram on this recc! Happy reading!
Stay Sexy & Don't Get Murdered: How-To Guide

Just Rlly Fun Books!

 
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This one is just a personal absolute fave. I am very much a bougee individual and I adore big, showy, eccentric glamour. Who wouldnt want there life to be more fabulous all the time? 10/10 purchase and I display her proudly on my shelf!!!
Eccentric Glamour: Creating a Fabulous You
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This is a fiction book about a girl named Bree who try's to become popular by following a set of rules she writes on a blog. But this experiment leads to a "huge emotional mess" and she loses her true self. This story explores themes of self-worth, i...
The Manifesto on How to be Interesting
 
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I've added Caroline Dooner's Insta here if you wanna check out her page! This book is just a funny relatable witty memoir, absolutely worth the read! Buy on Amazon with my link attatched!
Tired as F*ck: Burnout from Diet & Hustle
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