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A Very Secondhand Holiday

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An *almost* entirely secondhand holiday guide full of vintage and resale finds, plus a few economical new and easy-to-find items to either accompany your thrifted present or for that last minute gift (we’ve all been there).
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Can't Miss Accessories

This is the easiest way to way to win gifting for a woman.

 
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Vintage Schiapparelli is always a good idea.
Schiaparelli vintage 60s silk scarf
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So lovely and different.
Handcrafted Wooden Evening Clutch for Women: Modern Evening Purse with Chain Strap
 
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Ahhh! The Barbie Pink of it all!
Leather Gloves
 
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A little badass brooch.
Large Gold Lion Pin Leo Birthday Zodiac Lion's Mane Brooch Lion Men's Brooch Lapel Pin Zoo Animal Jungle Lion Matte Gold Lion's Head
 
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I don't know what to tell you. I think Coach is coming back. This is really pretty and a great price for gifting.
Coach Leather Tote
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Great replacement for a thin leather strap on the phone case or to mix it up on your cross-body.
Organic Cotton Adjustable Webbing Strap in Black/Natural
 
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Snap these up quick. This color never lasts long on TRR.
Leather Gloves
 
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Pair this with a little vintage silk scarf and you have the perfect gift.
Bimba y Lola Metallic knot scarf ring
 
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I mean, easiest add to cart ever.
Vintage Scarf / SCHIAPARELLI Signature / Oversized BASKET Weave / Hand Rolled / Made in Japan / Glentex
 
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For the cool girl.
Alaïa Cat-Eye Tinted Sunglasses w/ Tags
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With tags and everything. LOVE the texture on these.
Agnelle Solid Winter Gloves w/Tags
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Retails for around $540. Yours to gift for much less.
DeMillier Leather Crossbody Bag
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Perfect length and Max Mara does everything really nicely.
Max Mara Winter Gloves
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Really pretty gifted alongside the Max Mara gloves.
Max Mara Leather Printed Scarf
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My favorite newer brand for handbags.
Dragon Diffusion Leather Tote
 
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Tom Ford in a classic shape for sub $120.
Tom Ford Wayfarer Tinted Sunglasses
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The detail on this is so, so good.
Il Bisonte Leather Top Handle Bag
 
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You can pry the oversized sunglasses out of my cold Millennial hands. These are Loewe and great.
Loewe Square Tinted Sunglasses
 
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For the boho girlie
Wide Leather Belt
 
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Prada and timeless.
Leather Waist Belt
 
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These are basically universally flattering.
Round Tinted Sunglasses
 
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I actually want and need this, despite my phone being my wallet.
Intrecciato Continental Intrecciato Weave Continental Wallet
 
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A Tiffany passport holder? Sure!
Unisex patent leather passport holder
 
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Hermès cashmere for sub-$300
Casaque Love Story Cashmere Muffler
 
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The best loafer. Looks far more expensive in real life.
Trotters Womens LizBallet Flat
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Please buy me these.
Santoni Leather Western Boots
 
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Bottega sub-$300
Bottega Veneta Intrecciato Shoulder Bag Vintage
 
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I will always recommend the Penquin.
FENDI PEQUIN PVC Leather Wallet Made in Italy
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These are technically mens, but designer runs small. I wish to be gifted these. Please and thank you.
Gucci Leather Gloves
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You get the look of the Gucci soho, but at a more attainable price point and with the bonus of a monogram.
Monogrammable Crossbody
 
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Vintage YSL scarf is always a yes.
1980s Yves Saint Laurent Geometric Abstract Print Silk Scarf
 
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New, very giftable.
Catbird Swan Ring Holder
 
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So beautiful and the best length.
The Cashmere Glove, Long
 
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An economical(ish) entrée into Gucci-land
Gucci Cosmetic Bag
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Beauty - The Perfect Quick Gift

This is where we are going new vs. vintage for obvious reasons.
 
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Truly, you will smell like a million bucks.
Senteurs d'Orient Fleurs d'Oasis Oil 2.53oz
 
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I have a little Mason Pearson and I have this and I cannot tell the difference.
Spornette Boar Bristle Large Cushion Hair Brush
 
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Get this in the new plaid they have. So good.
Dreamweave Waffle Robe
 
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Absolute favorite sheet mask.
SUNGBOON Deep Collagen Overnight Mask 4ea
 
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The fanciest of Italian hair clips. I love an elevated basic. Perfect stocking stuffer.
No. 5 Claw Clip
 
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Ok, this was advertised to me on Instagram for so long I just bought it and I do NOT regret it. Do as the reviews say and put it on when you're still damp in the shower. It's saving my Colorado skin.
Beauty From Bees Body Serum
 
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I can’t tell you why these are so great, but they just feel nicer than the usual clippers. Easy stocking stuffer for someone who likes the best version of things.
Green Bell G-1008 Nail Clipper (Takumi No Waza)
 
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Got influenced by a dermatologist who recommended this and another sulphur product and it’s saving my pre-teen’s skin.
JOESOEF Sulfur Soap for Acne 100G
 
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The best of Aesop, imo.
Citrus Melange Body Cleanser
 
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This is a somewhat laughable price, but I’ve paid it for a tom ford soap and it was worth it, so might as well make your little label conscious teen feel joy.
Glycerin soap | Hermès USA
 
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This and a martini.
Serotonin Soak Salt By Higherdose | Moda Operandi
 
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Nothing, nothing, nothing works like this for acne and blackheads. Truly.
De La Cruz Sulfur Ointment - Cystic Acne Treatment 2.6 OZ
 
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Excellent stocking stuffer for a teen. Exfoliates without drying.
Paula's Choice SKIN PERFECTING 2% BHA Liquid

Belts - For the Confident Gifter

Go for extremely adjustable wherever possible.
 
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I find this extremely fun.
Vintage Versace-Like Medusa Gold Tone Chain Belt 43" Long Adjustable
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A great vintage belt.
Vintage Tassel Chain Gold Toned With Flower Bunches Belt
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Obsessed with this belt.
Leather peplum belt, Wide leather belt women, Waist cincher belt, Wide leather waist belt, Handmade leather belt, Black leather belt women
 
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She's cute.
Vintage French CROUTE DE CUIR DE VACHETTE Leather Belt Brown Sliver Buckle Paris
 
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I mean, this is a much more economical approach to this brand. Good gift for the boyfriend/husband.
Brunello Cucinelli Leather Belt
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New, but economical and a great shape.
CINTURÓN PIEL HEBILLA OVALADA

Display-Worthy Books

Coffee table, dishy, specific or useful. I’m not going with current hits. You have the whole internet for that. Just a few recs.
 
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This book is so gorgeous, cover to cover, and a perfect coffee table book (and even more perfect at this insane price). Hooray for used books!
Peter Lindbergh. on Fashion Photography
 
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This book is chockabloc full of inspiring, ridiculous, delightful photos. Highly recommend.
Slim Aarons: Women book
 
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Fantastic and dishy.
The Beautiful Fall: Lagerfeld, Saint... book by Alicia Drake
 
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For the fashion-lover. Both fascinating and sad.
Gods and Kings: The Rise and Fall of Alexander McQueen and John Galliano
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We use this weekly. Less a recipe cookbook and more a beautifully written manual on HOW to cook.
Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat: Mastering the Elements of Good Cooking
 
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I swear to you, I did not care about vegetables, and the prospect of a cookbook devoted to them made me want to MOCK someone, but this book is legit and the only one we bring out from April through November.
Six Seasons: A New Way with Vegetables
 
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Ms. Givhan is one of the most gifted writers. Google her work and snag this book as a gift for anyone into history or a good, well-researched story that should probably be a film.
The Battle of Versailles: Night American Fashion
 
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You can get this used for like $3. She really is the absolute best.
Grace: A Memoir
 
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Just buy every book he’s ever written. I swear, they are like an antidote to anxiety.
Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim
 
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Pure nerdery for the dork in your life.
The Marvel Encyclopedia: Definitive Guide
 
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I promise you, he worked magic.
Making Faces
 
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Surprisingly extremely doable recipes for the cook in your life.
Ad Hoc at Home
 
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This is actually a great price for this coffee table book from Rizzoli.
Rizzoli - Rick Owens
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This book is excellent and far less intimidating than French Laundry.
Ad Hoc at Home - Thomas Keller Cookbook
 
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I could not love this book more.
I Like You by Amy Sedaris
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Stay with me on this one. My mother swears by it.
Junior League Centennial Cookbook book by Association of Junior Leagues International Inc.
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My mother swears by a Junior League cookbook and this one feels pretty fool-proof. Maybe a good gift for YOUR mother.
The Southern Junior League Cookbook - 1977
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Cashmere

Literally, it's all just cashmere.

 
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Good little stylish stocking stuffer.
CashSoft Drawcord Hood | Gap
 
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Cashmere sweatpants will change your life. I cannot get enough of these.
Theory Cashmere Sweatpants
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Legitimately foolproof gift.
Jenni Kayne Cashmere Cardigan
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Sure, it's technically for him… but it's also for you.
The Elder Statesman Cashmere Crew Neck Pullover
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Cashmere is the easiest gifting choice ever. And a big oversized cardigan is a quick win.
Saks Cashmere Cardigan
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This and the cashmere joggers? Perfect gift.
TSE Cashmere Open Front Sweater
 
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You will thank me.
Nadam Cashmere Sweatpants
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This and a big cozy wrap.
Chloe Cashmere Embroidered Accent Cashmere Sweatpants
 
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Well, this is adorable and undoubtedly comfortable.
Cashmere Short Set
 
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This set and a rom-com.
Cashmere Pant Set
 
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I enjoy this. For anyone.
Cashmere Knit Baseball Hat
 
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Seems so simple, but when I tell you this is the loungewear she will wear the most, please believe me.
Jenni Kayne Cashmere V-Neck Sweater
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Haider Ackermann can kind of do no wrong. Be comfortable… while being stylish.
Haider Ackermann Bateau Neckline Sweater
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I mean, what do you have to lose? He gets one, you get one.
Lot Of 3 Vintage Christian Dior Monsieur Plaid Scarves Cashmere
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Good color. Good price.
Arch 4 Cashmere V-Neck Sweater
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You can't go wrong.
Naadam Cashmere Pant Set
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But basically gift this as a scarf/shawl. The perfect travel blanket
Luxurious Cashmere Blanket, Hand made in Nepal.

Kitchen & Bar

All the best stuff for hosting a fab secondhand gathering

 
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As economical as these sorts of things come and would be a lovely hostess gift or a present to yourself with potato chips and crème fraiche for entertaining.
Royal Osetra Caviar
 
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A more economical and wonderfully whimsical little trinket dish.
Light Gray Ceramic can with sardines home decor 11.5*7cm
 
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Great gifting bottle. Feels special, but not too spendy.
Quinta dos Pesos Carcavelos 1992
 
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This and a bougie little bottle of oil? Yes.
16 oz olive oil bottle | Handmade colorful pottery | Modern design pottery
 
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Unique and useful. Love the organic shape of these.
White & Blue Oval Asymmetric Plates, Hand Built, Ceramic, Ceramic Plate, Dinner Plate, Handmade Plate, Pottery
 
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Yes, for eggs, sure, but also a great little ring option.
Handmade Porcelain Egg Cup with Feet Plated with Real Gold
 
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Genuinely useful and adorable. Great forever gift, if you're willing to spend a bit more.
Staub Enameled Cast Iron Petite French Oven, 1 1/2-Qt.
 
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These are fun and weird and useful. Perfect gift.
Dinosaur Small Plate Set from Japan – 4 or 6pcs Porcelain Dishes by Awasaka | Gift for All Occasions| Forgot Souvenir
 
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I almost never willingly pay retail for anything. But every dish in our house was made by this company and it's 100% worth it. They are so simple and beautiful. Gift a set of mugs for someone you really, really like.
Jono Pandolfi Coffee Cup
 
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I'm a Jono Pandolfi stan. These prep/condiment bowls are perfect.
Jono Pandolfi The Coupe Accessories Bundle
 
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For the maximalist.
Vintage Mid Century Culver 22K Gold Basketweave Lowball Glasses, Set of 8
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Not cheap, but a-goddamned-dorable.
Set of 2 High Spirits Green Lowball Glasses Agustina Bottoni
 
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We have these and they're great.
Mid Century Gold Barware: Global Gold Market Lowball Glasses, Set of 6
 
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These will basically always be chic.
Set Of 8 Vintage Dorothy Thorpe Whiskey Glasses
 
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Cute with a gift of bougie tinned fish.
Vintage silver plate and gold fish shaped platter
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Such an odd, pretty display plate. Gift with some bougie tinned fish and fixings for a relish tray.
French Vintage Porcelain Fish Platter ~ Porcelaine de Paris Serving Plate
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Minimal, but still feels special. Gift alongside another kitchen gift.
Striped Linen Tea Towel – Zero Waste Kitchen Towel – Sustainable Stone Washed Dish Cloth – Guest Hand Towel – Eco Friendly Linen Towels
 
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So pretty and versatile and already embroidered with the letter ‘L’, so if you're gifting for an ‘L’ name, you're in luck.
XL French Antique Pure Linen Torchon / Dish Towel / Tea Towel 'L' Monogram
 
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Not vintage, but a great gift.
Linen tea towels with colorful loops.
 
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Absolutely stunning. These are such a good gift for someone who is getting married or just moved into a new home.
Embroidered Wildflower Napkins
 
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These are so much lovelier than paper napkins at the table and not hard to clean. Great gift.
Assorted Napkin - Indian Hand Block Printed Napkin - 100% Cotton Cloth Napkin
 
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I love a weird conversation-starting serving piece. this would be great with the colorful linen towels in this section.
Shrimp/Lobster MCM Hand-Painted Serving Platter
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So perfect for the MCM-lover in your life.
Modern Abstract Hand Printed Napkins, Linen Retro
 
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These are so gorgeous. Anyone with the first or last initial of ‘P’ is in luck.
Antique French Monogrammed Napkins "P" Set of 11
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Completely timeless.
Vintage French Linen Napkins Set Of 10 Openwork Embroidered White 12” X 13”
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So beautiful with cut work and hand embroidery.
VINTAGE LINEN EMBROIDERED NAPKINS - SET of 6
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Good for the mid-century/vintage-lover
1960s Arabia Finland "Fructus" 13" platter
 
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Cute with the fixings of a bougie relish tray.
Kromex Rectangular Silver Tray: Mid-Century Modern Vintage Barware Chrome
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Hand block-printed and the perfect summer napkin.
Napkins Floral Vintage 100% linen
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It's pretty perfect.
Dansk Kobenstyle Paella Pan Yellow 13.5" JHQ Jens Quistgaard France
 
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This is so fun and specific.
LAST ONE Model 12001 Dish pan with lid Daisy set vintage casserole Figgjo Flint design Norway Turi Gramstad Oliver mid century modern
 
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I find these extremely beautiful.
Edo Kiriko Hand-Carved Aurora Whiskey Glass
 
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So, so pretty.
Handmade French Country Tablecloth: Floral Embroidery
 
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I'm so obsessed with this brand, I paid retail.
Jono Pandolfi Espresso Cup
 
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So this is new, but feels extremely pass-down-able.
Thorpe Cocktail Shaker By Ralph Lauren | Moda Operandi
 
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Well, this could not be more cheerful.
Royal Crown Paradise Covered Casserole
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These are a great workhorse apron. Even better at a discount.
Hedley & Bennett Hedley and Bennett Essential Apron - Various Colors
 
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So frilly and pretty.
Vintage Hand Embroidered Kalocsa Floral Apron: Hungarian Folk Art for Women
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New. Very giftable.
Mignon Resin Teaspoons, Set of 4
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Just the prettiest way to stir your tea.
FAZEEK Glass Teaspoons | Shopbop
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Sunny little vintage footed cake stand from Zafferano.
Vintage Zafferano Provenzale Amber Glass Footed Cake Plate Platter
 
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Absolutely beautiful carafe.
PINK & GREEN MODERN PLAYFUL SCULPTURAL GLASS CARAFE VASE Fazeek Handmade FVVCPG
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Fazeek makes the prettiest glass.
Fazeek Two Tone Coffee Plunger Clear & Green 1.1L
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A (new) rec for a very RL Holiday.
Ralph Lauren Scottish Amalfi Napkins
 
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This is so simple and perfect.
Ferm Living Linen Cotton Blend Natural Fabric Minimalist Apron European
 
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A super-beautiful serving set from a talented team of ceramicists out of Asheville.
East Fork Pottery Four Piece Set with Weeknight Serving Bowl in Lapis 2020
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Teach them to make cheese. Eat the cheese. Everyone wins.
Standing Stone Farms Award Winning Ultimate Cheese Making Kit: Mozzarella, Ricotta, Feta & More

Oddly Specific

For the weirdo in your life

 
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For the gardener. I have a great big garden and these get a ton of use for fresh herbs.
Fiskars 6" Micro-Tip Pruning Snips w/ Sheath
 
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For the kind of person who throws their pet a birthday party.
Custom Pet Portrait Plate
 
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Lean into their weird little hobbies. These vintage bonsai pruning shears are oddly pretty.
VNTG 7" Japanese Bonsai Pruning Shears Forged Iron Garden Scissors Sharp Blade
 
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I know, I know, this laquered bonsai table is so specific, but leaning into the hobby with something vintage and beautiful is the point.
Vintage Japanese Wooden Bonsai Display Stand KADAI Akebono Lacquer Angled Leg
 
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Good for the Boomer dad.
The Beatles: Get Back
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If they're gonna be a skater kid, let them be a stylish one.
Retro Cruiser Skateboard - Modern Longboard, shortboard, functional lifestyle gift
 
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Sorry not sorry. These are great.
Italian Butter Cookie Wax Candles By Moda Domus | Moda Operandi
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For when your husband turns into a bird-watcher. The needing out that happened this past year was next level.
Birdbuddy Pro
 
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I can't say why, but it's excellent.
Miniature Sashimi Keychain: Gothic Pierced Food Purse Charm
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Honestly, the most expensive item on this entire list. I don't care. I want it.
Moschino Spaghetti Shoulder Bag
 
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Nothing could be stranger, but maybe the show dog dad in your life needs this?
Hermès Dog Whistle

Home

 
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Positively obsessed. Perfect for the entertainer.
Celebration Beaded Serving Set
 
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This vintage dish would be so cute with the caviar.
Vintage Shelton-Ware silver-tone metal clam shell elongated oval serving dish, tray, or platter
 
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This little vintage crystal dish would be so cute as a match-holder.
Elegant Crystal Candy Dish Jar Footed Pedestal Cut Glass Bowl with Lid
 
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I cannot get enough of a little shell dish for hosting. Butter, caviar, little olives, whatever.
Anais Double Concha Algae
 
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LIke a seashell or a lilypad. Either way, I'm in.
Silver Plated Sea Shell Tray Three Sections With Handle, Wedding Tray Platter Server
 
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I want this. I want to host a little summer party with tinned fish and relish and crusty bread with just-picked tomato, and a crisp white. Maybe you know someone like this?
Navy Blue and White Fish Block Print Rectangle Tablecloth
 
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Completely obsessed with these. My hack: Go search for your own monogram on ebay. Hurts the resale on nice items when they're personlized, but you luck out if it's YOUR monogram.
Antique French Oyster Plate Porcelain Gold Paint Monogram AJ
 
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Smell like summer always.
Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle 4oz
 
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Not secondhand, but so luxe and pretty and weird.
Swan Silver-Plated Serving Spoon And Fork By Moda Domus | Moda Operandi
 
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Suuuuper cute host gift alongside a bottle. Perfect for the holidays, but not too “ho-ho-ho”
Georges Briard MCM Plaid Glasses: Red, Green & Gold Set of 4
 
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I've been completely obsessed with this for like a year. Someone do it.
Hand-Embroidered Linen Tablecloth
 
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Amy Sedaris collects this vintage brand, and I just love how cheerful they are.
Laurids Lonborg Large Coasters Set of 4 Pieces | Lena & Al Eklund | 1970s Colorful Bar Ware | Retro Made in Denmark
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Gift this and a bottle, and you're set.
Acrylic Ombre Coasters – Colorful Gradient Drink Coaster Set, Modern Table Decor, Heat-Resistant & Scratch-Proof
 
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Great with the MCM glasses in this section.
Decorative Thuya Wood Burl Coasters For Coffee Table and Home Decor - Yemma Goods
 
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Simple and personal
Full Grain Leather Coasters, 4-pack Personalized
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12 vintage Tiffany zodiac coasters? Someone should have these.
Set Of Twelve Tiffany & Co. Zodiac Coasters
 
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The gift of Loewe is always welcome. Make the mundane task of washing hands extra luxe.
Oregano Liquid Soap, 12 oz.
 
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Zen hosting at its finest. This one is a new rec.
Pebble Dessert Stand by Ferm Living
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This is so weird and specific. Obsessed.
Little brass crab box

Personalized

 
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Easiest win with a little monogram.
Oversized Leather Tassel Keychain
 
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I love a monogrammed gift. These are great and pretty economical. You could throw in a good bottle of something.
12 Custom Monogrammed Linen Cocktail Napkins
 
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Customize this one with an initial. Like earrings for a blazer.
Customized Letter Lapel Chain Pin for Men,Handmade Gold Suit Brooch Man,Personalized Jacket Collar Brooch,Pocket chain Brooch for Groomsmen
 
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A fancy little coffee spoon fits in that “things I would love, but likely wouldn’t buy myself” category. We got some and use them daily.
Coffee spoon set, Miniature spoons Soviet era, Tea accessories
 
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I just love anything with a monogram. This is great for the natural prep in your life.
Mark & Graham Fillmore Passport Case
 
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I kind of like how this one feels like a hotel key.
Embossed diamond leather keychain monogrammed

Luxe

A little something extra, if the budget allows.

 
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Ok, not technically a “little” gift, but if means allow, this is an insanely chic entry-level Hermès gift for someone. Perfect as a trinket/ring dish.
H Deco bread and butter plate n°1
 
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Ths is actually a decent price for Elder Statesman. And price per wear goes down because he can wear it and you can, too.
The Elder Statesman Cashmere Crew Neck Pullover
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Could not love this more. Putting it in the Luxe section because it's a little over $300.
Celine Large Knot Cuff
 
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An Hermès scarf will never miss.
Hermés Souvenirs de Paris Silk Scarf
 
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It just FEELS Christmasy.
Hermès Attelage En Arbalete Silk Scarf
 
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I'm sorry, Khaite for sub-$400? LUXURY GIFT.
Khaite Cape Coat
 
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Little luxe trinket dish
HERMES Mosaique Gold 24 Van Quatre Square Plate
 
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Cute and extremely economical
JONATHAN ADLER ARCADE SQUARE TRAY 4.5” SQ.

The Youths

 
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Perfect seasonal, but not overtly “holiday” pjs for the kiddos.
White Pajamas, Red Piping - Petite Plume Sleepwear | Maisonette
 
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Obsessed with this for a very cool child.
Tiger Cap
 
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I get that it feels crazy to buy cashmere for a child, but this is well priced for a kiddo who is not to hard on their clothes. My son is obsessed.
Washable Cashmere Jogger
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See my other note re: the cashmere joggers. The coziest gift for winter.
Mongolian Cashmere Hoodie - Kid in Heather Grey
 
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These are bonkers, but the cool kid will like them.
Comme des Garçon Denim
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I'm not your source for technical gear, but the Purple Label is actual fashion.
North Face Purple Label Nanamica Gray Mountain Parka Jacket Hooded F/S
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Another option for the extremely cool teen/dude.
Vintage Yohji Yamamoto Pour Homme Pants
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Easy no-fail basic
Wardrobe NYC - Crew Neck Long Sleeve Hoodie
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A sweatshirt is a fairly foolproof teen gifting option.
Undercover black crewneck sweatshirt size XL but...
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Chic and cute for a teen girl.
Silver metal Hair Clip
 
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An economical “first designer item” and it’s not like they have a bunch of cards anyway.
2001 Epi Leather Elastique Wallet
 
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Another “first designer item” you could get a teen girl without breaking the bank.
Leather Zip Pouch
 
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I love these for anyone, but feels like a good teen girl gift.
BENVEN Cat-Eye Sunglasses
 
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Another good option for a low-investment first designer item for a teen girl.
Logo Key Holder
 
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I can’t help it. I’m charmed by this. She probably will be, too.
Leather Bag Charm
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These are soooo cute.
Kids' French Ticking Pajama Set By Petite Plume | Moda Operandi
 
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This is the literal best travel backpack. Basically like an entire second suitcase and counts as hand luggage. I’ve recommended this to one million people. And now to you. It’s new, so you know I mean it.
Travel Backpack Airline Approved Waterproof
 
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I think this is actually a little backpack. A great ‘first designer’ gift for a fashion-crazy teen girl.
Saint Laurent Canvas Tote
 
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A keepsake-worthy back issue of a magazine for a fashion girlie is a good gifting option.
Vogue UK December 2017 Adwoa Aboah Edward Enniful Cover
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Keepsake-worthy vintage magazine.
Another Magazine Issue 37 Rick Owens Raf Simons Indya Moore (Poster) JW Anderson
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Back issues of The Face are a great gift for the dialed in fashion teen.
MADONNA The Face UK Magazine June 1991 In Bed With Madonna Good/ Excellent Tf-15
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Truly, a collector's item.
The Face Magazine Kate Moss Cover July 1990 The 3rd Summer Of Love Kate Moss
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Perfect stocking stuffer.
Clare V key chain
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I badly want to gatekeep this find because I forever love the Penquin pattern, but this is a great vintage designer piece for the discerning teen.
Vintage Pequin Pattern French Purse
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So hear me out here. Just punch little holes in regular paper and make this their notebook cover.
Louis Vuitton Epi Small Ring Agenda Cover
 
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We let our kids use real materials, even when they’re liable to stain. Paint pens plus a pack of canvas on frames is a great gift for an artsy kiddo.
Betem 24 Colors Dual Tip Acrylic Paint Pens

Jewelry

Everyone deserves something sparkly.

 
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I don’t know about you, but I enjoy something shiny.
Marquise Cut Mossnit Diamond , Wide Gold Band Ring,14k solid Gold Unique Statement Engagement Ring, Modern Gold Diamond Ring, Wedding ring
 
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You kind of can't go wrong with some gold earrings.
14K Twisty Drop Earrings
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A good Saint Laurent entry. I can't get enough of the sea lately.
Saint Laurent Faux Pearl & Shell Charm Bracelet
 
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The youth seem to be into these.
Carolina Bucci Twister Bracelet
 
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I like the herringbone pattern.
10K Diamond Braided Baguette Band
 
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Simple, but swishy.
Crystal Maria Fringe Earrings
 
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I have several Dorsey pieces and as lab-grown goes, they're great. These pack a punch for the price.
Dorsey Georgina Drop Earrings
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Pretty minimalist
"Chiara" Stud Earrings
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Something shiny will pretty much always be welcome.
14K 1.00ctw Lab-Grown Diamond Band
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Listen… I'm not sure whether this is technically what it purports itself to be, but I will take that chance at 10 carats.
10 ctw Lab Created Radiant Cut Diamond Engagement Ring 14K Yellow Gold Plated
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A fun low-risk right-hand ring option.
3.00 TCW Toi et Moi Pear and Emerald Cut Engagement Ring 14k Yellow Gold Plated
 
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Well, I want this very much.
6 ct Created Oval Cut Emerald Spit Shank Engagement Ring 14K Yellow Gold Plated
 
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I love a tennis necklace styled casually. This one feels like a good gift.
45Ct Lab-Created Round Cut Diamond Tennis Wedding Necklace 14K White Gold Plated
 
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I mean, sure.
35Ct Baguette Lab Created Diamond Choker Tennis Necklace 14k White Gold Plated
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I have this in silver and it's great.
Synthetic Sapphire Moss Riviere Necklace
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Completely bonkers. I love it.
Insect Collection Gold Tone Necklace Clavicle Chain
 
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I love Dorsey's jewelry
51.43ctw Synthetic Sapphire Marguerite Riviere Collar Necklace
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Nothing says Happy Holidays like a little sparkle.
14K 3.50ct Lab-Grown Diamond Cocktail Ring
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Absolutely obsessed with Completedworks
CompletedWorks Dare Zirconia and Recycled Gold Vermeil Bracelet-One Size

Coats (There will always be coats)

No list of mine is complete without them. The price-per-wear is second-to-none.

 
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People are constantly overlooking black in online shopping. This is a luxe gift at a good price.
Eskandar Wool Coat
 
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Honestly, it's like a bathrobe she can wear in public.
UGG Faux Fur Coat
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The details on this one (oversize cuff, texture up close) are all good.
Vintage swing coat
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Leopard is a neutral and I will not hear otherwise.
Stand Studio Faux Fur Coat
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Good patina on this jacket.
Maxima Leather Jacket
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The absolute perfect gift for mom. The built-in scarf is ignored here, but in real life makes it excellent.
Jacobson's Coat
 
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For the right girl (me) this is an excellent gift. I love a slightly impractical gift.
Stella McCartney Faux Fur Coat
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Like wearing a duvet. In a good way.
Norma Kamali Printed Coat
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Oh my god, someone please buy this for me. All that I want is to be cocooned this season.
Stand Studio Striped Faux Fur Coat
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Beautiful. Practical. And she's going to be the Creative Director at Hermés.
Wales Bonner Wool Peacoat
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Leopard is a Neutral Pt. 2 With Tags!
Kitth Animal Print Faux Fur Coat w/ Tags
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The collar on this is divine.
Vintage 1960’s cream wool swing coat with fox fur collar, size large
 
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Beautiful vintage coat. Great buttons.
1950s Versailles Olive Wool Swing Coat Persian Lamb Fur Collar Union Made Canada
 
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Insanely beautiful up close and a great price.
Comme des Garçons Vintage 1997 Faux Fur Coat
 
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For the extremely cool teen. The fur is on trend right now, but this is so, so much better than Zara.
Comme des Garçon Vest w/ Tags
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For the Grown-Ass Man

Help him dress and live better.

 
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Cool kid shacket option.
Samurai S0511xx Type 1 Denim Jacket - Size 40 / L - Made In Japan (Retail $400+)
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Not just joggers, Rick Owens Joggers.
2020 Joggers
 
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Sure!
Embroidered Baseball Cap
 
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The kind of luxury that you only ever gift someone else.
H Wool Socks w/Tags
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Cashmere and Supreme without the overt label
2024 Cashmere Pullover
 
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So this is technically men's, but I would wear it. So your price-per-wear would go down.
Cashmere Tie-Dye Print Cardigan
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This brand is my favorite. Punches well above its weight, quality-to-price-wise.
Santoni Leather Dress Loafers
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I love this brand and they will look much, much more expensive than they are.
Santoni Woven Leather Loafers
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These are classic in style and in excellent condition.
Manolo Blahnik Suede Dress Loafers
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One more from my fave men's brand.
Santoni Leather Dress Loafers
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A classic, perfect gifting option. Ignore the size listing and just look at the measurement. It's not a small.
Tom Ford Belt
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Super simple, classic item
YSL 2021 Leather Card Holder
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A beautiful option, but pay close attention to measurement on this one. It's not a large.
Ferragamo Gancini Belt
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Classic, can't-miss shape
Saint Laurent 1155439 Aviator Sunglasses
 
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Extremely classic and good quality. Pay attention to sizing. This one is consistent with it's lettered size. Fun fact: A cobbler should be able to alter if need be.
Ferragamo Leather Waist Belt
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Good news for dads. Dad hats are back.
Saint Laurent Men's Suede Baseball Hat
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Ferragamo isn't taking big swings, but that's good when it comes to sunglasses for the average man. Classics.
Ferragamo Aviator Tinted Sunglasses w/ Tags
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Yes. They are a spend. But they're Thom Browne with tags.
Thom Browne Wayfarer Tinted Sunglasses w/ Tags
 
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I enjoy the washed look on this. Pre-broken-in.
washed cotton field trip hat
 
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My husband gifted himself this a while back and could not be happier. A great gift for the vinyl-lover in your life.
Vault Vinyl Record Subscription
 
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The bonus here is that he can carry your dresses because he has the garment bag. We've had this for years and can vouch for it.
Halfday Original Garment Duffel | Bespoke Post
 
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You know how you can just tell something is going to be a go-to?
Carhartt x Work In Progress Crew Neck Long Sleeve Sweatshirt
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A good go-to item.
Billy Reid Trucker Jacket w/ Tags
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I love everything A.P.C. does. This shacket situation is extremely useful for the man in your life.
A.P.C. Trucker Jacket
 
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Super-basic, but I like what's happening around the collar.
Aime Leon Dore Wool Plaid Print Trucker Jacket
 
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Obviously we're not wearing it all buttoned up like this, so use your imagination. This is useful.
Acne Studios Trucker Jacket
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This site has actual vintage tour t's.
1976 The Who Tour Shirt | WyCo Vintage
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This JW Anderson collab sweater is still available and still excellent.
Lambswool Herringbone Sweater | UNIQLO US
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More of a suggestion here, but look for vintage actual tour posters that are already framed.
Idles Crawler Album Insert Poster Print Signed All 5 Members Framed Plexiglass
 
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For someone who knows they are nothing to f-k with.
WU-TANG CLAN SIGNED FRAMED ENTER THE WU TANG 36 CHAMBERS RZA U GOD JSA COA
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I enjoy this brand for men.
Samurai Jeans SIN21-01 Indigo Heavy Flannel Work Shirt Plaid Made in Japan L
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New, but basically deadstock? Anyway, like you get the beautiful intrecciato vibe, but for glassware. Feels like a win for everyone.
Nachtmann - BOSSA NOVA Single Old Fashion (Set of 4) | 8 oz
 
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Fantastic, fancy and economical. A great combo.
Glass Mid-century Georges Briard Low Ball Rocks Glasses Vintage Collectable Fancy Glassware
 
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This feels like something you could keep/pass down.
Thorpe Cocktail Shaker By Ralph Lauren | Moda Operandi
 
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This is a beautiful, complete set of 22k low ball glasses at a good price point for all 8.
Vintage Culver 22k Gold Rocks Glasses – Set of 8 Mid-Century Barware
 
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He should be drinking out of grown-up glasses now.
Vintage Culver/ServeMates Frosted Glass Lowball Glasses, Gold Stripe, Set of 4
 
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A basic, but a cool basic.
Men's Paul Smith Alpaca Striped Scarf
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