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The Single Girl’s Guide to Self Love

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In honor of Valentine’s Day and being single — I’m celebrating my solitude with all my favorite solo activities, books, movies, etc 💕
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All About (Self) Love Books

Books you need to feel all the love
 
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any bell hooks book is a must
All About Love: New Visions
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the midnight libarary is one of my favorites and this is a close second
The Comfort Book
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a must read
Untamed
 
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Kickstart your confidence and embrace your greatness
You Are a Badass: Stop Doubting Your Greatness
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A simple guide to personal freedom and self-love
The Four Agreements: Guide to Personal Freedom
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A transformative journey of self-discovery and healing
Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything
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A rom-com full of wit, chemistry, and self-realization
The Hating Game by Sally Thorne | Goodreads
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light-hearted and a fun fall in love story
Mad About You by Mhairi McFarlane - Goodreads
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Date Yourself Activites

 
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Mocktail & Movie Night
9 Mocktail Movie Nights Ideas
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I love going to Book Club in the East Village and they have so many wonderful events
Book Store Solo Date Night
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The cutest art cafe perfect to let your creative energy out
Happy Medium | Exploring the world of art.
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Move, breathe, and feel amazing in your own skin on a yoga solo date night
Yogamaya: Yoga Studio in Chelsea NYC
 
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A bathhouse is a perfect relaxing activity
Bathhouse Flatiron
 
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the BEST spa experience in nyc
Spa - Hotel Chelsea
 
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A solo date to a museum is the best way to tap into your creative energy
The Metropolitan Museum of Art

Must Watch Movies

The perfect lineup for when you need a confidence boost, a cozy escape, or just a little main character energy.

 
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Ambition, fashion, and finding yourself in the chaos
The Devil Wears Prada
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A solo journey of food, self-discovery, and Italian pasta—need we say more?
Eat Pray Love
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Because self-love also means having fun and knowing your worth
Clueless
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The ultimate romantic escape (for yourself, obviously)
Pride & Prejudice
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Cooking, passion, and Meryl Streep—pure comfort
Julie & Julia
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A reminder that being independent is powerful
Little Women
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A little messy, a lot relatable
Bridget Jones's Diary
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Singing, dancing, and zero stress—pure joy
Mamma Mia!
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The ultimate guide to embracing your solo era
How To Be Single
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Solo Self Care Moments

From spa-worthy skincare to cozy essentials, this section is all about treating yourself just because. Because when you take care of yourself, you glow differently.

 
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spa with a pool to lounge at all afternoon
Shibui Spa - The Greenwich Hotel
 
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Wake up without rushing, make your favorite coffee or tea, and start the day with intention
Slow Morning Routine I calm and slow rituals to start the day I self-care I slow living
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Write down your thoughts, dreams, and things you're grateful for
64 Journaling Prompts for Self-Discovery
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you don't have to go out to a fancy spa - you can easily recreate a luxury night in the comfort of your home
The 29 Best At-Home Spa Tips Ever
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Digital Detox & Candlelight Evening – Unplug, light some candles, and just be
Digital Detox: The Benefits of Screen-Free Evenings
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Cook a Nourishing Meal – Make something delicious just for you, no shortcuts
Cook a Nourishing Meal