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The 'Non-Reader' to Bookworm: How I Turned My Husband Into a Reader
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items He used to say, 'I just don't have the attention span for books.' Then I handed him the first book on this list. Two days later, he finished it. This is the exact, step-by-step progression of thrillers, sci-fi, and gripping non-fiction that turned my...
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The "Bait" (Fast-Paced & Cinematic)
The "Deep Dive" (Sci-Fi & Fantasy)
The "Gateway" Romances (High Concept & Emotion)
The "Mindset" (Non-Fiction/Bio)
The Reading Kit
The "Bait" (Fast-Paced & Cinematic)
The un-put-downable thrillers I used to trap him. These read like movies and have zero boring parts.
The book that started it all. It reads like a Christopher Nolan movie. It’s a sci-fi thriller about a man kidnapped into an alternate reality. My husband finished this in two sittings and immediately asked, 'Do we have any more like this?
Dark Matter: A Novel | Hardcover
He loves a puzzle, and this one stumped him. A psychological thriller with a twist ending he actually didn't see coming. It kept him guessing until the very last page.
Silent Patient - by Alex Michaelides
Written by the creator of Game of Thrones. It’s gritty, historical, and surprisingly funny. It’s a 'buddy comedy' set in a war zone, perfect for guys who hate flowery writing.
City of Thieves | Paperback
The "Deep Dive" (Sci-Fi & Fantasy)
Once he was hooked on the habit, I introduced bigger worlds. These are for the guys who love Star Wars, Dune and GOT
I pitched this to him as 'Hunger Games meets Game of Thrones in space.' It’s violent, political, strategic, and incredibly fast-paced. This is the book that will turn him into a series reader.
Red Rising (Red Rising Series #1)
The ultimate 'Guy solves problems in space' book. It’s hilarious, smart, and optimistic. He wouldn't stop talking about the ending for a week.
Project Hail Mary: A Novel - by Andy Weir
The "Gateway" Romances (High Concept & Emotion)
The final frontier. I didn't start him with cheesy bodice-rippers. I eased him in with books that have cool sci-fi hooks, hilarious banter, or deep emotional stakes. These are the love stories he actually admitted to liking.
The perfect introduction to romance because it has a sci-fi twist. It’s about a woman whose apartment travels 7 years in the past. He got hooked on the 'time travel logic' and ended up loving the emotional connection. It’s charming, clever, and not c...
The Seven Year Slip | Paperback
It is technically a love story, but it’s about platonic love and creative partnership over 30 years of building a video game company. If he grew up playing Mario or PC games, this will destroy him (in a good way)
Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow - by Gabrielle Zevin
The ultimate 'Romantasy' gateway. I sold this to him as 'Top Gun but with Dragons.' It’s brutal, violent, and full of action sequences. He came for the cool dragon lore and stayed for the tension.
Fourth Wing (Wing and Claw Collection) - by Rebecca Yarros
If he likes competitive banter, this is the one. It’s about two executive assistants who hate each other and are competing for the same promotion. The dialogue is sharp and aggressive, not sappy. A quick, fun read.
The Hating Game - by Sally Thorne
The most logical romance ever written. It’s about a genetics professor who treats finding a wife like a scientific experiment. If he likes The Big Bang Theory or logic puzzles, he will love this. It’s laugh-out-loud funny and entirely from the male p...
The Rosie Project: A Novel by Graeme Simsion(Paperback)
A battle of wits. It follows two rival authors who make a bet to swap genres for the summer. It’s about two writers—one writes "serious" literary fiction (the guy), the other writes romance (the girl)—who make a bet to swap genres. Guys like the "cha...
Beach Read - by Emily Henry (Paperback)
The "Mindset" (Non-Fiction/Bio)
Men often love reading if they feel like they are 'learning' or 'optimizing.' These are the biographies and psychology books that appeal to the male brain.
It’s intense, motivating, and raw. He read this and immediately went for a run.
Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds
Guys love systems and optimization. This isn't fluffy 'self-help'; it’s a manual for hacking your brain. He actually implemented the strategies in his work life.
Atomic Habits: Easy Way to Build & Break Habits
The self-help book for guys who hate self-help. It doesn't tell you to 'be positive'; it tells you that life is hard and you need to get better at handling problems. He loved the blunt, no-BS approach to prioritizing what actually matters.
Subtle Art of Not Giving a F@%! : A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life - (Hardcover) - by Mark Manson
The Reading Kit
The tools that made the habit stick.
The game changer. Once I got him this, he started reading in bed without keeping me awake with a lamp.
Amazon Kindle Colorsoft Signature Edition (32 GB) - Metallic Black
Really decent, easy to handle, and very pretty! Small, cheap, and saves his eyes.
Link Clip On LED Book Light For Reading In Bed Flexible Head Portable Rechargeable