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Ultimate Mother's Day Ideas; Gifts, Cards and Activities

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This day is all about her!  I'm a mother, and I feel most loved when I receive a gift that shows that they KNOW me. (NOT crappy stuff with ‘Happy Mother’s Day' written on it.)  Think about mom… her personality, her struggles, her hobbies and passions.  And get a gift for her that reflects how much you understand her and care about her as a person.  Please don't get mom a vacuum or a blender.  Save that gift for another time.  :)  I've listed some ideas here that would make MY heart swell.
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Heartwarming and Meaningful Mother's Day Gift Ideas

This day is all about her! I'm a mother, and I feel most loved when I receive a gift that shows that they KNOW me. (NOT crappy stuff with ‘Happy Mother’s Day' written on it.) Think about mom… her personality, her struggles, her hobbies and passions. ... 

 
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Keeping the focus on her, is there a specific photo that she really cherishes?  Well, get it made into a puzzle! This really only works if she likes puzzling already.  :)  #affiliate
Custom Puzzle (with a picture from her childhood, or the family)
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These (real) flowers are preserved through an eco-friendly process to maintain their natural appearance and texture… for a year or more! They are quite expensive, but if your mom actually appreciates flowers, she will get a much longer time to enjoy ... I personally don't love receiving flowers, but I know several women who do.  #affiliate
Flowers (That last for over a year)
 
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I love this idea; get all the kids names on this necklace and give it to mom as a gift. This particular necklace is really original and handmade. The largest 1" disc is of copper which can hold 1-2 names. Middle disc is of 3/4" brass which has a gold...  #affiliate
Personalized Necklace
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If she loves reading, this might changer her life.  She can easily read in lower light, she can download all her favorite books in one place, and keep track of what she reads. Sometimes it's hard to hold a book open for long periods of time if she has arthritis or other physical issues.  A kindle would solve that too!  Also, she make the words bigger for easier reading.  This particular set is my favorite, especially because the cover is so very beautiful, and it comes with an adapter already!   #affiliate
Kindle E-Reader
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If she loves to do puzzles or solve a Sudoku, she might really like playing a puzzly board game! Dorf Romantik is my recommendation. It is a little thinky, pretty and cozy.  A great time to spend some quality time alone. **This is one of my favorite hobbies.  If you are interested in more recommendations, check out the list I made about my favorite solo board games! #affiliate
A Solo Board Game
 
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Snoop through her bathroom (not too hard…) and find her perfume. Make a note, and buy her another bottle of it!  She will really, actually appreciate this one.  The perfume in the picture is my personal favorite.  My son says it smells like ‘mum.’ :)  You can do this same thing, and re-stock her favorite facial moisturizing cream.  These things tend to be a little more expensive, so she will love it as a gift.   #affiliate
Her Favorite Perfume
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A nice handcrafted mug filled with hot coffee, a blanket and her favorite show?  She might really like this.  A mug that was made by another human being with a cute sheep on it. (made by an artisan in Knoxville, Tennessee) And microwave safe!  If you give this to her, put her favorite chocolate inside before your wrap it.  Lots of bonus points for that! mmmmmmm   #affiliate
Handmade Mug
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I'm a mom, and I have notebooks all over my house.  I f your mom is always jotting down her thoughts, you could get her a really pretty personalized notebook with her name on it!  You can customize any words you want on a notebook like this one.  Like ‘favorite recipes’ or ‘gardening journal.’   #affiliate
Personalized Notebook
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Mom might have a sore upper body from all the stuff she does for the family! This looks like a scary contraption, but it is easy to use, I promise.  Her arms rest in the arm holes and put pressure on the rotating balls.  I LOVE mine, and I use it at least once a week!   #affiliate
Back, Shoulder & Neck Massager
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Her very own water bottle or tumbler. This one can be personalized with her name, and it's really pretty!  I LOVE the fresh color palette and the Art Nouveau aesthetic. All metal inside :)   #affiliate
Personalized Water Bottle
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Encourage her to pamper herself with a nice cooling jade roller set.  Bonus points for buying a quality set from a smaller black-owned business!   #affiliate
Jade Roller set
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If she loves candles, why not get her a really nice candle with a scent that means something to her?  Bonus points for shopping from a small business that uses clean and sustainable ingredients! #affiliate
A Really Unique Candle
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This is such a cool idea, from an artisan on Etsy.  Choose the chain material (the one shown is 14K gold), the necklace length, and the birthstones (in order) for the necklace.  This is a fantastic idea for Mother's Day Gift!   #affiliate
Family Birthstone Necklace
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So beautiful and comfortable, a new robe with her birth month flower artwork (by Juliet Meeks) would be really special. These are made of soft, light, sustainably sourced, biodegradable material. #affiliate
Birth Month Flower Robe
 
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You know, for that one time a week she actually gets to sit on the sofa to relax..  this would be awesome to hold her book, favorite drink and snacks for a good lazy afternoon. This acacia wood caddy has paneling that lets her adjust the piece to fit the right-side arm of most couches or chairs, including recliners. #...
Couch Caddy
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Mom wants to be on the edge of fashion!  She might like hand crafted modern earrings.  This artist (from Ann Arbor, Michigan) sells her creations on Etsy, and there are some of the coolest designs I've seen in a while.  They aren't crazy and loud, just subtle and edgy.  Perfect for mom!   #affiliate
Really Cool Artisan-made Earrings
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You can change the phrase on this art before you order it!  Maybe mom has a famous saying she loves, or some phrase that she says all the time.  Change the words, choose the poster size, and order a print.  (or download and print for yourself)  You can have it framed, and she will feel so seen and loved to get this as a gift!   #affiliate
*Custom* Wall Art
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Maybe she needs a break from cooking?  Or maybe she is a terrible cook haha.  A meal plan subscription might be a good idea!  this particular one through FlexPro curates recipes and meals that are higher in protein and healthy fats so mom can work on her strength and muscle & bone health as she approaches perimenopause.   #affiliate
Meal Plan Subscription
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Okay, this one might take a little more work and planning.. but it will be worth it, I promise!  Say mom is a teacher.  You could get a good quality tote bag (that can be personalized with her name or a phrase she likes), and fill it with some fun things.  Maybe a new novel, a notebook, some classroom posters, a ‘best teacher ever’ mug, a gift card to Michaels, etc. Things she will actually like and use!  Not the cheapie crap that come in most gift baskets. She probably doesn't want more oily soap and her 10th sleep mask. #affiliate
Build A Custom Gift 'Bag' Around Her Interests or Passions
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This collection of 15 oz. mugs has a beautiful design available for all 12 of the Zodiac signs.  As long as you know her birthdate, you can get her a coffee cup that feels special.  Designed by an artist! #affiliate
Beautiful Zodiac Mug (large)
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A great day bag for the campground, the park or beach.  The colors are fresh and new this year, and the bag has lots of compartments for all her stuff.  The fancy name brand doesn't hurt either.  She'll know how much you care :) #affiliate
YETI Day Bag

Funny Gifts Mom on Mother's Day

I hope mom loves to laugh!  There might be some inside joke that you would like to ‘celebrate’ with her gift this year.  Maybe mom is just really into cats, or gardening, or maybe she can't function before coffee in the morning.  These are some fun and creative gifts for her that won't break the bank. Many of these can be personalized so they are exactly right for her :)

 
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This only really works if she is actually right about most things. This is a notebook made to look like a vintage leather-bound novel. You can customize any of the words on this book, so you can change the author's name to hers.  And it's actually really useful!  #affiliate
She's never wrong. (Personalized Notebook)
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I feel this in my bones.  I am a mother, and I really don't like ‘baby on board’ car stickers. It assumes that all the drivers around them are idiots, and they are asking you not to be an idiot while they are near you.  If your mom feels the same way, she might get a kick out of this bumper sticker!  #affiliate
She Hates 'BABY ON BOARD' Bumper Stickers.
 
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Yes my friends, this is soap.  OMGosh, this Etsy shop is full of weird ‘food’ soaps you can have in the bathroom to delight your guests. Mom will get a kick out of this hotdog sitting next to the bathroom sink… if she has that quirky sense of humor!  These would make great stocking stuffers too.  #affiliate
She Loves The Unexpected (Soap)
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The mug says it all.  Just don't ask her for money before she has her coffee in the morning!  #affiliate
She NEEDS Caffeine (Mug)
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She loves indoor gardening, but she might not be very good at it.  So she grows cacti and other succulents, because they're harder to kill.  These are super cute and funny little posts for this mom!  #affiliate
She Loves Succulents (Plant Pots)
 
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Don't read this tumbler if you are sensitive to swear words.  But if mom has a potty mouth, she will love this!  #affiliate
She Has a Potty Mouth (Tumbler/Water Bottle)
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Make fun of her cat this year!  You can actually customize the wording on the sign to make this mug more specific to her cat.  And the drawing is quirky and cute.  #affiliate
Her Cat is a Liar (Mug)
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Um… when this candle is lit, everyone stay away from mom!!  This would make a great gift for the mom mother with several children who demand a lot of her time.   #affiliate
Mom is Stressed Out! (Candle)
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This mom is passionate, and she isn't even trying to impress other people.  She is just living her best life!  #affiliate
She is 'Too Much' For Some People (T-Shirt)
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This mug has ‘no’ written in several different ways and languages.  So the next time she needs to say no, she can just hold up her coffee cup!  #affiliate
She Says No To Everything! (Mug)
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She likes animals, and she can be really sarcastic.  haha.  This one is a little mean, but I love the retro aesthetic and the bright colors.  And the tote is really great quality… and useful!  #affiliate
She Can Be Really Sarcastic (Shoulder Tote)
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She loves cooking and baking, and you best stay out of her way when she's in the kitchen!  She loves feeding her family and entertaining, but she doesn't need or want your opinion!  haha  This is a simple notebook she could use for recipes.  And you can personalize it by easily adding her name (as the author) at the bottom #affiliate
She DOESN'T Need Help in The Kitchen (Recipe Book)
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As a mom of a boy, I totally get this!  I am now called ‘bruh’ or ‘bro’ several times a day.  I secretly yearn for the day sI was known as mama.  #affiliate
Mom of Boys (Sweatshirt)
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She loves wine, and this is her new corkscrew! Change the name to hers, and give her the key to happiness with this gift!  #affiliate
She Loves Wine (Corkscrew)
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She's totally addicted, and if she looks tired some day, she can point to her tote bag to explain.  #affiliate
She's Addicted to Crochet (Tote)
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Unique Mother's Day Cards; Indie Designers and Artists

Please don't get cards for Mom from the dollar store!!  She deserves a little more consideration :)  This is a list of some of the most interesting and unique Mother's Day cards on the internet.  May of these can be further personalized with custom messages and family photos.  Some have a three dimensional effect, or fun features like gold foil!  They are all hand crafted by real artists or designed by thoughtful and creative graphic designers. I hope you have a wonderful Mother's Day!

 
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Let's hope mom finds this funny!  It helps if mom is a cat lady herself :)   #affiliate
Cat Lady Card
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Your mom loves to laugh, and she might really appreciate this cute Mother's Day joke. Everyone just feels so lucky that she is a great mom! This is a great card to get her for Mother's Day. But if you want to get it for her birthday, or 'just because...
Funny Retro Card
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So cool! Her Mother's Day card is looks like the front page in a newspaper. You can customize every spot on this card.  The date, location, all the words and the photo.  I love this so much.   #affiliate
Newspaper Mother's Day Card
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I love the color palette of this bee-utiful Mom's Day card!  It has such a fun & fresh feeling. spring This card is also from that site where you can customize all the wording really easily yourself. #affiliate
Retro Mother's Day Card
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You can upload your personal photo and change all the text on this card, then order it. Absolutely amazing!!  I think of this card as more of a pre-designed template for us to write exactly what we want to our mother.  She would love this! #affiliate
Custom Photo Card
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I love this color palette and the delicate cut paper flowers on the front.  This card looks modern, yet minimalist and beautiful!   #affiliate
Delicate Mother's Day Card
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Again, another card that you can customize all the words yourself.  Brilliant!  This card might be good for a homesteader or farming mom.  I am neither of these things, but I love chickens, and this card is cute and heartwarming.   #affiliate
Cute Chicken Mother's Day Card
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OMGosh, this card is as cute as a… you know. This is more of a postcard style one, and it is actually round. It fits perfectly into a square envelope (provided).  If mom likes sewing, she NEEDS this card!  You pop a photo into the template on the back and customize all the wording if you want.   #affiliate
Button Mother's Day Card
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You can choose three photos to insert into the MOM letters for a really cool minimal personalized card.  Her mind will be blown!   #affiliate
Photo MOM Card
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The foil adds a touch of class, and she will know that this card didn't come from the dollar store!  You can customize the words on the inside if you want to change them. #affiliate
Fancy Foil Personalized Card
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Fans of the show will totally get this.  And if mom watches this show, she is so cool! Just fold in the cheese!!'   #affiliate
Schitt's Creek Mother's Day Card
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This card just really spoke to me.  I love the watercolor art style and the color palette.  It is sweet and simple and pretty :)   #affiliate
Artsy & Nostalgic Card
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So beautiful!!  This card is made by hand, and includes a pretty crocheted flower that mom can maybe tear off later and use for another craft.  It is blank inside, so you have to write your personal message. #affiliate
Crochet Mother's Day Card
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So touching!  A Mother's Day card from the dog.  Truly a mom's best friend.  #affiliate
From the Dog
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…or from the kids, but mom maybe loves the cats more.  just kidding!    And it feels soft to the touch, just like her cats do :)  This cute card is on Etsy, and it is handmade!  This lady makes so many beautiful cards like this for several different occasions.   #affiliate
From the Cats
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There is something so modern and sweet about this card.  I love the pastel color palette and the bohemian aesthetic.  Perfect! #affiliate
Pretty Boho Mother's Day Card
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This is such a special time.  As a mother, I can't imagine how wonderful it would be to watch my daughter parent my grandkids. This is a beautiful card to give to your amazing daughter on Mother's Day.  Your approval probably means a lot to her!   #affiliate
Mother's day Card for My Daughter
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This card is absolutely Stunning!  You can actually use it for any occasion, I just think it would be perfect for Mother's Day. She could literally frame this piece of art afterwards!   #affiliate
Sunflower Pop-Up Card
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This Card gives me the feels.  It's so pretty and fresh.  I think it would give her the perfect ‘Mother’s Day' message about how I feel about her :)   #affiliate
Pretty Hand-drawn Mother's Day Card
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This card made me laugh.  I remember what this felt like!  This card is really cute and one-of-a-kind.  This website is really cool too; you can select your card and type in a personal message into the box, and that message will appear inside the card.  They will ship the card directly to the recipient.  I think that is a great idea!  This website has lots of wacky and weird (and naughty) designs if you want to order a bunch for different occasions. #affiliate
Funny New Mom Mother's Day Card
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I don't know what it is about this one.  It tugs at my heart strings.  As a mother who likes to sew, I would LOVE to receive this card.  As a note, this card is blank inside.  So you have to fill in the message.  It is not specifically a Mother's Day card, but I HAD to include it.   #affiliate
Folksy Mother's Day Card
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This is especially awesome if mom is a gardener and loves flowers in the first place! #affiliate
Punny Card
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Things to do with Mom on Mother's Day

Mom just wants to spend some time with you.  Really!  The gifts, chocolates and flowers are nice, but all she wants is your time. And it doesn't have to cost anything. These suggestions are written from my perspective as a single mom with a son.  They could pertain to any parent and their older child or children. These are the things I would like to do with my (older) child on Mother's Day.  I think this day is all about celebrating the bond we share together.  And I would always like to have him to myself haha. I am a fairly emotional and nostalgic mom, and I love that kid to the moon… no matter how old he is!  

 
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This might be the neighborhood you still live in, but a stroll down the street talking about old times will make mom feel seen and appreciated.  The fresh air is nice, and you can compare memories of stories of your younger years.
Go for a walk in the neighborhood where you were raised.
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She just wants to spend time with you! This could be fun, especially if neither of you have gone for a pedicure before. :)
Take her for a Pedicure
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Don't tell her where you are going… grab some nice coffees and take her on a short date to a park.  Hopefully, you can still get to the park that she used to take you when you were little.  The setting might light up some fun memories of your youth!
Park Date
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In our house, cooking food for each other is a way to show love.  It doesn't have to be fancy… just edible.  She will love it!  Bonus points if the meal means something special to you both.
Cook for her
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Spend an evening with her playing board games or card games.  Bonus points if the games are something you used to do together more often! You can go to a local friendly board game shop and ask for recommendations for 2-player board games and buy a new game to learn together. There are so many awesome games on t...
Have a games night
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As a mom, I realize that I am usually the one taking the photos, so I am usually missing from them all!  Pay a professional to take a nice photo of you both so she has something nice to hang on the wall.  Her heart will melt :)
Book a professional photo session
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There are these fun ‘classes’ at local bars, cafes or wineries where you can have a cocktail and paint a picture together, guided by an artist.  They are wonderful fun, and mom would probably love to do this with you!
Go to a 'Paint and Sip' Class
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