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Maybe you need a gift for a woman who loves florals and botanicals, loves gardening and fresh spring color palettes and scents. Well, you might find something awesome for her on this list! I tend to lean towards a rustic and vintage aesthetic, which fits (at the moment) with the trends right now. Everything on this list is totally for a gal just like me! A few of these items I designed, a few more I own, and the others are well-researched and on my wish-list! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

Random Acts of Kindness! I love this trend, and I wanted to record some of the cool ways to send messages of hope and encouragement to strangers. These messages might be exactly what they needed to hear at that exact time. Have fun with this list! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Only a few years ago, if anyone asked me why I was so messed up, I wouldn't be able to tell them. Now, I have the language and knowledge I need in order to tell you why I'm so messed up. :) Many of these books have opened my eyes to the forces in my life that shape my thoughts and behaviors. Many of these have given me the tools & frameworks with which I am now healing myself and seeing my behaviors and negative thoughts as changeable. The latter books on the list have helped me enter a world of spirituality, calmness and peace. Your life experiences and particular flavor of trauma may differ from mine, but these are books that I would recommend to anyone looking to heal from trauma and discover your true self so as to move onwards and upwards in a healthy way. For yourself or for someone you love, find a fitting book and dive in for a painful and enlightening ride! AND If you are an avid reader, might I suggest joining your local library so you don't have to spend your money on them up front. I like downloading audiobooks for free from the library, and eventually buying the few that really stand out. I've linked these books back to Bookshop.org if you are interested in buying a copy. This is an online storefront where a portion of the sale (30% of the cover price) is directed to the participating brick & mortar bookshop chosen by the buyer, or split among all participating stores if no specific store is chosen. They sell physical copies of books, as well as ebooks. I love this website, because I am supporting a local bookshop without leaving my sofa :) There may be affiliate links in this post. I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase after following a link at no cost to you.

Deep purple is an unexpected choice for an accent color in your home. I find that this is a most uncommon choice, but people feel really ‘wowed’ by it when they see it done well. I would pair this color with warm grays of any intensity as a base and little shots of white or fresh yellow for bold contrasting pops. Cool metals like brushed nickel would really compliment this palette, while warm metals like copper and brushed gold would play up the rustic and passionate side instead. I think deep purple adds a luxurious aesthetic to a bedroom or living room, and might get the juices flowing, if you know what I mean. It is sultry, moody and bold. mmmmm Here are some home decor accents in this color I love so much… pillows, light fixtures, furniture, area rugs and lots more! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

This is a list of little habit changes that you can easily build into your daily routine to help you with weight loss. Several of these are my ideas and some are ones that I've picked up from other people along the way. I truly believe that tiny tweaks are so much easier to ‘stomach’ than big fad diets and counting calories. These are tips and tricks that you can add into your life without too much discomfort and pain. Things that can become second nature to help you feel better about yourself and feel more comfortable in your body. Small steps add up to big results in the end. Some of these tips I've included a recommendation of a product you can buy to help you on this journey. These make awesome gift ideas for anyone else looking to lose weight! There may be affiliate links in this post. I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase after following a link at no cost to you.

Looking for the perfect White Elephant gift ideas under $30 for your office Christmas party? This list is packed with fun, unique and totally safe-for-work gift options that will have your co-workers laughing, swapping, and maybe even stealing! These are clever and creative gift ideas that stand out, and might get you the ‘best present of the party’ award. For the office gift exchange or secret Santa swaps, I've done all the work and hand picked each item for their originality and charm. There are even some personalized items here if you are buying for a specific person. Have fun! I hope my ideas will inspire you to really think about recipient's tastes, interests and hobbies. Would they like a gift that is serious or funny? Heartfelt or sarcastic? Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Hey fellow cat person! If you’re always on the hunt for the purr-fect cat gifts, I’ve got you covered with some ideas that don't cost too much. This list is packed with funny cat shirts, mugs, stickers, and other adorable things that totally get the chaotic joy of loving cats. Whether you're shopping for a cat mom, your favorite vet tech, or just treating yourself (because you deserve it), there’s something here that will make you smile. All the designs are playful, quirky, and totally made for people who talk to their cats like they’re tiny roommates. Trust me—these are the kind of gifts that make cat lovers say, “Wait... I need this immediately.” Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

This is a curated collection of some of the most beautiful and artistic phone cases I've discovered. Redbubble is a great site for unique finds, because all the art you see is uploaded by actual artists. Real people expressing their emotions, messages and personality through art, and putting themselves out there to be discovered. Purchasing anything from Redbubble is a fun way to find something truly unique and to put some cash into an artist's pocket. For phone cases, you can choose art you like and transfer to the phone case you need. They have cases for Apple iPhone and Samsung Galaxy models. The cool thing about Redbubble is that if you find art you love, you can get it printed on any number of different products… like shirts, laptop cases, mugs, notebooks, backpacks etc. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

Valentine's Day cards that celebrate passionate and romantic love. Please skip the dollar store this year! It feels so nice to receive a beautiful and meaningful card from your partner on Valentine's Day! I found some awesome designer cards that express romantic love in a cool way, so you don't have to go looking yourself! :)

I've curated a collection of really fun and unique gay pride stickers for the LGBTQ community on Redbubble. They are all designed by real actual people, and you can browse and buy different stickers from different people in one order! This collection is bright and colorful and fun, and just perfect for pride month. Nothing too subtle about these! Keep in mind that these stickers live on Redbubble, so most of these designs can be transferred to other products you might like… such as t-shirts, hats, mouse pads, desk mats, aprons, tote bags and more! Redbubble ships to 96% of the countries in the world, so chances are, you can totally get something if you love it! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

Gifts for your friends and loved ones who are out, proud and gay, but don't really want everyone else in the world to be hit in the face with their rainbow. Little trinkets to add a touch of fabulous personality to their daily life. I'm a straight ally, but I find myself often looking for gifts for my gay and lesbian friends for birthdays and other occasions. This is a small list of thoughtful things they have really liked…. and stuff I will probably buy in the near future! I will add more to this list as I see new and cool things out there in the wild :) Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

These wild and colorful gifts are meant to get a laugh from your gay friends and allies. They are fun and quirky and meant to be noticed. Some of these items are hand crafted by real humans living in the States. All of these lovingly curated by me. And I will add more to the list as I see new and cool things in the wild :) I hope you have a laugh and find some neat gift ideas. Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

This is my list of cool wall art that I've come across over time. I'll keep adding when I find more gems! Some are spicy and hot, and some are quirky and funny. Depending on the room you'd like to decorate… a dorm room or a bedroom, go nuts and put up some racy stuff! For a common space, there are some more subtle suggestions for all your Sapphic expressions. Some of these artists are quite prolific, so you can find more of their work if you follow the link. You could buy multiples to make art arrangement like at a bar, coffee shop or any other public queer space that needs more lesbian love. All these suggestions are prints or posters, and nothing here is expensive. Spend your money on your girlfriend :) Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

We really want the smut, but need to feel invested in the characters and the story to really get the juices flowing! These books hit the mark, in different ways, providing a nice balance between the ‘feels’ and eye-popping sex scenes. Many lesbian erotica novels seem to be written for the straight man, and seem to be focused on boobs and butts and getting down to business. We gals want the business, it just often takes us many more paragraphs to get there. I feel like the books in this list are written for the female audience to enjoy. Also, I suggest NOT reading any of these in public. Happy reading! and Happy Endings! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

Bumper stickers that make the drivers around you pause and have a laugh! Nothing too political, rude or mean-spirited though… I'm focused on the humor and sarcasm. There is too much anxiety and negativity in the world, so find a cool sticker to get to increase the level of joy around you! Many of these bumper stickers are pretty relatable; I have the diamond shaped one on my van. I can't tell you how many times another driver has pulled up alongside me and smiled with a thumbs up, pointing at the sticker. I love it! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Even if you don't share these values, you can easily find gifts that support your Vegan and Vegetarian friends' lifestyle choices! They are huge animal rights activists, and speak out against animal cruelty. Or they just identify as animal lovers, these friends or family members eat a plant based diet. Browse my gift ideas (that won't break the bank!) and get the creative juices flowing! If you find something here perfect for your loved one, you're welcome :) Some fun gift ideas great for birthdays, Christmas or just because, they will feel all warm and squishy when you give them a gift that says ‘I understand you.’ Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, I will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase.

You want to support someone you love in their healing journey, or show care and compassion when they are going through a hard time. These are gift ideas for friends and loved ones who are on a journey of healing and personal growth. Giftable items that promote self-care, positive mindset shifts and healing from trauma. You love these people and want to see their lives improve. You support them emotionally and want to give them little treats to encourage and inspire them along the way! Also, I've included information on healing activities, books to read, affirmations, and behaviors that send positive vibes into the community. I'm always adding to this list, so it's probably going to get huge!! There may be affiliate links in this post. I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase after following a link at no cost to you.

This list is for people like me. People who like little (and big!) surprises around every corner in their homes. They like to add some personality to their spaces, especially the washroom… arguable the funniest room in the house, right? We all need a chuckle while we are pooping, and if you forgot your phone, there better be interesting things to look at :) This is a fun list of quirky and weird bathroom decor to liven up the space you unwittingly spend so much time in. Creepy, kitschy and unexpected. Have some fun with your home decor, you only live once! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases

Here are some more mature birthday party theme ideas for kids who are getting too old for dinosaurs and princesses! I imagine these would be great themes for kiddos ages 8-14 or so. They are pre-teens and teens, getting more refined, and wanting to give their friends more of a unique and trendy experience. These ideas are all great for both girls and boys, and I've taken inspiration for them right from some cool invitations I've seen over time. Most of the invitations can be customized easily by you, and are also available to download so you can print them off in a hurry. Because, let's be honest, sometimes we parents leave things to the last minute! Let the photos of these fun invitations get your creative juices flowing, and let them inspire color palettes and activities you can have at the party you plan. Happy Birthday (party)! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Like I said… really cool phone cases!! For Apple iPhone and Samsung Galaxy models. From real artists who sell their work on Redbubble and Zazzle. I'm featuring the artist here, and doing my best to show off a good representation of their style and vibe. If you find a new favorite artist, you're welcome! And what better way to enjoy them than on your phone case… something you see several times a day, and something that lots of other people probably see too :) A chance for you to express yourself and demonstrate your unique taste. I do my best to steer clear of super popular trends and themes… You don't want to have what everyone else does… right? Find something uniquely YOU; something that speaks to your soul! That's what art is all about right? Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you.

Zazzle is a cool platform you can use to customize great products to get for yourself, your business or give as gifts. It's really fun and easy to use, and there are over 1500 different things to personalize. From stationary, business cards, t-shirts, mugs, luggage, etched wood picture frames, watches, thermal tumblers, and so many more weird and wonderful things. Seriously, take a look and have a blast! The last thing I bought were name sticker labels my son's school supplies. This is a list of examples of fun things to play with on Zazzle. This list will likely grow over time, as I find more and more little nuggets of fun on this platform!! P.S. here are some of the more off-the-wall products I've seen on Zazzle for your entertainment; pacifiers, license plates, dart boards, skateboards, jars of honey, coffee and candy!

You need some new things for your favorite fluffy family member! My dog passed almost three years ago, and she was a beautiful and sweet and spoiled multi-poo princess. When she was little, I sewed her outifts so she wouldn't catch a chill outside. Later in life, I didn't have the time for that, so I ended up buying her a ton of stuff that she probably didn't care about, but made me happy. The best thing I ever got for her was a raised car seat, so she could look out the window of the car and not be in my lap. That one actually made her really happy and calm. Here are some more ‘gift’ ideas for your amazing poochie. Gifts for your dog for Christmas or their birthday, or because it's a Monday. Gawsh we love our dogs! This post may contain affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Depending on how old you are, these retro Christmas decorations might make you feel nostalgic for your childhood! I'm in my mid-40's, and this list of 'vintage' Christmas home decor are things I remember seeing in my parent's and grandparent's house during the holidays. I have collected some of these things throughout the years, and I bring them out to use with my family at Christmas. Call me a softie, but the traditions I had as a child are important to me, and I love to carry some of this old school Christmas aesthetic into the celebrations with my new family. It's all about love, spending cozy time together and eating! I want to surround myself with my family and the things that make me feel good :) All these suggestions are linked new products, but I love the idea of getting these as hand-me-downs or finding them in the thrift shops. New decor that looks retro or vintage is quite stylish at the moment, and is usually fairly expensive. You can find true vintage Christmas items by searching on Etsy or eBay as well. Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

Some of the best Christmas gifts to give family and loved ones are pictures of your family! Bonus points because you can easily customize these all yourself. Additional bonus points for being products that are actually useful :) I've also included some cool family photo Holiday cards for you to personalize and send out to everyone on your list. These are my absolute favorite kind of cards to receive, especially when you don't get to see these people much during the year. Christmas is the time to get lovey and mushy, so I say go all the way with gifts showing off the smiling faces of people they love!! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

This day is all about her! I'm a mother, and I feel most loved when I receive a gift that shows that they KNOW me. (NOT crappy stuff with ‘Happy Mother’s Day' written on it.) Think about mom… her personality, her struggles, her hobbies and passions. And get a gift for her that reflects how much you understand her and care about her as a person. Please don't get mom a vacuum or a blender. Save that gift for another time. :) I've listed some ideas here that would make MY heart swell. These gifts are all great for any occasion actually… Christmas and her birthday included! Some of the links associated with this list may be affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you purchase something by following my link, at no extra cost to you. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.