Ivy Cruz

(And yes, they come with matching shoes. Because I have standards.) I'm 100% sure you're going to love this! Let’s get one thing straight—I may have questionable taste in men, but my taste in bags and shoes? Flawless. This isn’t just a collection; it’s a red-hot revolution. Every bag here isn’t just bold and beautiful—it’s coordinated. And because I don’t believe in doing anything halfway, each one comes with the perfect pair of kicks (or heels) to match the vibe. Think chic, not chaotic. Loud, but never tacky. These red-hot duos are the ultimate statement: “I’ve got baggage—and it’s designer.” Whether I’m stomping through Monday meetings or strutting into weekend brunch, these combos have my back (and my feet). Why red? Because it’s powerful. Passionate. Slightly unhinged in the best way. Just like me when I see a sale. So if you’re into bold moves, matching accessories, and looking like you’ve got your whole life together (even if you don’t), welcome. This is for the girls who walk away from red flags… but keep the red bags.

You know you're in your 40s when your Amazon cart looks like a wellness aisle threw up in it. But hear me out—I took multivitamins, collagen, magnesium, mushrooms, and things I can’t pronounce (hi, ubiquinol!) and now I glow, sleep, focus, and poop like a woman with zero unresolved trauma. Lion’s Mane made me smarter than my Wi-Fi. Ashwagandha turned my rage into yoga-breathing. Magnesium Glycinate tucked me in like a lullaby. And Berberine? Let’s just say my jeans are back from early retirement. I used to run on caffeine and chaos. Now I run on Ritual, Resveratrol, and surprisingly good gut health. DIM had me feeling like PMS is just a rumor. K2 + D3 fixed my mood and my bones. CoQ10 made me feel like my heart downloaded an energy update. My skin is plumper, my sleep is deeper, and my stress? It's hiding somewhere with my unpaid parking tickets. Moral of the story? I didn’t just take vitamins—I started a glow-up revolution from the inside out. You think I’m aging? Babe, I’m just biohacking. But just a heads up, these are just recommendation, you can always seek doctor's advice for more tailored fit supplements.

Let’s be honest. I may not have a million dollars in my bank account (yet), but I definitely smell like I do. Welcome to my curated museum of mood swings, main character energy, and bottled delusions of luxury aka my holy grail list of 15 perfumes that slap harder than reality. These scents aren’t just fragrances—they’re personality traits. Spritz on Lanvin Éclat when you want to smell like a Parisian who journals and owns three types of olive oil. Moschino I Love Love is for your inner citrus gremlin with main plaza energy. Tom Ford Neroli Portofino? That’s vacation in a bottle. One spray and you’ll demand prosecco at noon and pronounce “croissant” with an accent. And let’s talk range: we’ve got flirty florals (hi, Miss Dior Blooming Bouquet), powerhouse gourmands (Black Opium = midnight chaos in heels), sophisticated musks (thank you, Narciso Rodriguez), and expensive AF masterpieces like Baccarat Rouge 540 that say, “I eat caviar... emotionally.” These are the best not just because they smell divine, but because they: Last longer than my motivation (hello, staying power) Get you compliments from strangers, toddlers, and TSA agents Match every vibe—from corporate baddie to barefoot at brunch Give you the illusion of having your life together You’ll find everything from tried-and-true legends like Perry Ellis 360 to modern-day heartbreakers like Kilian love dont be shy, and even unisex icons like Santal 33, which smells like a book club where everyone’s hot and emotionally distant. Bottom line? This list is your scented survival kit. It’s giving confidence. It’s giving taste. It’s giving “I sprayed this and now the barista gave me free oat milk.”

I’m a mom of 3, working from home, trying to build an empire between snack refills and Wi-Fi glitches—and let me tell you, these self-help books? They’ve saved me from completely losing my mind. There was a time I thought “Atomic Habits” was about nuclear parenting, not brushing my teeth while habit stacking. But guess what? I now do squats while waiting for chicken nuggets to air-fry. Wins. Then I read “Let Them” by Mel Robbins—and boom. I stopped obsessing over what people think about my parenting, my business, or my messy house. Let them judge. Let them whisper. I’ve got laundry to ignore and dreams to chase. “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” taught me to stop wasting energy trying to be perfect (and to just feed the kids and keep them alive). Meanwhile, “Think Like a Monk” reminded me that silence is sacred—especially if you can find 3 minutes of it in the bathroom before someone yells, “Moooom, I can’t find my socks!” These books didn’t just change my mindset—they gave me coping strategies disguised as wisdom. They helped me stay grounded, focused, and even kinda funny while juggling a chaotic life. So if you’re also a multitasking mama with big dreams, low energy, and 26 tabs open in your brain—this list is for you. Swipe to see the full reviews (the honest, slightly unhinged kind I wish someone gave me sooner).

If you’ve ever layered five random mists in high school and ended up smelling like confused fruit salad. hi, we’re soulmates. I’ve loved smelling extra since forever, even if baby me had no clue what “notes” or “undertones” meant. All I knew was: spray more, smell rich… right? Wrong. One time, I walked into school coughing because I mixed dark musk with tropical mango. I thought I was being creative—turns out I was just suffocating myself. But through the chaos, the icons emerged. Warm Vanilla Sugar, Love Spell, Bombshell, Bare Vanilla, Into the Night, Strawberry Pound Cake, Dark Kiss, Sweet Pea, and A Thousand Wishes — these are my ride-or-die scents. Some of them have literally been with me since high school, and to this day, old classmates still say, “I knew you were around... you smelled like vanilla.” I mean, legacy goals. Now I share my favorites so you can skip the trial-and-error and jump straight to “I smell expensive” status. But here’s the truth: body chemistry matters. These scents smell amazing on me—like soft cashmere, sugar dreams, and confident energy—but your skin might pull different notes. That said? They’re crowd favorites for a reason. Start here, test gently, and walk around smelling like your bills are paid—whether they are or not

Okay, listen up besties—this isn’t just any makeup list. This is THE list. The holy grail. The "how do you look so good on Zoom at 8AM?" kind of list. Whether I’m pretending to be effortless with a “no-makeup makeup” look or stepping out like I’m about to headline a glam awards night (even if it’s just dinner)—these are my ride-or-dies. I’m talkin’ coverage that’s so smooth it deserves a round of applause , lip tints that stay through iced coffee and chaos, and highlighters that catch the light and compliments. These picks? Totally underrated, absolutely worth buying, and yes—“bestest” coverage was the only way I could describe them. This list has been with me from the 9-to-5 grind to the WFH life and everything in between. No flaky formulas, no drama—just solid, glow-boosting, skin-loving goodness that works whether I’m in sweats or stilettos. So if you’ve ever: -Wanted a glow that says "I woke up like this" (but didn't), -Needed makeup that doesn’t quit before you do, - Or just love knowing someone actually uses what they recommend... Sis, you need this list. Your makeup bag’s next upgrade starts here. You will not be ghosted by these products. They show up, show out, and slay every single time. Warning: You might become the friend everyone asks, “What are you wearing on your skin??” (Don’t worry, I’ll let you take the credit

If Sephora, TikTok, and Beyoncé had a group chat this would definitely be the vibe. Think glam, glow, and game-changing beauty that doesn’t just sit pretty on your shelf it shows up for you. This curated collection of my current faves is more than a list it’s a full-on main character energy moment. Let’s talk lip oils that catch the light like a filter IRL, setting sprays that lock your look while feeling like a soft-focus dream, and sunscreens that not only protect but give your skin that lit-from-within radiance. These aren’t your average “try it once” products. These are the ones that made me stop mid-scroll, add to cart, and never look back. Every pick here earns its place. They’re hardworking, luxe-feeling, and make the everyday feel like a self-care ritual. Whether it’s the skincare serum that melts into your skin like a lullaby or the highlighter that gets more compliments than your last selfie, these products are the moment. And let’s be honest: part of the fun is the aesthetic. These beauties don’t just perform; they look amazing doing it. Think sleek bottles, dreamy textures, and scents that make you feel like your own mood board. So if your vanity’s due for a glow-up, this list is your golden ticket. Consider it your backstage pass to beauty that’s as fun as it is functional. Warning: falling in love with all of them is not just possible, it’s practically guaranteed..