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❤️The Red Frequency: Grounding& Energy Anchors

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When life feels chaotic, The Red frequency helps us return to our roots. This collection of tangible tools-from sensory objects to movement essentials- that helped me ‘ground’ when I'm not in the headspace for traditional meditation. These are my fav...
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All things cozy

Items that feel like a warm hug for when the world feels too loud.  Red energy starts at the feet- keeping my toes warm is my first step to feeling safe. 

 
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This feels like a full-body hug when your mind won’t shut off. The weight helps calm my nervous system and pull me out of overthinking fast. I use it for sleep and when I need to ground, rest, or reset my energy. Not just cozy — actually regulating.
Uttermara Queen Weighted Blanket 15 lbs Purple
 
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I love blankets in general. These are not as weighted like a traditional weighted blanket however they are cozy for those movie nights or reading a book on the couch evenings.
Award-Winning Luxury Blankets
 
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Comfy red socks that keep my feet warm and my energy rooted. Instant comfort + grounding.
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This is one of those small things I didn’t think would matter, but it does. The scent changes how I feel, and the act of rolling it on slows me down for a second. I grab different colors depending on what I need — balance, calm, joy, or intuition. Ea...
Essential Oil Roller
 
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I have the Tranquil Set from Comfort Hoodie Brand, and I reach for it when I need to slow down and calm my mind. Perfect for curling up with a book, watching a movie, or just letting myself settle into the couch. Soft, cozy, and actually feels like a...
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I love my comfort set it got the essential set. I feel like im wrapped up on blankets of sorts.
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I love my Barefoot Honibear shoes because they just feel right. They’re light, flexible, and let my feet move naturally — like I’m walking barefoot, but still protected. I notice I stand taller and feel more grounded when I wear them. They’re my go-t...
Hyacinth - Barefoot Shoes
 
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Soaking your feet in this is surprisingly grounding. The warm water and gentle ionic flow help release tension and leave you feeling lighter and more centered. It even comes with a little paper that shows what’s being pulled out—it’s kind of fascinat...
Cell Spa Dual Ionic Detox Aqua Foot Spa Machine
 
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I got these .. im 5 ft 9 and 145 lbs. I got the 34 inseam ones. And got a medium. Think ill get a large next time, however I still wear these alot.
Women's High-Waisted Bootcut Yoga Pants
 
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This is the hoodie I grab when I need something tough and reliable. It’s warm, durable, and built to move with me while I work—perfect for painting, projects, or anything hands-on. I like that it can handle a little wear and tear without losing comfo...
Men's Quarter Zip Sweatshirts
 
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I have a bunch if his t- shirts and couple of his hoodie and sweat pants.
Crystal-Infused Clothing & Apparel
 
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Toeless Socks – I like to keep my feet warm while staying grounded and connected. stretching, or mindful movement.
Toeless Socks

Sensory Grounding

Tangible tools to help quiet the mind and bring focus back into the ‘now.’ When my thoughts race, having something to hold onto physically anchors my focus.

 
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I use my grounding mat when I feel tense or disconnected and need a quick reset. Just a few minutes standing on it and my body feels less stiff, more settled, and way more present — like my nervous system finally exhaled. It’s simple, subtle, and eas...
Hooga Grounding Mat for Sleep & Pain Relief
 
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These are one of my favorite tools for moving energy through my body. I use them to ground, tone, or shake off tension, and the stretch always feels like a reset. Simple, easy to travel with, and way more effective than they look.
Best Resistance Bands
 
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Here’s why these little fidget toys are worth tossing in your bag: they give your body something steady to hold onto when the world feels loud. Some days your chest gets tight, or your thoughts get tangled, or your nerves feel like static electricity...
Fidget Toys
 
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There is something so grounding about the physical act of writing in red ink. It feels bold and definitive. When my mind is looping, I use this pen to ‘get it out' on paper- it's like a physical anchor for my thoughts.
Red Pens
 
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Hold this stone and feel your energy ignite. Its warm, vibrant glow sparks courage, creativity, and motivation, like a gentle nudge to step boldly into your power. Carnelian invites you to take action, trust your intuition, and bring your ideas to li...
Jet Natural Carnelian Tumbled Stone 100g
 
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This helps my daughter at night to help fall asleep. Turn it on and feel the world soften. The gentle hum creates a cocoon of calm, blocking distractions and opening space for focus, reflection, or creativity. It’s like a soft breath for your mind—st...
Magicteam White Noise Machine with 20 Sounds

Body Nourishment

Rooted nutrition that feed the physical vessel. The ritual of drinking a warm or hydrating drink is my favorite way to signal my body that it's ok to slow down. 

 
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One of my favorites.. This water just feels… clean and refreshing. I love that it’s crisp and smooth, almost like it resets my energy with every sip. Drinking it makes me feel hydrated, grounded, and ready to focus or just take a moment for myself. I...
Core Hydration Water 30.4 fl oz, Pack 12
 
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I love this stuff. End of story.
FlavCity Fruit Punch Electrolytes Powder - 28 Packets
 
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Balance is not my strong suit some days, so I’ve started adding protein to my coffee. It’s such an easy way to take care of my body without overthinking it—and honestly, it’s delicious. Little things like this help me feel more integrated and steady.
Best Healthy Protein Powder And Smoothies Online
 
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These are my little daily anchors. Holding a warm drink slows me down, grounds me, and gives me a moment to just be. The solid color inside isn’t just pretty — it’s like a tiny energy boost. Blue helps me speak my truth, yellow reminds me of self-lov...
Qipecedm 6 Pack Matte Black Porcelain Mugs

Structure & Support

For creating physical and energic boundaries that help hold you up. these tools support posture, routines, finances, and permission to rest- so you don't have to carry everything alone.  we can't flow if we don't have a foundation. These help me feel supported and held. 

 
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This chair is honestly so comfy. It’s made for sitting cross-legged or however your body wants to sit, and the seat actually swivels so you can move around without getting stiff. The cushions are supportive, the backrest feels good, and the teddy fab...
Pinmoco Ergonomic Cross-Legged Office Chair Adjustable Height Meditation Chair with Back Support and 360° Swivel, Office/Home Chair, Off White
 
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I got this desk because it’s a sweet middle ground — not one of those $300+ desks, but way bigger and sturdier than the $99 ones. It’s L-shaped, electric, and I can switch between sitting and standing with ease. Plus, built-in outlets and cable manag...
Acrolix 59" L Shaped Electric Standing Desk
 
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Sometimes balance looks like stepping away for a while. My tent gives me that safe, in-between space where I can rest, feel grounded, and reconnect to my own energy.
Tents and Tarps
 
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Love these planners. I like having something tangible to hold and write in. These are simple and give me enough room to write and doodle in. Budget is part of grounding as it helps you reevaluate some of your basic needs. Food. Water. shelter. Cloth...
Budget Planners & Notebooks | Track Expenses & Plan Your Finances...
 
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Many people or businesses use these for their store hours. Hours of operation. I use them.for myself to remind myself that after hours im not available to the world. Only to certain ppl or to myself. Its important to protect your peace, time and boun...
Open Closed Signs
 
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These are like small reminders from my higher self. I pull one when I need direction, grounding, or just a shift in perspective. The words seem to meet me right where I am, and the colors carry their own kind of medicine — blue for truth, pink for co...
Mindful Affirmations | Positive Affirmation Cards
 
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I love Zox.la !! Im a part of their loyalty program as well because I buy so many of these..I love them formyself but also to hand out to others!!
ZOX Bracelets - Elastic Band with Motivational Art
 
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Love these fun reminders. I also love to give them out to my friends and strangers.
Positivity Wristbands | Custom Wristbands - La Clé